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there. Now on with the show. Hi, I'm Susan Bratton, your trusted hot sex adviser, and
I am thrilled to be here with Dr. Charles Runels. We're talking about the
difference between the G Shot and the O Shot and you'll see other videos where
we talk specifically about the procedures and what they're like. We also
talk about the actual genitalia but in this particular case what we want to
start with is the G Spot. You and I both agree it's not a spot it's an area. I
like to call it the G area but why don't you describe what that tissue is like,
where it's located and any other things you have that are your personal opinions
through all these years of helping women stimulate their tissue and regenerate
their tissue using your protocols. So I really think that there's a lot of
wishful thinking on the part of men that they might find this secret. If I happen
to find your secret g-spot that no other man has found you're somewhat
suddenly going to be addicted to me for the rest of your life and be my little
sex slave. It's just wishful thinking. But on the other hand, there is an area as
you mentioned, and Dr. Graefenburg after whom the G-spot was named really thought
of it as the entire length of the urethra as being very erotic. But
obviously along that length there might be areas that are more sensitive
and more arousing than others. So if you go along with the urethra, if you start at
the bladder and go along the urethra, and that's your pee tube.
It goes from your bladder out and exits just above your vaginal opening. So
there's a little hole below your clitoris and above the opening to your
vagina which is called your introitus. That's the urethral exit where you pee
and your female ejaculate comes out. So right near that opening, not near the
bladder, but near the opening on the inside like a little cluster of grapes
around the urethra, sits the Skenes gland
just as it does in a male. The prostate gland sort of drapes around the
urethra and when a man ejaculates, most of the fluid comes from the prostate
gland off from the testicles. So some people have postulated that may be the
G Spot, but I really think it's just wishful thinking. Most people now
think more about the the genital urethral complex or in areas you
mentioned, the urogenital. It's all there, clitoris, the urethra, the
Skene's gland, but the surprising part to most people I think is that the
sensitivity of the actual part that you're touching within the vagina itself
is not really that sensitive. It's what's on the other side of the wall.
The the vaginal mucosa doesn't necessarily have a lot of sensation to
it but yes on the other side. Sherri Winston, she's an amazing sex
researcher. She wrote the Woman's Anatomy of Arousal which was the sex book of
the year, one of the best books I've ever read about women's arousal patterns, and
the way she explained the G area was she described it as one of those
long extruded plastic pool noodles. They're puffy foam.
She said that in her imagination she believed that the Skene's
glands surrounded the urethral canal and that that's where all
the glands were, and that that tissue with those glands
was what liked to be stimulated. That's how I've always imagined it. How in your
experience, correct me, tell me what right. Yeah I think that that's
right. It may not be completely right. I think that just like some men
enjoy having their prostate stimulated, there's a certain sensation there and
there are some women that I'm sure enjoy that particular sensation, and as
you know before a woman ejaculate that fills and you can feel an actual
swelling in that area before the ejaculation but then as you know there's
also the clitoris, that corpus cavernosa, corpus spongiosum and
the clitoris draped around the vaginal wall and there's pleasure from that
being simulated and there's the urethra itself. There are
many cases of women losing things inside the bladder because they're putting
something actually in the urethra itself because feels good and
so it's odd to think about but when the man and the woman
have sex, they're actually rubbing penises together or they're rubbing clitorises
together whatever your orientation. It's the same structure and that
urethra, the entire length of it is important I think.
How far back does that urethral sensitivity area go because I've
recently rewritten our g-spot toy guide and I'll put a link to that below the
video and I've been using some of those rocker type of g-spot stimulation tools
and not just going right in where most people think the g-spot is
right inside the vagina and that that's where
it's this is the spot, but it seems to me that all of that tissue is
becoming for me more and more enlivened, more and more sensitive all the way up
along the roof of the vagina. That's straight Dr. Gothenburg.
