Youtube daily report Sep 21 2017

Whatever reason people have for using a certain label for their sexuality is great and should

be respected.

I did finger guns below the camera.

'Cause I'm bisexual.

That's how you know someone's bisexual.

[finger guns] [upbeat music]

Hi I'm Jackson Bird and I talk a lot about being trans.

Trans.

[slow mo] Trangender.

But I don't talk that often about being bisexual.

Some people aren't actually even sure if I'm bi. I am.

I am bisexual.

I am The Bi... sexual.

Why do we have to say "sex" so much when we're talking about sexuality?

I mean, I guess it makes sense.

This week happens to be Bi Week, Bisexual Awareness Week, so I wanted to A. remind you

all that I'm hella bi and B. chat about why I don't talk about it that much.

I think the first reason is because, when you're trans, sexuality can be a bit of

an afterthought.

I mean, for me it was actually a huge hang up of a misunderstanding in figuring out my gender.

But that's a story for another time.

But y'know once you've like unpacked the Meaning of Gender and realized just how infinite

and fluid gender is, a lot of trans people find ourselves feeling pretty ambivalent about

the gender of whoever we're attracted to.

Hashtag NotAllTransPeople.

There are absolutely trans people out there who are staunch and steady in their sexualities

and I get that and I respect it.

But it is fairly common even for trans people who are only attracted to one gender to be

a bit more open or exploratory in their tastes than their straight or solely gay cisgender

counterparts might be.

And in fact, it's pretty common for trans people's sexualities to shift a bit during

transition.

Which is another reason why I didn't talk about my sexuality online for a while.

'Cause that happened to me.

A little bit.

Kind of.

Ish.

So like a lot of other trans people, when I started to socially and physically transition,

I felt a new comfort in my own body and identity and place in society, which led me to be...

way more attracted to girls than I had been in the past.

I think part of it is that comfort in ourselves that can open up an attraction to people whose

gender expressions might have previously triggered our dysphoria.

I've also heard from trans people who maybe identified as gay, that once they're settled

in their true gender, they find they still prefer being in same gender relationships

even if that means they're now dating a different gender than they were before.

Gender and sexuality are weird!

And wonderful!

And fluid.

And complex.

But to speak just for myself for a minute.

Not for any other trans or bi person out there.

I think what happened with me might have had less to do with newfound comfort and more

to do with relinquishing the last bits of my internalized biphobia.

So I grew up in Texas in the 90s and early 2000s.

So, as a product of my environment, I wasn't just biphobic.

I was homophobic, and definitely transphobic.

The culture around me exacerbated my fears of the feelings I was having.

Especially as a teenager, I was terrified by my attraction to girls.

It wasn't that strong at the time, but it was definitely there.

And maybe it would've been stronger if I hadn't tried so hard to repress it so hard.

And y'know I was given a great reason to repress it because everyone around me, including my

AP Psychology curriculum, told me that bisexuality was fake.

A mental disorder.

Anyone who thinks they're bisexual should choose one.

Now this was great news for me at the time because it meant I could only be into guys

and this weird, fleeting sometimes attraction I was having for girls was just like a weird

fluke.

It also meant that I couldn't be a trans guy because trans guys can't be into guys.

[Sighs] Yes, they can and that is another story for another time.

But as I got to college and learned that bisexuality and pansexuality are totally real and legit

sexualities, I still wasn't sure.

Privately, I started really identifying with and feeling comfortable in the label of bisexuality,

but I didn't know if I was bisexual enough.

That's one reason why I didn't immediately say what my sexuality was when I came out

publicly as trans.

I needed to sit with it for a bit.

And once I gave myself that time to think about it, without self-judgement for the first

time ever, I realized, yeah, I'm totally bi.

Hella bi.

There's a couple more reasons I don't often talk about it though and they have to

do with biphobia from others.

Sure there's the biphobia from the general heteronormative public.

When it's easier to pretend I just like girls when I'm around a bunch of like cis

het guys that really intimidate me.

And there's a lot of biphobia in the gay and lesbian communities.

People who think like I used to be that bisexuality is fake.

But the type of biphobia that I personally encounter the most in my nice little queer

bubble is people saying that bisexuality is transphobic and that if I'm attracted to

people of all genders and non genders, as I am, that I'm actually pansexual.

Actually.

Oh, thank you for telling me.

Didn't realize.

Pansexual!

