How To Be A Strong Confident Woman With Powerful Feminine Presence: Inspirational Interview & Advice
thank you so much for joining us on your journey my name is Nathan with
manifest my own destiny and the video you're about to see was created in two
parts both featuring a wonderful woman and a beautiful soul by the name of
Rachael Jayne Groover of the YIN project the first part is just a little over 20
minutes long and includes an awesome interview with Rachael that dives deep
into the mystery and power of feminine presence following this powerful
interview is a second short clip around 6 minutes long which allows you to
demonstrate the art of feminine presence in your life immediately using a quick
and easy exercise provided by Rachel so make sure you don't miss that one too
towards the end finally to amplify your own personal presence and power and to
discover the one quality you need to become a magnet for wealth love
happiness and success make sure you see the link in the description below this
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Rachel Jane Gruber is the author of the best-selling book powerful and feminist
how to increase your magnetic present and attract the attention you want as an
accomplished singer and songwriter from Australia
Rachel Jane was most fascinated with why some performers had an incredible stage
presence while others who might have been technically brilliant did not
overcoming stage fright and enormous fear of rejection she became an
award-winning vocalist and finished her full-time singing career performing to a
live audience of 40,000 people before making the leap to live in the u.s. and
become an inspirational speaker and personal development trainer she now
travels the world teaching world women how to increase their personal presence
their feminine energy and their vocal power so they can walk into any room and
be seen and heard in the way they want she's the creator of she are the
feminine presence classes and trainings that are offered worldwide by herself
and over 150 certified teachers working with her she's the founder of the Y in
project and the feminine spirituality and leadership is vision
and at the end of our talk you will have a surprise where you'll see how combines
to offer fashion welcome thank you so much for accepting my invitation to
connect and guide through our discussion women on their path to their feminine
embracing their feminine presence and being present so there are many many
myths about feminine presence and strong and feminine let's let's get into some
of them and you know to clarify it what do we mean what do you mean by feminine
presence yes yes well I think that there is yin and yang aspects to life you know
there's the receiving aspects there's the giving aspects there's the emotional
aspect there's the logical there's the internal the introspective and then
there's the external and active so we could do this with all parts of us and I
think that we need a balance of both of those but when we get into our physical
body and into our being I'm a woman you're a woman the husband's a man and
there is something in our sexuality and our sensuality you know humaneness that
is feminine and men have a masculine essence so I like working with both of
those things helping women get more of a yin-yang balance because often women who
go into their feminine a soft and receiving and surrendered and they don't
get much done you know they're not leaving companies they're not you know
making things happen and I like you like I want to make some stuff happen in this
one this planet you know and do that so helping women get a balance of that but
doing it from their feminine essence from their woman nurse because when a
woman's coming from that place and she's making it all happen
there was so much more aliveness there was so much more happiness way less
draining way less stressed and that really goes into you know some of those
other myths that you know a lot of women have the feminine means you're not going
to get much done the feminine is not productive and my experience is
completely the opposite and we can maybe talk about that you know the feminine
myth is it's not safe to be feminine you know it's going to be unsafe I'm going
to get attention that I don't want or the feminine is weak the feminine the
ditzy I had a lot of these beliefs actually you know I've come from the
background of I am a strong independent woman I don't need a man I will make
things happen so to make that shift has been hard but I really really believe
that those myths just that mistakes that we make in thinking that feminine is all
that feminine is very strong it's a very powerful it's just a different type of
power can you share a bit you know what what triggered this transformation in
you and how did you arrive in this place yes well I've always been fascinated
with why certain people have a magnetic presence you know being a singer and all
of that just wanting to have that presence on stage and then moving to
being more of a speaker and coach I want to have presence and not feeling like I
really had it yes and you know trying to make that change and I was mostly
focused on strategies in my business yes which is very important yeah you know
like good build the email list shoot the videos do all the good things that
everyone says whether you're in corporate people are telling you what to
do I'm the ladder or if you're in you know your own business these are all the
things so I was doing that and I was not getting very far with my income or my
impact and I was getting very discouraged by particularly the income
because I was working my Twitter off and just you know my videos are shooting but
no one was like really passing them around
anywhere or you know I was making some sort of impact so I did look at my
industry which was the transformational industry is speaking and coaching and
facilitating and you know all of that making a difference and I realized that
those who were making a really big you know impact and income had a lot of
presence on stage on their videos when they were talking to people yes and I
wasn't so much and it was a bit of a like it you know go back to what you
