Hello
Friends
friends?
I decided to film another Turkish video
I got such a nice reaction to the last Turkish video I filmed and
I feel like if I keep making Turkish videos at least I'll be practicing my Turkish
I got another message in Turkish,
And I wanted to respond to this message through this video.
So first I'm gonna read that message
It's a short message but it really
touched my heart but it also made me sad...
it's not a nice thing to hear news like this
but still I'm gonna read the message
Dear Sister, I'm 19 years old
and I think I fell in love with my teacher who is 53 years old, named "Abdullah"
He's my German teacher
My grades for my German class are super low, so he really doesn't like me
but I'm so in love with him!
A week ago I told this to my dad
he got so angry with me and he beat me up!
This is the first time I got so badly beaten by my dad.
He literally went crazy!
Yesterday I went to school and talked to my German teacher.
He didn't know what to say to me and he was so shocked!
I got so embarrassed and now I can't even look him in the eyes.
I'm in really bad shape, and I'm depressed.
Can you give me any advice? Please answer, I'm in really bad shape.
With love from Izmir, Mehmet.
I read this message like 5 minutes ago
And I suddenly got a knot in my heart..
is that the saying?
A knot in my stomach?
I mean I felt really bad inside.
First of all I wanna say to Mehmet that,
I'm so sorry.
I'm really sorry that you were met with this kind of a reaction.
It's heartbreaking.
Unfortunately in Turkey there is a prominent culture
and this culture doesn't accept Gay people.
Of course because of the predominant Muslim religion,
and because in this religion there is no acceptance for homosexuality,
in fact they believe that Gay people will go to hell...
So unfortunately not accepting Gay people has become a part of the culture there.
This is what's "normal" there.
And that's an awful thing.
This is why I was so heartbroken when I read that message.
There's nothing wrong with you being Gay really.
There's also nothing wrong with you having a crush on your teacher.
The only problem is that this is not accepted, in the country where you live.
Of course you wanna tell your parents it's normal,
you wanna get a good reaction from them..
And then you were faced with this kind of a reaction.
I'm really really sorry
that you have to live with a situation like this.
The only thing that I can think of saying is this...
You have to surround yourself with people who accept you, and other gay people.
I know that family is a really important thing
But I think that there's something even more important than blood relations
And that is being with people who are accepting of us.
The people who really love us, will accept us for who we are.
You shouldn't try to change yourself
It's not wrong that you are this way
I mean you falling in love with your teacher
is not any different than a girl who falls in love with her male teacher.
The only thing that makes one of these wrong and the other one right, is the culture.
In reality there is no such difference.
This is just a thought in people's heads.
But like I said because people are so brainwashed in our society, in Turkey,
They can't see that this is a ridiculous way of thinking.
They hurt people so badly, just because they are Gay.
Of course, your dad not accepting you is such a painful thing.
but, unfortunately
I don't think that you can change his mind.
Maybe in 10-20 years, if he can change his own mind, then that's a different story..
But I don't think that you should struggle to try and change his mind.
You shouldn't try to change anyone's mind,
you just have to find the people who can understand you.
I mean you said that you live in Izmir,
Izmir is a big city, I'm sure that there are other Gay people there
I'm sure that there are other open-minded people there.
And if you can find these people they can support you
the way that your family won't.
There's nothing wrong with you for loving your teacher.
It's just the way that you feel.
But I don't think he can reciprocate these feelings
because from what I understand, he isn't gay.
When this is the situation, it's really not a big deal
just feel your feelings within yourself,
and just know that, some day in the future, you will find somebody
who will be able to love you as much as you love them.
Maybe it's not gonna be this teacher but
you will definitely find love in your life.
and you will be able to live out this love.
I know that you're in a bad situation right now
and you feeling bad is only natural.
it's okay to feel bad sometimes
cry, that's okay, I also cry a lot!
Just know that you're not gonna be in this situation forever
And I hope one day you will find the people who accept you
and they will become your new family.
I think that's all I have to say.
I hope you won't hurt too much because of this
don't loose your hope, you're just 19, you're so young!
You have lots of time to find the people who are like you.
So don't worry, don't fret.
As for your dad, I don't think you should talk to him about this anymore.
It's not worth it to get beaten up
protect yourself
that's the most important thing
is to protect yourself.
Protect yourself from the people who don't accept you, and from closed minded people.
That's what I did.
That's it for this video,
If there are any other people who would like to write to me, you can send us an e-mail
And I hope that through making these videos, my Turkish will I improve.
I'm sure it'll come back to me, but my brain needs a little bit of practice.
That's it.
Bye.

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