Actually.

Listen, I'm not necessarily going to correct someone if they say that I'm pansexual,

but it's not the term that resonates the most with me and, more importantly, bisexuality

is not transphobic.

Are there some bisexuals out there who are transphobic?

Undoubtedly.

People of all kinds are transphobic, including some trans people.

But there are tons of inclusive definitions of bisexuality.

Whether you define it as being attracted to two or more genders or being attracted to

the people of the same gender as yours as well as people of different genders than yours.

Now some people do prefer the term pansexual because it expresses more of a feeling of

being attracted to people regardless of gender.

Or they like the term for innumerable other reasons personal to them.

Whatever reason people have to use a certain label for their sexuality is great and should

be respected.

I like the term bisexual because it just feels right to me and because, frankly I like history

of the label and I want to join the fight for more bisexual representation in media

and in the LGBTQ+ community.

Bottom line is that sexuality is complicated.

Bisexuality is real.

Peoples sexualities can absolutely change over time, for any reason.

And we gotta respect that.

And not just silently, privately respect it ourselves.

We gotta work to make sure people's identities are respected by other people, and institutions,

and the media.

We gotta speak up.

Educate others.

Push for inclusive language and legislation.

And let's fight for characters who actually SAY that they're bisexual instead of "not

liking labels" or suddenly changing their sexuality from gay to straight and back again.

I mean, both those things are valid, but can we just have a few more characters explicitly

saying they're bi or pan?

It makes a huge difference to kids to see someone explicitly like them reflected in

media.

Heck, it makes a big difference to adults too.

I makes a huge difference in acceptance in our community – and outside of it.

And you know what, one way we can work towards that is by joining GLAAD's petition against

Warner Bros. to make Wonder Woman bisexual in the next movie.

Because she totally is bi in some of the comic book canon and how cool would it be to have

a super hero in a major movie franchise to be bisexual??

GLAAD also has a bunch of other ways that you can get involved with #BiWeek.

So check out the links below and share your own pride and stories using #BiWeek

And if you liked this video, why not subscribe, give this video a thumb's up, and share

it in the #biweek tag?

I make videos (cough) roughly every Wednesday about queer stuff, nerdy junk, and waffles.

I also have a podcast called Transmission, where I chat with other trans people about

their experiences.

So if you wanna stick around and keep up with what I'm doing, you can follow me @jackisnotabird

on all platforms and throw me a buck of support on Patreon, if you're feeling extra generous.

Alright, that is it for now.

Thank you so much for watching and… bi!

[upbeat music]

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Why Are Religious People Healthier and Happier? | Rabbi Darren Levin - Duration: 8:30.

Ideas of the science of religion are complicated.

God is difficult to bring into the laboratory, and it is very hard to quantify the sacred,

but science is beginning to ask questions about the results or the consequences of participating

in religious life.

Questions like: does participating in a religious community, does having faith in God, does

engaging in a process of building a relationship with the divine, do those questions add positivity

to people's lives?

And the research is conclusive, and the research shows that yes, a person who participates

in a faith community, who has a relationship with God, and who is on a quest for purpose,

that their lives are better and that they do scale higher in the tests of well-being

and happiness.

Does that mean it is because as they engage in a process of discovering their faith and

deepening their relationship with the God that it is reciprocated on high?

I don't know; that it is very hard to quantify.

But what we do know is that people who participate actively in faith community, they have a higher

standard of health and that might be because within religious communities, in the best-case

scenario, the teachings and the wisdom and the practices are about things like family,

personal responsibility, making a positive impact in the world, helping others, deepening

relationships; and all of those practices do add a positive value to a person's life.

And so the reactions or the consequences for participating in a faith community do add

positive value and well-being and life satisfaction to people's lives.

Positive psychology got its start from the awareness that the field was focused too much

on people's weaknesses and not their strengths, and so Martin Seligman and Chris Peterson

worked to shift the way psychology is practiced, rather than think of someone and their problems

we think of someone and their strengths, and we try to develop of those strengths, try

to see the best in people.

Everybody has signature strengths, and we want to focus and help them develop those

and in developing those it helps to shore-up some of their weaknesses.

In a communal setting, expanding on the inventory, we try to apply the same characteristics that

are articulated for individuals but we try to put them into practice in a communal setting.

And in a community setting is where Judaism lends itself beautifully to applying the inventory

of strengths and characteristics.

