a lot of times in life are so caught up with the world around us and
my friends and family
we're trying to fix all of their problems and fix everything around us and try to be the hero really and
Save the world
But we don't take any time to reflect on who we are
What we want in life and what really makes us happy
we just get so lost and consumed with everything around us that we
Go through life really lost and we don't know
What makes us happy we don't know
what to do next and
you know as you get older you start thinking yourself and what am I doing with my life or am I going and
Do I have the right friends enough? Should I talk to this person or not is?
My friendship with them
Knows is it any good it continued like this
You start asking yourself some of the questions and you
know a lot of questions are
Ones that are good to ask, you know, but I think that sometimes we spend so much time
Trying to understand people around us a bit
We lose touch with ourselves. We lose touch of no the things that made us happy in life and as we get older
We think of the person that we used to be we think of the things that used to make us happy, you know
Growing up as a kid
Would always made me happy it was no drawing
being creative creating things and
As I got older I
Tried to pursue other things
things caught up with me in life and
there were times to where I
just got so involved in other people's problems and trying to fix everyone around me then I
Pretty much lost touch with who I am
What I want in life and you know as you get older you get involved with
working a lot
you get involved with some so many other things that happen, you know, you know, some of you have kids and a family and
you just
spent so much time on everybody else and
Sometimes people expect you to help them or to
You know do things that
you've always done for them and they rely on you they rely on your help and
then
Without your help. They don't know who they are
And I think that you know, if you're a helpful person or hearing the person that is always getting help from others
either way
Those people have trouble understanding
Themselves and
Knowing in life what they want and knowing what makes them happy
And
If you're just always going around helping other people
eventually, what's gonna happen is you're
Just not going to understand yourself you're not going to know the things that
Make you happy in life, and eventually you're going to get to a point to where you
spend all this time on other people and then you get lost and
Who you are and then?
you're no longer able to help other people anymore because
You've lost her own identity and
Sometimes when we do get older we think back to who we are
when we were younger and who we used to be
you know the good times whatever happened to me, you know, and I
Think that's what happens a lot of times. We just get so caught up in the whole world around us that
You know, we're trying to clarify lols. It makes sense of everything
When we should just try to make sense of ourselves and try to understand who we are
And I think that in the process of doing that
After to understand yourself, you know the things that make you happy the things that give you purpose in life
no when you wake up in the morning, what is it that
Drives you to get out of bed. What is it that drives you to go through your day and to
Continue doing things that you wouldn't want to do
and
You'll reach a point to where there's something in pursuing as a goal or something that you want in life and
If if you don't clarify and understand yourself
You lose that goal you lose the hope to
Continue pursuing it
and know that that's all involved with goals and dreams and things you want to do in life and
If you lose touch of who you are
while pursuing that goal or that dream
then
You're just never going to make it there you'll never be able to reach your full potential and
What you want to try to do with just to be the best version of who you are
Don't try to be like everybody else. Don't try to just do whatever anybody else is doing
just because it's popular or just because maybe they're popular and think sometimes people get caught up in this idea of
popularity and trying to be a certain type of person in
Trying to do the things that everybody else is doing just because it's working for them
You have to find out what works for you in life. You have to find what makes you happy and
if you don't take the time to
Figure out what it is that makes you happy these things in life lit. Will it matter to you?
Then you're just going to be spending time. You know, it's lost
Its running through life not taking the time to enjoy the moment not taking the time to
Reflect on what you're doing and
That'll leave you to where you're living your life
Just thinking of the future
only thinking of
the things that you
Want to be in life the things you're going to be and we we talk about these things that we're gonna do and the things
that we're gonna be
but we never put them into action and
Years go by and then you think what ever happened to me?
