hi guys it's Candice with Kings prosper Network and Motor Club of America today
I want to share with you some ways to stay MCA positive no matter what's going on
maintaining a positive mindset is very very important especially in this
Motor Club of America business that we're in so I just wanted to share some of those ways with you
guys so let's get through this intro and I'll be right back
welcome back you guys so today let's talk about ways to stay MCA positive
positivity is so important not only in our businesses but also in all of our
relationships whether they are family relationships whether they're
friendships relationships with our spouse or significant other or with our
children or even just people in general it is always important to maintain
MCApositivity okay and the first way that we can maintain
positivity is to count our blessings we are so blessed and I think more often
than not we tend to overlook my blessings because we're just used to
them they've just become commonplace but we haven't we have a house to live in
where an motor club of america apartment to live in we have food to eat we have clothes to wear all
of those are blessings you guys so when you recognize those and you can say hey
I am blessed you are maintaining positivity another thing to do is to
focus on the positive don't focus on the negative
okay negative stuff happens all the time and we can let it bring us down and we
can we can just lay down and say oh you know oh this is happening oh this is
happening I don't like this it happens but don't focus on it it's one thing to
get knocked down and get back up but to get knocked down and just lay down there
and wallow in it no no no no no you get up and you step on negativity I'm gonna
punch you in the face you know don't let the negativity get you down focus on MCA the
positive flip it flip it and see the good okay for instance I saw so many
people on my team were killing it last week sales sales sales sales I'll be
honest with you I didn't get in sales last week but you know what I
didn't let that affect me I was happy for them okay and so I get to give
thanks and be like wow it's awesome for them thank you God that they are doing
so well but if I wanted to sit there and shrink back and be all pouty and whitey
and oh that didn't happen for me no it didn't but you know what it will it
won't happen for me and I know that if what happened for me okay some weeks we
make sales some weeks we don't but I'm not gonna let it keep me down here you
guys you know so you have to focus on the positive so there's always something
there's always what's that saying oh my gosh
a silver a silver lining in every cloud okay I think that's the same yeah look
for the silver lining because there is always something positive to look for
okay even the Bible says that whatsoever things are true whatsoever things are
lovely whatsoever things are pure you know focus on these things
think on these things and that is so true another thing that you can do to
stay positive is to pray in the praise okay because when we ask God to bless us
he hears us and he will you know when we praise God and say thank you just thank
you for who you are thank you for everything that you do you
know when we praise Him there's no room for negativity all right I know that the
enemy likes to get in there and fill our heads with all kinds of stuff and that's
where you hold up your stop sign and you'd say no nope
stop the mind traffic no and seriously praise God because he's the giver of all
good things right another thing that we need to do
is be grateful be grateful when we grumble and we complain you are actually
blocking your own blessing because it's not going to get through it's not going
to get through so you have to be grateful start off with this little
sentence and it says I get two and then you fill in the blank okay like I get to
speak to you guys on my video that turns this into a positive alright now I'll be
honest with you I don't enjoy doing videos at all I don't like to look at
myself in the video I don't like to hear myself on the video but I know that God
has given me a voice and there are things that he wants me to say and
impart to people so that they can see themselves the way that he sees them and
so that they can see their self-worth and their value and they know that they
can do great things okay and if I didn't share these things with you if I just
said nope I'm not gonna do videos because I don't like to do them then I
would be robbing you guys of knowing that you are capable of changing your
mindset and that you are capable of doing great things and that you are
capable of success and you would know that God wants to see you succeed he's
like your biggest cheerleader you guys so I can say I get to do videos I get to
share this with other people you know I get to give thanks I get to blink you
fill in the blank okay what is it that you get to do alright another thing that
we need to do to stay positive is to celebrate the small victories not
everything has to be huge win all right it doesn't have to be
even the smallest little victory I remember when I was first starting
starting um Kido okay because I'll be honest with you carbs than me we just
don't mix it's like a huge love-hate relationship it's one of those toxic
relationships I love the carbs if they don't love me
and when I first started keto I had lost four pounds the first week and have a
celebrate my small victory and you need to do something nice for yourself when
you hit a little milestone or you know stay with your business and you've
gotten fifty leads out there all right that's a small victory because leads
turn into sales so don't dismiss that as nothing celebrate it you know and you
have to take care of yourself all right you have to take some time out for you
go do something nice for yourself go buy you that that shirt over there at
t.j.maxx or Old Navy okay it's okay to do those things for yourself it's not
selfish you need to take care of yourself as well
self-development is huge you guys is important and you want to make sure that
when you do self development that you get in the habit of doing it daily all
right because we are always growing we are always evolving we are always
expanding our minds okay so I don't know what self development looks like for you
now for me it was reading learning more about myself learning what
my strengths and my weaknesses were there are so many different ways for you
to practice self development like there are so many books out there there are
videos out there that you can watch on YouTube just like you're watching a
video now on YouTube you guys in another way that you can really find out your
Worth and your strengths and how to live your life is the Bible okay the Bible to
me is my hugest my biggest go-to self development book and that's something
that I do every morning I spend my time with God and I pray and I praise and I
read his word and then I read some other self-development books as well and I
keep a journal a gratitude journal those are very important you know so
self-development personal development whatever you want to call it that is
very important and that she become a daily habit and I think the biggest
thing as far as positivity goes honestly and this is something I'm gonna be
really real with you and it's something I still ursin okay you cannot compare
yourself to anybody else you shouldn't because you are your own unique person
and comparison is the thief of joy all right we we as humans we always want to
look at somebody else and be like oh I wish I was like that or I wish I could
do that don't do that you guys seriously look at you and look at your own unique
strengths and the things that you bring to the table because we all do
all right it's like an apple wanting to be an orange that doesn't make any sense
the apple should be happy that the Apple is an apple okay and it should be happy
that the orange is an orange but if an Apple wanted to be an orange it would be
sorely disappointed when somebody wanted to go make some orange juice right
because it wouldn't be orange juice would be apple juice I know for me I am
miserable when I start comparing myself to other people all right and it does it
makes a person miserable because what you're doing is you're looking at what
this person can do that you're not doing when you're not even focused on what you
do well and that's what you need to focus on focus on what you do well and
don't worry about what this person over here is doing I heard last week but this
is probably a better analogy than the apples and the oranges but they said
don't compare your chapter one to someone else's chapter 20 okay you don't
know what it costs that person to get to where they're at right now and when we
all start out with our businesses we are all starting at the bottom we start down
here at the bottom everybody even those top income earners they started at the
bottom you guys they didn't just start and then boom the next day they woke up
and they were making two three thousand dollars a week that's not how it works
all right they started down here too and hopefully you have a sponsor that is
pouring into you I'm so grateful for the sponsor that I have because she is going
into this team like you would not but if you don't have a sponsor that's
pouring into you then you pour in to yourself okay and realize that
everything happens for a reason and if you're if you do have to do this on your
own know that you can know that you have the strength to do this that you can
overcome any obstacle that's put in front of you
so I hope that you found some value in this I hope that this has helped you in
some way and I would appreciate it if you guys would please give this video a
like you know share it with somebody who may need to learn some ways to stay
positive and if you comment below I would so appreciate that I love to hear
from you guys I really appreciate all the love I've been getting recently on
my videos and please subscribe to my channel Kings Cross for network if you
haven't already and I'm gonna get off here and I won't be seeing you guys in
the next video have a great day and God bless
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