So the intersection of where positive psychology and the science of happiness intersect with

positive religion and positive Judaism really live at the intersection of PERMA.

PERMA is an acronym, which stands for positive emotion, engagement, relationships, meaning,

and accomplishment.

So let's take each of these five domains and see them in the context of religious practice.

So we'll start with P, positive emotion.

In a best-case scenario you think about a sanctuary or an amphitheater setting where

faith communities gather, and there are messages of hope, there are soothing melodies, there's

good music, there's fellowship, and all of those combined together are designed to

raise the positive emotion in someone's life.

And I can tell you that when I travel I go to different churches, synagogues, mosques—over

the summer I was in Iceland and I went to a Episcopal church in Reykjavík where the

entire ceremony was spoken in Icelandic and I didn't understand a word, but over the

course of an hour and a half I felt my energy level shift and I walked out of that chapel

feeling more positive, and it has to do with the environment.

So positive emotions are raised by participating in faith community.

Next, engagement.

Well the best religions are about helping people to engage in the world and engagement

happens in engaging in relationships, engaging in study, engaging in work, engaging in the

process hopefully of making our world a better place.

Those tend to be key themes in religious life, and engagement has been shown to add positive

value to a person's life.

Next, relationships.

Well, relationships are at the heart of most faith communities.

It is about bringing people together.

It is about caring for people.

It is about having relationships with fellow congregants, clergy, educators and relationship

with text and relationship with God.

Those are all elements of relationships that add value to a person's life when they're

expressed in authentic ways.

Then we have meaning.

So many people are in search of meaning in the 21st century and wisdom and literature

that comes from the great religions are all designed to help people discover the meaning

and the purpose in their lives.

And finally, accomplishment.

Accomplishment is one of the core teachings that come out of good religious practices.

The accomplishment of making the world a better place, now that is a core teaching in Judaism—the

idea of Tikkun Olam, repairing the world and making it a better place, and having that

as a goal to accomplish both for individuals and as a collective religious community—all

that combined together in PERMA seems to be the perfect application of this theory of

positive psychology.

And religious settings, I believe, are that perfect application, that perfect place to

see and to live the theory of PERMA and positive psychology.

Now there's more than just PERMA in positive Judaism and positive religion, there's also

a studied set of characteristics and strengths that come directly from the work of Martin

Seligman and Chris Peterson, who in the 1990s developed an inventory of strengths.

There have been some changes to this inventory, but in a nutshell it has codified 24 different

personality strengths like gratitude, resilience, hope, optimism, bravery, spirituality, goodness,

kindness, and others.

And the idea is that each person has signature strengths, but understood in the context of

the larger inventory people can see where they fit into the scale and can attempt to

develop other areas of strengths to help improve the quality of their lives.

So in the practice of positive Judaism we take that inventory very seriously, and then

we think about religious practice—we draw on those strengths in our teachings and the

way in which we shape experiences for people's religious engagement.

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Dauntless Top 5 Tips (Beginners Gameplay/Commentary Guide)PC Beta (Inspired By Monster Hunter World) - Duration: 3:07.

what is up ladies and gentlemen boys and girls it is Zulo back with

another vid this time we're gonna be going over the top 5 beginner tips and

tricks for dauntless tip number one resources equal progression the reason

that I said that is because resources in this game are vital to your progression

be sure to gather as many nodes as possible before battle as you'll need

all the resources you can muster because you will quickly burn through them you

can expect the game to give you plenty of time for both gathering and slaying the

behemoth so there's no need to purposefully skip any of the nodes tip

number 2 sheathe for stamina, sheath your weapon when low on stamina to continue

running but instead gain stamina rather than lose it this is important for both

fighting behemoths and gathering materials around the map so be sure to

keep your weapon sheathed if you don't want to lose any stamina tip number 3

the danger counter in Dauntless you have unlimited revives but there is a danger

counter

if this number reaches 100 you can no longer revive downed teammates if everyone

gets downed at this point you'll be forced to retreat and be returned to the main

hub

the only way to make this number go down is by the behemoth either fleeing or by

reviving a downed teammate if more than one person revives a teammate at the same

time that number will stack so be sure to watch this number so you aren't

surprised by the sudden change I also feel like it's worth noting that team

revives will not help this number go down tip number four stand your ground

when a behemoth such as the Shrike Skraev or Embermane start to charge you

be sure to hit them rather than dodge as you will avoid the attack and can instead

have a few free attacks on them

tip number five signal your team whether it be signaling your team for some good

materials or signaling them so they can find the behemoth

using a flare during a hunt is an awesome way for communicating with your

team if you hear a player but can't see it don't worry because there will be a flag

indicating the direction of the flare. As always I hope you guys enjoyed this

video and if any of these tips helped you out please hit that like button

because it helps me out a ton and maybe even consider checking out some of

my other dauntless content until next time take it easy

peace

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YouTube Creators for Change: Abdel En Vrai - Duration: 3:09.

