Today I want to talk about
the resistance that I'm noticing
that healers have
towards running a business.
It's totally understandable.
If you are a healer
and you started your business,
you started it
not becasue you love business
or...
not even probably because
you want to make tons of money,
but just because
you love to heal
and you want to
share your gift with others.
So the driver
that you have
is being of service.
That's your primary driver.
And running a business
is kind of the secondary thing
that you have to figure out
on top of this
love that you have
for...
healing... and maybe coaching,
or some other service that you provide.
I want to address this from
two perspectives.
The first perspective is
the collective and the global, kind of,
aspect to it,
and then the personal one.
So, from the global perspective,
what has happened
a few years ago
is humanity entered
into a new age,
called the Aquarian age.
In the past,
when we were in the Piscean age,
and, probably, prior to that as well,
the way that we
could grow spiritually
was by...
retreating into temples,
churches,
and... the bush,
and sanctuaries,
and places like that.
And it was easy
because
we didn't have to think
about how to make our living,
we didn't have to figure out
how to make it work,
how to sell our cervices.
So, we are the first wave of healers
who are coming
to the market, so to speak,
and have to make
this work as a business.
Otherwise you can't really
do what you love to do.
So in order for you
to do more of what you love to do
you need to play by...
You need to play the game.
You need to know the rules of the game.
And the rules of this game
in the Aquarian age,
it's the age,
when we are meant to
make it work
in the business sence.
Where entrepreneurship
is blooming,
which you can see, right?
Online business,
entrepreneurship,
is really really hot right now!
So if you are a healer
and you are sitting there
and you kind of going:
'Yeah, yeah, I love healing,
but I just don't like selling,
I don't like marketing,
I don't like systems...'
Then... I've got bad news for you.
You've got to figure it out.
And the reason it's hard
is because
we are the first ones.
We've got to figure it out.
We are the front line, so to speak.
So we are the first healers
who have to find out
how to do it
and figure out how to do it.
So that's the collective perspective.
just to put a bigger light
on the...
resistance that you are experiencing,
it's not personal,
and it's not just you.
This is every healer
that I speak to
when I work with my clients,
this is the big big big issue
that blocks everyone.
So we've got this gift,
but we've got the fear
of putting ourselves out there,
we don't like the systems,
somehow it's too constricting,
and...
Yeah, so there is a lot a lot a lot of negativity
around what it means
to run a business.
And so I just want you to have that
bigger perspective in mind
that actually
when you
are figuring out
how to make your business work,
as a healer,
you are contributing
to the humanity,
and to our evolution
in this massive, extraordinary way.
You are really
creating a path
for everyone
who is to follow.
And together we are breaking
through this resistance
and creating this new wave,
new wave of possibilities.
Yeah, running a successful business
as a healer!
Imagine
if all healers
were doing that!
And they will, they will.
But somebody
has got to start.
And that's us.
So the second part to it
is the personal part.
And where I see
the blockage happens in there
or... incongruency
is...
when we think about
what it means to run a business,
and...
it feels hard
in terms of even like...
not just hard in terms of hard work,
yes, it is,
but also
the energy when we tune into that,
the energy feels hard,
it feels sharp,
it feels not flowing...
Because as a healer
you, probably,
love and enjoy
this energy
when you are in a healing
session with somebody
it's flowing,
it's beautiful,
it's open,
it's free...
So we could say
that's the feminine energy,
that's the receptive energy,
that's the connecting,
the flowing,
the kind of really yummy energy.
And creative, as well.
And the other energy,
when you think about the business,
it's hard,
it's boxed-in, you know,
systems, structures,
schedules...
all that kind of stuff.
And so we could call that
'Oh, that's the masculine'
because it's the organizational skills,
and putting things in place,
and then,
you know, there could be this feeling
of push push push,
having to push ourselves out.
And what I want to say is that:
Yes, that's correct.
That can feel like this
if
we do this thing
that I call switching.
So, we are in this client mode
or some other mode
of creating content, for example,
where it's open,
it's free, it's creative,
it's flowing.
And then we are switching
into this other aspect of the business,
which is the masculine,
of schedule system,
structures and pushing out, so to speak.
Yeah that's very very difficult.
And that creates incongruency
and resistance
towards this other one
that you don't like.
Actually, the way I like to look at it:
it's all one.
And I want in my business,
and that's what I teach my clients,
is to become whole
and so that the feminine and the masculine
are working together in you
and in your business.
So, it doesn't feel like:
'Oh here's me over there,
and, oh, these other things that I have to do...'
So here is an example:
you could have the feminine
the creator of the flowing energy,
and if it's not contained,
if it's not structured
and if it's not brought into...
reality
then it's just fluff.
And it doesn't serve anybody.
So you may have plenty of ideas,
you may even be receiveng
divine scenes,
but if you do not have
masculine energy harnessed in
and working
together
with your feminine
then nothing happens.
The book doesn't get written,
the offer doesn't go out,
nobody gets to find out about it...
Nothing happens.
So, you see, we need both.
You have these beautiful ideas,
you have these beautiful skills
and healing capacity
that you want to share with others,
but without the masculine
nothing will happen.
No one will come.
So you actually need
to be able to use
the masculine side of you
to organize
your feminine.
I know it doesn't like that
but it's not about being bossy
or limiting it any way,
because I know
that's how you are thinking about it
but actually it isn't.
It isn't about limiting it or...
structuring it to...
to constrict it in any way,
it's actually to back it up,
to give...
to give form
to something
so that it can be
manifested into reality,
so it can be born
to share with others.
So, imagine,
you are having these beautiful ideas
and creativity
and all this is flowing.
And when your divine masculine
is working on a high frequency
and expressing positively
then it's coming
right behind the feminine
and pulling things in place.
So idea came -
content gets written.
Sales page comes up -
offer goes out.
And then you've got the systems
that actually allow you
to take payments
and to deliver
your services to others.
So you see, you actually have to have both.
I know that you know
that you need systems, structures
and things like that,
but maybe you haven't thought about it
in such a way
that...
It's not there as
'Ohhh... I've got to do this thing...'
No.
I don't want you to think like that,
it's there
so that your feminine
and your creative side
can express itself
with even more freedom
and even more power.
Becasue if you don't have
systems and structures
it's all over the place,
you are not benefiting from it,
neither are your clients.
So here are the two levels for you:
First one - it's not just you,
it happens to all healers.
And we are all breaking through
this resistance,
resistance to
making business
out of our healing...
gifts.
And we are in this...
age, that we are meant to
break through that
difficulty
and become successful,
as healers
in the business world.
So, and the second part to it is:
Hmm, look inside yourself
and see:
are you leaning
towards this
feminine side of you
and you are blocking
and resisting
the masculine side
because of
what you think it means
and how you think
it will feel
when you do it?
I know that in the past,
when you tried to do it,
maybe that's how it felt.
But what I want you to do is now
think about it differently
and, when you are doing it,
keep your feminine there.
So, you do not switch from
'Oh, this is me over there'
and 'This is me over here'.
No.
I want you to do it as a whole.
So, you are as a whole
when you are with your clients,
when you are being creative.
And you are as a whole
when you are showing up
in front of your computer
making offers,
writing content
or whatever you are doing.
So, I hope you can do this.
And I hope this serves you.
Let me know if it does.
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