Question: "What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage?"
In this video, I'll answer that question from a biblical perspective, and afterwards,
I'll point you to some helpful resources, so stick around until the end.
First of all, no matter what view one takes on the issue of divorce, it is important to
remember Malachi 2:16: "I hate divorce, says the LORD God of Israel."
According to the Bible, marriage is a lifetime commitment.
"So they are no longer two, but one.
Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." Matthew 19:6
God realizes, though, that, since marriages involve two sinful human beings, divorces
are going to occur.
In the Old Testament, He laid down some laws in order to protect the rights of divorcées,
especially women.
Jesus pointed out that these laws were given because of the hardness of people's hearts,
not because such laws were God's desire.
The controversy over whether divorce and remarriage is allowed according to the Bible revolves
primarily around Jesus' words in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9.
The phrase "except for marital unfaithfulness" is the only thing in Scripture that possibly
gives God's permission for divorce and remarriage.
Many interpreters understand this "exception clause" as referring to "marital unfaithfulness"
during the "betrothal" period.
In Jewish custom, a man and a woman were considered married even while they were still engaged
or "betrothed."
According to this view, immorality during this "betrothal" period would then be
the only valid reason for a divorce.
However, the Greek word translated "marital unfaithfulness" is a word which can mean
any form of sexual immorality.
It can mean fornication, prostitution, adultery, etc.
Jesus is possibly saying that divorce is permissible if sexual immorality is committed.
Sexual relations are an integral part of the marital bond: "the two will become one flesh".
Therefore, any breaking of that bond by sexual relations outside of marriage might be a permissible
reason for divorce.
If so, Jesus also has remarriage in mind in this passage.
The phrase "and marries another" in Matthew 19:9 indicates that divorce and remarriage
are allowed in an instance of the exception clause, whatever it is interpreted to be.
It is important to note that only the innocent party is allowed to remarry.
Although not stated in the text, it would seem the allowance for remarriage after divorce
is God's mercy for the one who was sinned against, not for the one who committed the
sexual immorality.
There may be instances where the "guilty party" is allowed to remarry, but they are
not evident in this text.
Some understand 1 Corinthians 7:15 as another "exception," allowing remarriage if an
unbelieving spouse divorces a believer.
However, the context does not mention remarriage but only says a believer is not bound to continue
a marriage if an unbelieving spouse wants to leave.
Others claim that abuse (spousal or child) is a valid reason for divorce even though
it is not listed as such in the Bible.
While this may very well be the case, it is never wise to presume upon the Word of God.
Sometimes lost in the debate over the exception clause is the fact that, whatever "marital
unfaithfulness" means, it is an allowance for divorce, not a requirement for it.
Even when adultery is committed, a couple can, through God's grace, learn to forgive
and begin rebuilding their marriage.
God has forgiven us of so much more.
Surely we can follow His example and even forgive the sin of adultery.
However, in many instances a spouse is unrepentant and continues in sexual immorality.
That is where Matthew 19:9 can possibly be applied.
Many also look to quickly remarry after a divorce when God might desire them to remain single.
God sometimes calls people to be single so that their attention is not divided.
Remarriage after a divorce may be an option in some circumstances, but that does not mean
it is the only option.
The Bible makes it abundantly clear that God hates divorce and that reconciliation and
forgiveness should mark a believer's life.
However, God recognizes that divorce will occur, even among His children.
A divorced and/or remarried believer should not feel any less loved by God, even if the
divorce and/or remarriage is not covered under the possible exception clause of Matthew 19:9.
Hungry for more?
Subscribe so you don't miss the next video!
Visit GotQuestions.org for more great content.
And check out the details section below this video: There are several links to related
articles, along with one to a book I recommend.
If you'd like to learn about Bible Munch, or if you're interested in Bite-sized devotionals,
subscribe to Bible Munch on YouTube.
Remember, Got questions?
The Bible has answers, and we'll help you find them!
No comments:
Post a Comment