Humor is an anesthetic that helps convey a message.

You receive a message but it doesn't have such a harsh impact.

Thank you, Mr. Clapper.

My name is Abdel. I'm Belgian but of Moroccan descent.

And I make YouTube videos that promote empathy and tolerance

with humor.

Despite the fact that I was born in Belgium,

for certain people, I'm an immigrant because I'm Muslim.

And that's extremely unfair.

We must stop these generalizations and injustices permanently.

I think it's important to be fully informed,

in order to better understand people.

So, I started doing my YouTube videos

to raise awareness among people.

I had seen someone one TV making statements that shocked me.

So I decided to respond to her through video.

How are you doing? Listen, I'm making a quick video.

You can't make such gross generalizations

without having as many sources as this.

Alright!

I really like making people smile, making them laugh.

YouTube helped me distribute my message

firstly, by allowing me to express myself.

I became interested in taking these...

existing prejudices and deconstructing them.

When you're denied a position because your name

has too many letter of the alphabet, it sucks!

When you're a woman with a doctorate who

cannot get a job because you wear a head scarf, it sucks!

I learned, thanks to a single video, because it reaches many people,

you can actually change things.

That's powerful.

And that's when I was like, "Don't keep it all to yourself,

share it."

The YouTube Creators for Change project

is a project where we share positive messages.

And my project allowed people to attend workshops

where we'd meet young people and introduce them to filmmaking.

And so there are a series of videos talking about xenophonbia,

racism and Islamophobia.

I would like to hear someone at the workshop

say, "I'd like to do this too."

Just to tell themselves: "If he did it, so can I."

That's my dream.

Not everybody has the chance of having millions of views.

But when you have it, try and do good things.

YouTube is a crossroads of knowledge

where we can share understanding and information.

It's really something that can unite us all.

I think you can be a vehicle for social change

if you're able to reach one person.

Who, in turn will change another person

and then it's those people who will change the world.

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I hate my natural hair - Duration: 7:40.

Hi guys! In today's video we're going to talk about

the way we view our hair

Disclaimer : my channel is about natural hair so I'm always going to push this agenda

But if you have relaxed hair or think about relaxing it, no problem! Who am I to judge ?

So I'm going to talk to you about my own experience, how I went from regarding my hair as an iron bullet

around my ankle to now, seeing it as one of my striking feature

(music)

I've not always liked my hair, actually, I hated it when I was younger

I really didn't like it

It had nothing to do with self hatred

Or not being able to accept myself

It was practical, I didn't like my hair because I had extremely thick and frizzy, coily hair

And it was difficult to tame it (let alone take care of it)

For me, the styling proces was just a torture

And when my mother would take her purple comb (it was a fine tooth comb)...

I would die a little inside

All I wanted as a little girl was to have straight hair

Hair you could detangle without having your comb hitting a knot every 2 seconds

Without having to pull my hair to remove all the knots

...even if it meant tear off my head at the same time

I just wanted the styling proces to be shorter and less painful

But I don't blame my mother: she always did what she could with what she had

And she did a great job given the compliments we received about our hairstyles, my sister and I

So when did my mind changed about my hair ?

Well, it changed when I started to ask myself the right questions

When I stopped wondering how to straighten my hair (it really didn't help me)

And started to think "how can I care for my hair as it is?"

(Why don't I have long hair ?!)

(this was actually the main question)

It really gave me the keys of the gates to the natural hair world, they opened, I jumped in...

And I never came back

From then, I discovered lots of things and experimented with my hair

And did things I didn't think were possible with it

And I acquired more self-confidence

That's why I think here lies the key if you have a hard time accepting your hair

Ask yourself the right questions

Ok, you don't like your hair but what don't you like about it ? Be more specific

Is it its length, is it too dry, is it damaged, is it its texture ?