no, Who am I now and
That's when people you have their
what they would call like a midlife crisis and
they don't know what to do with their life next and they just uh, they get lost and
then they make
really bad decisions in life and though they
it has completely changed for for the wrong reasons for and
You know as I said before you always try to help other people you can try to do everything we can to help
the world around you but
If you can't help yourself if you can't clarify who you are
What you are and what you want in life
then
life is gonna pass you by and you're gonna just be
Standing there when you're much older
Not knowing who you are
And I see a lot of people pursuing things. They think that makes them happy, you know, and
Sure there are decisions in life that are
Logical ones things that you should do, you know
and but they also see people to
pursue something that they think is going to make them happy and that's something that makes everyone else happy and
then they pursue it and they keep trying to
trying to be that person and
In the process of doing that and they're spending all this time trying to be that type of person
They're not happy, you know that they look back ten years ago 20 years ago and they think back
This isn't the life that I want you
You know for me, I never won the life of only working. I didn't want to just work in the whole life and
Then that's it. You know, I wanted to want to do things on my thanks and give me purpose and I
didn't want
The jobs that I worked to define who I am I didn't want
everything around me to define who I am and I
wanted to find my
own life
by my own decisions and by
My own clarity of understanding myself. I didn't want I
Just never wanted the same life. Everybody else wanted and trying to be no slowing or not
Just to please other people because maybe they don't understand who you are. Maybe they don't accept you to are
and
Just because you're not like everyone else and just because people don't understand you
What they don't accept you doesn't mean you should try to change who you are just to police them
Because in the end it doesn't really matter
All that much what everyone else thinks about you?
It doesn't really matter whether or not they think that you are
Interesting to talk to you is they think that you're cool or whatever it is because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter
What goal you're following what dream you have because
If you don't believe in yourself and you don't believe that
You can do it and you don't believe that whatever it is you're pursuing is something that is
Important to you to where you're not just doing it to please other people
You're not doing it to try to be like other people to try to be cool and to fit in
You know just try to do things that make you happy
Stop looking at the world around you and trying to fit in with things and trying to be
something that other people are just because they don't that to you or just because they think that you know
What you're doing is impossible or that your goals and dreams?
Cannot be achieved
Just because they haven't achieved them and there's always going to be people in life and try to put you down and tell you that
what you're doing can't be achieved and
It might be from jealousy
Or maybe they were pursuing a goal like that and they couldn't do it. So they try to bring you down and
Make you feel like he can't be possible because they don't want to see people achieve
Things that they couldn't achieve in life
So they try to bring all those people down
But just try to understand yourself
Try to learn what it is that makes you happy what gives you passion
To even get out of bed in the morning until you're going through every single day over and over and over
if you're waking up every day, and you're still questioning yourself of
Why am I doing this? Why?
Do I even get up every morning to do this if it doesn't make you happy and it's not improving you as a person
Then it's time for the change
And sometimes we be terrified of that change
But sometimes that's what we need is a really big change in life really to push us to stop
repeating this cycle of telling ourselves that we're gonna change and do something in the future and
Then it gets there and said another five years passed by then. Nothing ever happens
So just be yourself
Learn to understand yourself learn to understand what makes you happy in life
And stop worrying so much about what?
The world around you things
Because if you don't take time to clarify and understand yourself
It doesn't matter what you do then because in the end
The world is always going to keep going life is going to just keep going time is gonna keep going
and
the thing that you have to remember is
As you get older you're going through life as that
It was life passes you by
If you don't take time to learn who you are
You're gonna look back in your life
Way in the future 20 30 40 50 years from now and you'll think to yourself
Why didn't I just take that chance? Why didn't I just try to do the things in life that made me happy?
Rather than trying to do
what I thought
Would make me happy based on the decisions of everyone else
So just
Go out in the world
Do the things that
Give you a purpose in life. Whatever your passion is. That doesn't matter if your passion is um
No a different hobby other than art, it could be sports
It could be any type of athletic things you could be into computers or maybe
The health field it doesn't matter what it is. As long as you try to just be yourself and
Just take the time to understand who you are
Because sometimes in life we
Oh, we don't always have someone there to talk to you
We don't always have someone there to help us and there's going to be times in life where that happens
And when that happens and you don't understand yourself, you have no one to talk to you
That's when you really have a problem
It's sometimes in life. The only person that we have to talk to you the only person who might listen
and the only person that will believe in you when the times are the most difficult and when you are just
At the point to where things are very difficult. You don't think you can go any farther
Sometimes the only person is there is you
You've got to learn to accept who you are
understand yourself clarify yourself
Just keep doing the things that give you a passion to keep going every single day
And remember never give up
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