were learning as a singer because I did I studied a lot of stage presence
haven't got my ability up for that so I looked and I realized I'm not focusing
on the presence and mostly on the strategies yes so I decided I would
focus there and master my presence and see what happens I began to be my own
guinea pig and I wanted to see how people would respond to them differently
with these practices and out of them in a presence because I am I hate it when
people just talk from concept yes I know it would work in my relationship with my
husband relationships with other women yes as I've had that you know
competition with other women and I you know I wanted that beat so people would
be attracted and I wanted to have really strong business relationships and I also
had a huge fear putting myself out there and selling myself and really self
promoting myself and my value and it had to work with that too and so there is
hope because you are so confident and magnetic when you come into I saw in
different context on stage I saw you in one-to-one with people it's just amazing
you wouldn't save yourself not being that way I mean really this work was
first for me yeah so I played with these practices I practice them and then
people started responding yes very really so I got five women from Fort
Collins Colorado morality like let's practice this because I'm feeling a huge
difference and from those five women we started doing we can yes we saw
having teacher trainings we've had over 250 women go through teacher training
now a lot of them like you said teaching classes and it's expanded because it
works this impact as I said it affects my business and exactly I love this when
you say because I I come originally from the corporate world I praised myself for
my brain and I was praised for my brain big heart and I experienced a lot of
competition with women because we were ambitious and you know grow going up on
the corporate ladder it's you don't have too many women they were not also they
were not too many role models and actually none none in terms of what I
needed and you know probably people are now very curious about those practices
you also work a lot with powerful successful women and the dynamic is very
interesting in these times we live in really challenging and exciting times
lots of people you know lose their job and they're transitioning maybe and in
many couples in many family families women start to shine to bring lots of
money on the table very successful and sometimes the men
are not at the level and there is this interesting dynamic how can you still be
very successful in what you're doing and not emasculate your men and you know
cherish the men and let the man be the man even your many maybe more successful
I think like Society has said if you're in the masculine you're the breadwinner
you know you make it the money at least as much so it's really important to see
the masculine with so many different gifts protection the service you know of
being in his strong just body presence to your conversation to holding you all
sorts of different ways because if we just tie it to that societal monetary
terms it's easy to go oh I'm with a man who's not performing or whatever and
that's not the case and at least for me my experience I'll just talk from that
you know more than a man making money I want my man to be in his power I want a
man to feel his arm power in his body and be present with me in a conversation
and make me feel like a woman when I need it and all of that lots of women
said yeah my men is not present and that man is it but yeah what do I need to do
to be present you know and are there any you know ways for a man to be present
because you just you're not born at present and I think there are also
practices that men can do to increase their presence right absolutely I would
say like one of the fundamental ones and the out of her presence is you know our
Center and you know versus head bubble that's the same with men so you know we
talk about that most people are in their mental body most of the time they're
thinking they're worrying they're you know what are they going to
go into what are they gonna say and it's from this head bubble which is like that
dialog box in the cartoons and they're literally out of their body thinking
about this and so I pop up in my body and I sound like this and I'm not very
present and and so we talked about centering into you know our womb space
for women but like it's about three inches below the navel and inside and
when we drop our attention there I become more present whether I'm a woman
or a man and so that's the first thing that we actually teach the guys to
sometimes we get the the men of the women who are in our classes to help
them say look this is what we're doing we're helping them
they're feminine that you need to be present with them because when we go
into our feminine so vulnerable to try and shift from into our sensuality and
12m identity if I did the same thing and when they're in their head bubble
they're not present but when they come into their centers like nice you know
there are so many people that unfortunately experience a disconnection
between the head and the body is likely the only function of the bodies to carry
the head she with this kind of art because I am a lot about embodiment we
you know that the times the coaching was only here mental and strategies as it's
all gone it needs to be in the body otherwise it's a rumor you know it's
it's here and it's so powerful when you know with with these practices and
techniques and exercises for me it was the missing point at the intelligence of
us as a woman and including your work into my business model and coaching
model and what I noticed women that are executives are very good with had their
head some have great you know hearts and it's it can be very scary at the
beginning to really go and drop down and start trusting a different kind of
intelligence than the cognitive one and in the same time I see how they are
blossoming and the impact on on their business do you do in your clients
because you have clients all over the world women they're entrepreneurs mainly
right how is it going with you how is it is it's for many women is difficult to