For most of the questions you have, you can find answers if you're ready to look out for them

You also need to be able to see yourself in a positive light and acknowledge the things

you like about your hair

Like its volume or its curls

And these are the things you want to keep, the things you want people to see

As I said it, it's easy to find solutions if you look out for them, there's a lot of information

Because everything is just one click away with Internet

But you need to stay critical because you find so much information and advice

You'll see lots of people telling you to do something and then the opposite

So you need to be able to sort what is going to be useful for you and what is not

And adjust it to your needs and personnality

Because most of the people you see, you watch on YouTube

(I include myself in those people)

Except if they are professionals like hairdressers

Can only talk about their own experience and it's, of course, different than yours

So, again, you need to be wise about what you see and hear on the Internet

Don't compare yourself to anybody you see, especially not to people

Who have different type of hair, different texture

Why ? Because it means their hair has different needs

And sometimes it's really frustrating when you have extremely frizzy, coily hair, you'd like it to be curly

Because we think it looks better and it's easier to take care of it

But having these kind of thoughts regularly

Get your in a negative state of mind

You're going to be very frustrated

And rough with your hair

Try to find some kind of model, a person who has hair that looks like yours

Because it's going to create some kind of connection

And you'll see that there are people with your type of hair who "succeed"

But also that that person, if she's honest, and shows you the good and the bad,

also has problems sometimes, just like you

Sometimes she feels frustrated about her hair, she might want to give up, her hair comes out the wrong way

So you'll see that this person also struggles

Just like you

And it will make your life easier (not trying to be mean)

Because you then see that we're all on the same boat

And it's always better to suffer together than suffering alone

I also want to say something to mothers here who might have daughters with natural hair

Teach them to like their hair it's extremely important

Tell them how much of a good thing this hair can be!

Even if it's different from what they typically see [on TV]

Show them that they can do many things with if, there are plenty of possibilities!

It's unlimited!

And that it can be really fun to play with it

So that they don't think that taking care of their hair is a chore

But regard it as an activity that makes it possible for them to take care of themselves

And they'll also have more self-confidence

I give you all this tips but don't forget that the acceptance is not going to come at all once;

If you really want to work on that and learn to embrace your hair you need to be patient

It doesn't happen in one night

You don't wake up thinking :

I loooooooooooooove my natural hair!

No!

It doesn't happen like that

Again, you need to be patient, let yourself (and your hair) some time to mature that

And be gentle with it

Because when we're angry, when we're upset we tend to be rough with it

And it won't help you to like it

But if even after all this questionning, you still can't stand your hair

Then do what you have to do with it!

The goal is to feel good about yourself

And this mane of yours

This concludes today's video, for people who have a hard time dealing with their hair

I hope I was able to help you a little bit at least

If you liked this video, give it a thumbs up and if you have any question, leave it in the comment section

And subscribe to my channel for more content

I'll see you in the next video, until then, take care of yourself...and your hair! :)

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FACEBOOK SUING FOR HALF THE PROFITS? - Duration: 2:25.

YOUR MEMORIES ON FACEBOOK.

Hey Darrel, we care about you and the memories that you share.

We thought that you'd like to look back on this post from two years

ago...

Two years ago.

Would you like to repost?

Just click here - Share it with your friends.

Hi, Darrel, as you recently celebrated a friendsversary,

We wanted to let you see that you can go back to your memories

And watch the video we made

to help you celebrate [You've been married 20 years

but only face book friends for 8 of them]

solo.

Some page you should probably delete didn't get any views or likes this week

but you were hoping when you clicked on this thing

that it was your old best friend reconnecting

SEE YOUR MEMORIES SEE YOUR MEMORIES, AGAIN

Just click here - Share it with your friends...

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Canada means to me

compromise,

kindness,

respect for traditions

and respect for new ways of life.

I love Canada.

It's peaceful here and we do our best to make everybody feel welcomed.

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თევზაობა ხანისწყალზე სპინინგით იმერული ქაშაპი სპინინგით Ловля Голавля на спиннинг в Западной Грузии - Duration: 10:22.

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Here's My Canada: My Canada is Maternity Leave - Duration: 0:08.

I'm proud to be Canadian because of maternity leave.

Yayy!

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Here's My Canada: My Canada is Friendliness - Duration: 0:13.

Canada means community, friends,

family,

and

just friendliness overall.

