Hello again, beautiful people!
Today's topic is going to be on expectations.
So we're gonna cover expectations for yourself and expectations of others.
I think I'm gonna do the expectations of others first, and then give you the expectations
of what you should have for yourself.
So, when it comes to expectations for others, I believe that when you expect another person
to be a certain way, do a certain thing, act a certain way, any of that, that's taking
away from their spontaneity as a human being.
We are all people, we are all capable of spontaneity and we all have the capacity to change at
any moment that we decide.
So if we expect other people to be a certain way, we're putting them in a box in our own
head and I feel like it's a little bit insulting to confine them to that pattern of behavior
or their personality or whatever, because you NEVER know!
You never know what might happen in somebody's life where they might decide to change up
for the good OR for the bad!
So you can't expect anybody to be a certain way or do a certain thing, because again that
takes away from the spontaneity of their soul, of them as a person.
We as people, we as humans have the power to change at any time, so why put them in
a box?
Be open to surprises!
If you don't expect somebody to be a certain way, you can still be surprised when they
change up, that's the beauty of it, everybody wins with that perspective, I feel.
So I believe that's all for expectations, expecting others, expectations of others.
Now, expectations you should have for yourself.
Now my assumption, even though I don't like to assume things, I don't like to assume anything,
my assumption is that everybody wants to win.Everybody wants to be successful, whatever success means
to them, in their own life.
If you want to have an amazing life, if you want to have a successful life, if you want
to be a winner in your life, you need to EXPECT to win!
You need to EXPECT to be successful.
You need to EXPECT for good things to come to you, because that's how winners think,
that's how extremely wealthy people think.
That's how spiritually sound people think, they EXPECT good things to happen to them!
If you don't expect good things to happen to you, then when they do, you'll be like
"yeah this is a nice surprise, but this won't last".
It'll turn into something negative, and why turn a positive experience into something
negative?
There's one thing that I'm really concerned about that a lot of people are in this mindset
where when something GOOD happens in their life, something amazing happens, when they
get blessed with something, blessings are starting to come into their life, they become
skeptical and negative!
"Oh this is too good to be true!
This can't be real, this won't last long."
Like woooowwww!
What has happened in your life where you don't EXPECT good things to happen to you?
That's just my perspective, it's like...
(I think my bluetooth just shut off, give me second...)
(Ok I think you should be able to hear me.
My bluetooth headphones shut off, they kind of turn off when I don't listen to music,
but I'm just using them for the microphone cause I think the quality is better.)
BUT ANYWAYS, back onto the subject.
What has happened in your life that you don't expect good things to happen to you, and then
when they do, you don't invite more?
You turn it into a negative experience, "oh it won't last long".
Like wow, c'mon man!
I believe everybody should expect blessings in their life because this world we live in
is amazing!
There are so many good things to be thankful for ALREADY, and when good things happen,
it's just like "WOW", that gratitude!
Another key to success for yourself is being grateful for the things you have ALREADY,
and then even the small stuff that happens, you can be grateful for that too!
And it just feels so good to just be THANKFUL like "YES, THANK YOU!"
I woke UP today!
I am AWAKE!
I have food in my fridge!
I have INDOOR PLUMBING!
I have WATER!
Access to hot and cold water at my WHIM!
Honestly, the way we live nowadays, the way most people live nowadays is better than most
kings could even DREAM of living back in the day!
INTERNET??
ELECTRICITY?
HEAT AND COLD IN OUR HOUSE?
Instant access to any kind of content, media, whatever you want through the Internet, you
can talk to anybody over the Internet on your phone.
We literally have access every piece of human knowledge in existence through our CELL HONES!
We carry it everywhere!
So my thing is, I'm gonna go a little on a tangent here, but my thing is, if you have
access to every single piece of information and knowledge available to mankind on the
Internet, WITH YOU, like IN YOUR POCKET, WHAT??!
You should be learning something EVERY single day!!
You should always know more than you knew yesterday.
And if you didn't learn, you should be TEACHING somebody.
But, that's just my thing, I got a little off topic, I'm a little passionate about that,
but that's kind of on the subject of gratitude.
Just being thankful for small stuff like that you don't really think about, it's like DUDE.
BRO.
We have so many blessings ALREADY, look at what we've done collectively as a species,
we shape the land!
We have highways, I can visit my mom by taking a 30-minute drive and just see her whenever
I want!
That, for me, that is just amazing!
People complain about traffic, but if you IN traffic, you should be happy that there's
a road to have traffic on!
There are some countries that don't HAVE a highway!
They don't have lanes either!
They just go!
They just go, they drive through each other, people honkin, bikes all in the road, people
just walkin everywhere, there are no crosswalks either.
They just go!
Fuck it, they just go!
Excuse my language, I usually don't curse cause I like to make my videos available for
everyone, but, if it comes here and there, please forgive me.
But yeah!
It's just all the stuff that we have is just so amazing, all the architecture and the art
and science or whatever, but let me not make the video too long!
I could talk for literally hours.
But um, that's gratitude and the gratitude leads to the expectations, and you expecting
good things to happen in your life.
I'm gonna do a little overview, so expectations of others:
don't expect anything from anybody,but still be open to surprises.
Because when you expect other people to be a certain way or do a certain thing, you put
them in a box in your brain, your subconscious and that is a bit insulting to the spontaneity
that we all share as humans.
Now expectations for yourself:
Expect to win.
Expect to be successful.
Expect good things to happen in your life, and be GRATEFUL for the things you already
have, even for the small things.
And when good things, and when blessings, and when more opportunities become available
for you, be thankful even MORE, because that's just so much more to be thankful for, you
feel me?
So that's a brief overview, you always know, it's not about me, it's about you guys, so
if you have any questions, comments, anything, all my social media is in the description,
I finally made a Facebook page, so all my content is reflected in that page, I take
screenshots of my retweets my Twitter threads, my Snapchat posts and I put them on FB just
for people that don't have anything else.
So everybody can access that content.
Find me, friend me, hit me up!
I'm everybody's friend.
I will talk to anybody from anywhere, I don't care.
If you need help with somthin', I gotchu.
If you need advice, I gotchu, if you just need a new friend, if you just wanna hangout!
Ay, if you live near me, in my area, if you just wanna hang out, hit me up!!
I'm down to chill with anybody.
But again, as always.
*snaps fingers*
Thanks for listening~
Hahahhhh :P
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