start trusting outside because we were conditioning here totally and when you
embody more of your lower body it's what happens is there is there's a greater
sense of safety yes there's a great a sense of security
in who you are and there's a great a sense of value it doesn't happen
overnight because it's like a yes but when that happens
no it's from this woman who's shop who's compassionate and now she feels so
secure yeah and value herself there is like a seriousness but nice feminine
seriousness and value and conviction that wasn't there when it was only smart
heart it's not heart there's something else that that comes that she owns hmm
and from the other side is that when I am here I have a very accurate read of
what's going on in other people yes No Eastern cultures know this right they
trained to be in don t n yes or ha you know in order to feel what's going on in
the environment and they don't look at it from here
and I've totally felt that yes that I can feel someone's telling me the truth
someone's not they are saying there are certain places but they're really not
yes and I can feel that from here if I'm not there and I'm just trying to read
from my heart and my head I don't got as accurate read of what's going on in the
room and for executives and for business people who are leading a team or
facilitating other people this is the best intuition yes yes and it pays off
go through the fear right of opening into the body because body that
never lies that's what I learned the body never lies you know all this like
I've got to get my message across and I've got to be smart that you know
people really want and more these days because we're getting so much more
conscious they're not going to listen until they feel your heart that you care
for them that there is safety around you I caught Mama Bear energy be the person
in the room that people feel safe around and that's not safe like phones
sweet and I'll give you a hug not that safe I mean like I will bet for you you
know and I am there for you and I'm not going to be in competition and again
that is so rare if you can be the woman in the room that is holding the space
for all the women to be bright and shine and when you do that people want to be
around you that's what you do it's like I want to be around you because you're
that type of woman that allows me to shine
yeah and you know what I another thing that comes into my mind that I love
about your practices my mother had a triple bypass operation for her heart
two years ago a few months ago we started belly dancing classes together
and I also have started to share with her you know from the practices that I
learned from you and my mother is 73 and I don't think that it's ever too late to
embrace our sister and really enjoy being in our body embrace the
magnificent women we are and because the beauty comes from within really does a
cliche but we experience a lot in your classes when we see women in and in my
classes you know women in all age group you know 20 feels I don't know 70 plus
so this is an amazing nothing I'm so honored you know my really my heart
sings it's like a joy that manifests in me when I'm around you and I'm very
grateful for you having the time to share your gifts with your with my
audience all around the globe and I hope that this will inspire and will educate
many women and men that have a important woman in their lives I'm wondering what
your view on the following is why do you think men employers would
want a powerful feminine woman working for them or being in a relationship with
what's your view on that well for the business side of things I think any
smart guy boss is looking to hire a lots of different skill sets and we know
subconsciously women know when they're in their feminine they have a different
skill set then man they tune into a situation environment different and when
someone's in there powerful women oh my god it's so magnetic you know it's so
magnetic and they respect that and they can see that she's got a point of view
it's just when women can maybe come with the masculine and then yeah competition
or not really claiming power yeah in relationships and intimate relationships
I have a string of smart conscious amazing men who a single looking for a
feminine woman they're complaining to just like the the women are I want a
masculine man I want a feminine woman because he wants someone to create that
polarity would have the passion with if it's all neutral and masculine and
masculine together doesn't create much attraction yes much polarity much juice
yes and then when they come away from their work hard hard hard all day long
when I come home do a masculine partner but they also don't want to come home to
this way I did see yes you know disembodied feminine that feels
weak and victim and all of that they are looking for that powerful and feminine
woman they can create the passion without you know the polarity yes and
you know looking in to my life before when I was not yet well I was not
interested in that part and embracing the full range of who I am
this had impact impacted my relationship with my husband what I have noticed the
more I expanded my range and I embraced my
feminine power the juiciness in my personal relationship has increased plus
also in the business let's face it we want authentic leaders right we just
feel why do you think people follow you around the world people follow because
you walk your talk you're authentic people want to be inspired people want
to follow authentic real leaders and I think unless we work our shadows and we
embrace our shadows embrace all aspects of who we are and you do this a lot with
your work we we're not authentic and when we are authentic actually we make
more money because people follow if people do better and we create the space
right yes and again that's scary in the beginning yeah it is you created this
successful business and you create partnership partnerships and one thing
that I admire and I really teach a lot of people as long as we operate and live
from a scarcity mentality we make money but it's limited the magic happens when
we get into an abundance way of thinking and I love one of the partnership that
you have with also very known person in the transformation industry and I love