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How to Make a Mask - Part 4: Detail Sculpting & Adding Magnets - PREVIEW - Duration: 0:47.

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« Je suis allergique à mon mari ! » Une leçon incroyable pour tous les couples ! - France 365 - Duration: 6:34.

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Here's My Canada: My Canada is Free Spirit and National Treasure - Duration: 0:19.

Canada means

a first nation with a free spirit.

And it means all of our wonderful national treasures.

Like the Rideau Canal, Prince Edward Waterway, national parks.

Yay Canada. You gotta love it.

Go Canada.

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Earthship : ma maison et moi - Duration: 5:45.

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Hapsa­tou Sy : son message à Vincent Cerutti qui coupe court aux rumeurs - Duration: 2:38.

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Âge de Brigitte Macron : Laurent Gerra n'a pas terminé de s'en moquer avec ses petites - Duration: 3:11.

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YouTube Creators for Change: Abdel En Vrai - Duration: 3:09.

Humor is an anesthetic that helps convey a message.

You receive a message but it doesn't have such a harsh impact.

Thank you, Mr. Clapper.

My name is Abdel. I'm Belgian but of Moroccan descent.

And I make YouTube videos that promote empathy and tolerance

with humor.

Despite the fact that I was born in Belgium,

for certain people, I'm an immigrant because I'm Muslim.

And that's extremely unfair.

We must stop these generalizations and injustices permanently.

I think it's important to be fully informed,

in order to better understand people.

So, I started doing my YouTube videos

to raise awareness among people.

I had seen someone one TV making statements that shocked me.

So I decided to respond to her through video.

How are you doing? Listen, I'm making a quick video.

You can't make such gross generalizations

without having as many sources as this.

Alright!

I really like making people smile, making them laugh.

YouTube helped me distribute my message

firstly, by allowing me to express myself.

I became interested in taking these...

existing prejudices and deconstructing them.

When you're denied a position because your name

has too many letter of the alphabet, it sucks!

When you're a woman with a doctorate who

cannot get a job because you wear a head scarf, it sucks!

I learned, thanks to a single video, because it reaches many people,

you can actually change things.

That's powerful.

And that's when I was like, "Don't keep it all to yourself,

share it."

The YouTube Creators for Change project

is a project where we share positive messages.

And my project allowed people to attend workshops

where we'd meet young people and introduce them to filmmaking.

And so there are a series of videos talking about xenophonbia,

racism and Islamophobia.

I would like to hear someone at the workshop

say, "I'd like to do this too."

Just to tell themselves: "If he did it, so can I."

That's my dream.

Not everybody has the chance of having millions of views.

But when you have it, try and do good things.

YouTube is a crossroads of knowledge

where we can share understanding and information.

It's really something that can unite us all.

I think you can be a vehicle for social change

if you're able to reach one person.

Who, in turn will change another person

and then it's those people who will change the world.

For more infomation >> YouTube Creators for Change: Abdel En Vrai - Duration: 3:09.

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Meghan Markle a demandé à Kate Midd­le­ton d'être sa demoi­selle d'hon­neur - Duration: 1:54.

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21870631 513147295700432 8683203406015234048 n - Duration: 1:34.

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The Shape of Water with English Subtitles: Redband Trailer - Duration: 2:05.

[Music-box like sounds playing in the background]

Strickland: "If you know something which has happened here, it is your obligation to report it."

Strickland: "What is she saying?"

Zelda: "That's good, lookin' like you don't know anything."

[Upbeat music playing]

Man: "Their only concern is The Asset." "The Soviets want it." "Do you have it?"

Strickland: Sir, I'm getting it back.

Strickland "Did either of you see anyone coming in or out of the lab?"

Zelda: "Nothing out of the ordinary."

Hoffstetler: "This is the most sensitive Asset to ever be housed in this facility."

Strickland: "How'd they get in here?" Man: "We're looking at a highly trained criminal with at least 10 men."

Man: "Efficient, ruthless, clockwork precision."

Interpreter: "I'm going to be synchronizing our watches just like they do in the movies."

Boss: "Son, Unfuck this mess!"

Strickland: "You deliver, that's what you do! You deliver! Right? Right!"

[Fast violin music begins to play]

Strickland "If you know something you're not telling me, you're gonna tell me."

Interpreter: "We need to get him back in the water." [Violin music gets louder and alarms sound]

Strickland "One last time, where is it?"