That's this whole idea. I happen to be lucky enough to go to medical school
that included a sex course which is rare back in the 80s and one of the
first lectures the professors showed a video of a woman ejaculating
and he said "I want no one to leave this medical school thinking that female
ejaculation is not real. Everyone who leaves this medical school needs to know
this is a real thing" and it's shocking to me how many gynecologists still
doubted I guess because they'd never seen it before.
But years later I had a lover who could masturbate and ejaculate.
Sort of like a party trick. She ejaculated and I still didn't
really get it. I thought well that's interesting but it didn't ever happen in
our lovemaking that I knew of and then years after that I had another lover and
I was giving oral sex and she ejaculated
surprisingly and it wasn't the goal but when she did, it was her first
time and my first time to see it happen because of something I was doing.
But that's not really what made it fascinating. What made it fascinating was
that she had a different emotional response to that orgasm from her
usual orgasm. And so that was interesting to me and I noticed
that was pretty common that it would be a more like what
you see with a man where she became more relaxed, more open emotionally, a little
sleepy maybe. If it were her usual multiple quick orgasms,
they were mostly clitoral, and so I became more fascinated after that
reading and thinking about it in much more depth because of emotional
response. Has that been your experience? I think there's a
lot of g-spot massage. They call it goddess healing massage. A lot of tantric
practitioners are teaching yoni and lingam massage and a part of what
they're teaching is awakening that G area
and allowing the pent up emotions that there could be
emotions of being sexually shamed, being sexually abused or even just
sadness and losses and longings of everyday life. We're all human.
I speak from personal experience that when my husband
started opening me to my g-spot pleasure, When I would first have release,
it was the release of sad and stuck emotion and sometimes
the sounds that would come out when I was having an orgasm that was
from g-spot stimulation was like a chicken cackling or a witchy sound and
then sometimes I would just spontaneously cry. I've seen that
frequently after ejaculation. Just a really nice release but that
goes away and the woman seemed to melt into a more
emotional bond after an ejaculatory orgasm. Definitely I think the reason why
lovers like it when a woman ejaculate is that emotional surrender and that
letting go and letting down and melting heart. It's a very heart melting
thing but also I think for many people they like the proof that she
really let go when you can see fluid, you know that there you've got that visual
proof that she just completely surrendered to that pleasure and let
that go. What a lot of women end up doing is
tightening to have their orgasms, especially their clitoral orgasms.
They're holding on trying to put all
their energy there but women can't be successful with female ejaculation
unless they actually let go, the orgasms come out of you, and so I think often
women who are able to have female ejaculatory experiences and
they're not always tied to the feeling of orgasm like
in the clitoris. It can be that there's separate systems
obviously just like a man can be separate systems. A man can have
full-body orgasmic pleasure without ejaculating, a woman can ejaculate
without an orgasm. You learn to master these and separate them and play
with them but generally I think there's something about the enteric
nervous system and that it is an emotional seat for us and I believe it
is an emotional seat for men as well. So prostate stimulation is an emotional
release for men if they allow it to be. I think again same parts in a different
order. We all started out with the same issue. I think
men should give themselves more time to become aroused
and partners should play with each other's genitals for a lot longer before
they try penetration to get all that tissue engorged. There's actually a study
of men who are confined to ships for a long time and showing that men who,
because no woman's available, start to ejaculate from stimulation from a man,
they then develop an emotional relationship and with the man and
what stimulates them starts to change. Just one of the studies showing that
what happens when you have an ejaculatory orgasm can bring people closer again.
It doesn't have to be the goal of your lovemaking session but my observation
has been that people become closer when that happens which makes it
almost a responsibility I think so much so that I don't want a
woman to have an ejaculatory orgasm with me unless I intend to be close to her
because I know that bond is a possibility and it's not ethical to make
it happen if I'm not going to reciprocate in some way. I've had
many men tell me that when they understand how to give a woman female
ejaculatory pleasure and g-spot pleasuring that they have to
extricate themselves from the relationships, that it becomes
too much. They have to be very careful. You're not the only one that I've heard
say that. It's very common. I know we want to talk about the g-shot specifically so
let's do that in the next video. We'll see on the other side.
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