the way you help each other in growing because I think that that's the way
helping you know at least school we were taught we had an exam or something or
you know we're in school don't talk to your neighbor don't talk to your
neighbor in today's world if we do not come
with our neighbor and our partners we don't get far very fast it's too hard
yeah we've got so much wisdom everyone yeah and it's sharing the wisdom and
knowing that if I support you you support me and that's this I don't think
I was that early on I was coming from scarcity mentality I was coming from I
don't want to you know if I give my secrets away they're gonna yes better
than me and I'm gonna end it's been so the opposite remember one of my business
mentors said find you know three or four people that are around the same level as
you that are really loving that there's not that are going where you're going
and help each other as you mastermind you know yeah and that was so valuable
yeah and I've just been able to keep those you know yeah all relationships
that full number of relationships and we cleared it to each other
hi I'm Rachel Jane Gruber from the end project
I love teaching women how to develop your personal presence so they can walk
into any room and attract the attention they want whether it's in a business
room or a networking room where you want to create rapport with someone really
easily or do something to advance your business whether it's on the dating
scene and you want to attract the attention of a sexy masculine partner
doesn't matter where you are what room you're in but there are certain
practices that you can do is to develop this magnetic quality that gets you
noticed so today I want to give you one fundamental practice that I teach in all
of my classes on the art of feminine presence I'm currently teaching them
here in northern Colorado and I'm going to be in Melbourne Australia at the end
of next week to do three classes there on April 18 25 and may 2nd so if you're
in either of those places I'd love to see you and have you in the room here
but if you're not I've got a practice that you can do right now very easily
that will increase presents immediately so you've probably
heard me talk about that the feminine energy in your body starts moving in the
hips the lower belly and the pelvis and moved up to the heart where the
masculine energy starts more in the upper chest and the shoulders and runs
down the arms and so for I was just saying that the feminine energy started
or resided in one particular place in your body you would say that that is in
the center point and the center point of your room space is below the navel it's
about three inches below the navel it is the don t end point that we talked about
and she called mataichi and this point is the center of your
energetic field when my attention is outside or in my head I'm not in my body
there is a whole different presence that I have then when I come inside my body
and I'm focused at this point have you heard of the saying where your attention
goes energy flows when I attention this outside of our body our personal
presence is squashed when our attention is inside our body
particularly for women in the center point of your womb space your personal
presence is magnified so just for a moment go three inches below the navel
and that's also in side the body so it's the center point here and the center
point there and I'm going to demonstrate as best as I can just in the minute we
have here I am going to talk about a subject let me think of a subject let's
talk about Australia my trip to Australia so I'm going to talk just for
a few seconds and I'm going to be outside my head so this cloud bubble
often we we speak and we're not at all present we're sort of
somewhere here or over the other side of the room have you been in that situation
where someone's talking to you you're like Hello
are you are you present with me so I'm in my head and I'm going to talk to you
I'm going to Australia at the end of next week and I'm very excited to go
because I haven't been back to five years I'm really excited to see my
friends and family of course I have got my classes that are going on which I'm
very excited about there's just a lot to look forward to okay so that is in my
head now I'm going to bring my attention down into my womb space and you can do
it too as you're listening to me bring your attention from your head into your
room space lower belly and I'm going to talk to you now from this place about my
trip to Australia and I'm going at the end of next week it's been five years
since I've been back and I love my family I adore my family and it's really
hard to not see them often it's been two years since I've seen most of them
because they came over for my wedding but it's gonna be an interesting trip to
go back and see friends that I haven't seen for a long time so that's the place
that I speak of when I'm in my room space and you probably could feel it
even in the camera what my practice is is if I see two eyeballs in front of me
someone comes up to me with a conversation my first or I try to make
this my first question is am i home in my energetic power centre as a woman or
am i up in my head so my invitation this week is for you to try that if you
notice you're in conversation with someone or you're walking into a room
and you're in your head concerned about what someone else is thinking or you're
just not present come inside this point and walk from there if you're a
presenter you could use this when you're in front of the room feeling like you're
speaking from lower in your belly if you are walking over to greet a date come
into in space for if you're working walking
into any room this week take a moment to ground center this is the center point
of your feminine energy your feminine power and when you are here people
relate to you differently I've seen it time and time again so I hope some of
you will practice this have a wonderful rest of your day or evening wherever you
are coming into your energetic feminine power center thank you for watching this
video my friends I hope you really enjoyed it make sure you leave a comment
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