Man: "She doesn't know." Strickland: "SIT DOWN!"

Zelda: "He's coming for you. You gotta go now and you gotta take that thing with you."

[Violin music continues] Strickland: "I deliver."

Strickland: "What did you say to me?" Eliza [signs]: "F U"

Strickland: "What is she saying? What is she saying?!"

Zelda: "She is saying 'thank you'."

[Violin music continues to play and fades out]

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How To Identify The Best Leaders On Your Team - Duration: 3:53.

Are you curious who the best leaders are on your team? Well watch this video and find out how you can quickly identify them.

Hey, it's Jason Everett from the High Performance Salon Academy and today we are talking all about leaders.

You know, in salons finding leaders can be one of the toughest things that you do because these are the people you are going to entrust with the direction of your business in the future.

And they've got to meet some amazing qualifications and criteria in order to be on your leadership team.

So here's the first thing I would say, number one in leaders you want to look for people who've been identified as leaders early on.

I mean for me, personally, I was a leader in 4H, I was a leader in my soccer team, in my baseball team, and all those things were very early on, they would pull me out for leadership roles.

So that was something that was identified early. And not everybody has that, that's how people learn it and they can get there.

So there's an acronym I want to give you today that's going to help you identify future leaders in your organization.

And the acronym is DRIVE.

Now why is it DRIVE?

Because we want to figure out, number one, D is how driven people are.

If people are able to function and operate on their own with a drive like you've never seen from anybody else, like why is this person wanting to work so hard.

They seem to be very excited to show up to work they're not just somebody who sits there and shows up because they're getting a paycheck

but they take initiative, they do things on their own and they're really excited about the future. That is a very driven individual.

Which takes me to point number two, which is RESPONSIBLE.

Are they hyper responsible, are they taking over responsibility and accountability for things that are not even their fault.

Meaning that more people around are saying gosh they just take that one and they take it on whether they are asked to or not, and that's a hyper responsible person.

Number three is are they INDEPENDENT?

Do they operate independently well or do they constantly need to be babysat? If somebody is independent they're not going to be

constantly asking you what else do you need, what else do you need, what else do you need?

They're just going to get it done.

Are they constantly doers instead of constant actors? Or askers, that's going to be somebody who is very independent.

Now number four is VISION.

Do they have a long term vision and can they see the future?

I'm not talking crystal ball status but do they constantly think about how will this decision impact three months, six months, nine months down the road.

Are they future focused, visionary type people that are on the team? That's another great leadership quality.

And then lastly in DRIVE is E for EVERYONE.

Are they constantly thinking how this decision impacts the group as opposed to how this decision impacts them.

If you have somebody who is constantly using I language versus constantly using WE language that would be a problem.

So you're looking for somebody who is always thinking, Oh when we do this, the team is going to be excited about this. We are really going to be this. How will that impact everyone?

So again, to recap, D for driven, R for responsible, I for independent, V for vision and E for everyone.

And if you find somebody that meets all five of those characteristics traits, you need to identify them as a leader on your team and start tapping them on the shoulder.

One of my favorite things is called a leadership tap. Where you tap somebody on the shoulder and you say,

"Look, I'd like to have you as part of the leadership team. How do you feel about that?"

And if they get excited and they're into it, maybe not now, maybe in the future, couple of years, but give them that leadership tap and allow them the opportunity to rise to the occasion as a leader.

So do me a favor, in the comment section below if you got value out of this video do me a favor and just comment with the word DRIVE below

so I know you got tons of value and do me a favor, head over to our YouTube channel subscribe to our page there, and head over to Facebook and make sure you like our page on Facebook as well.

And until then, have a fantastic week and I hope to help you grow your salon very soon. Bye for now.

For more infomation >> How To Identify The Best Leaders On Your Team - Duration: 3:53.

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「最驚のMVP」歴代1位にイチロー　懐疑的な見方覆し栄冠、MLB公式サイト選出 - Duration: 5:24.

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Pottery Barn Kids Halloween

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Afternoon update: Nashua sex assault arrest; F-35 boosts NH manufacturers - Duration: 4:04.

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Dreaming About Flying - City On Fire 3 - Duration: 2:50.

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random vid in my car :) - Duration: 2:01.

hi :)

i did this vid when i was in my car and i decided

to post here for you

so stay with me in my car :)

me singing :)

i hope you enjoyed :)