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"I have been salesman of the month for 13 out of the last 12 months."

There's no one on The Office quite so wonderfully weird

as Dwight K. Schrute.

Most of us like the idea of being our own person,

of going our own way.

"You can go your own way."

But how many of us actually have the guts to?

Dwight is so instinctively and winningly himself

that He seems to have almost no self-doubt,

no need to change for others --

and he truly doesn't care what people think.

Why should he, when he believes most people are clueless idiots?

"We don't need idiots, good-for-nothings,

methheads or... what's your name?"

"Kathy."

"Kathy."

Except having to seek the approval of my inferiors."

We could all be more like Dwight --

and that doesn't necessarily mean to share his world view,

but to march to the beat of our own drum

and not give a damn what anybody else thinks about it.

"Dwight Schrute.

Star salesman.

Beet farmer.

Bed and breakfast proprietor.

Aspiring freelance bodyguard"

So here's our take on how to adopt some pointers from the Dwight playbook

and experience the power of going your own way.

"Sir, where should we send the ambulance?"

"Send it to the frickin' moon, idiot."

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In many ways, we the viewers start out aligned with normal-guy Jim.

Jim nods at the camera, as if he, like us,

is observing these nuts around him, laughing at them with us.

And at first, with Jim, the main thing we enjoy about Dwight is

that no one else is anywhere near as much fun to prank.

When Jim transfers, he discovers

that his favorite work past-time just doesn't work his frenemy.

"I need to know who put my calculator in Jell-O,

or I'm gonna lose MY FRICKING MIND."

Now, we might not all aspire to be the target of practical jokes,

but Dwight's prankability testifies to 3 key qualities in his personality:

1) his lack of regard for what others consider normal.

"Who are you?"

"[LAUGHS] Who am I?

I'm Jim.

We've been working together for 12 years."

This results in 2) his willingness to believe in things

other people would call "crazy."

"Dwight, at 8am today someone poisons the coffee.

Do not drink the coffee.

More instructions will follow.

Cordially, Future Dwight."

"NO!"

Yes, as a result, Dwight can be gullible and believe in wacky conspiracies,

but he's also looking for the truth under the surface of things,

and he just might be open to observations others can't see.

"But in a way, the most valuable thing here wasn't the telescope at all.

No.

It was this packet of beans."

And the third and probably best reason that Dwight's so prankable is

he has a total commitment to everything he does.

"Chapter four, one of the host's most important duties is as dance master.

A proper courtly dance sets the tone for the entire afternoon."

This complete and disciplined focus is why when Dwight goes for something,

he sticks with it until it's a success,

"You know what is important?

Is Dwight's pillars, and there is only one: desire."

All three qualities we're talking about make a day with Dwight fun and eventful --

And these qualities make Dwight the best salesman in the office,

as we're told time and time again over the years.

"Dwight's the top salesman in the company."

"I've noticed you've had a great year."

"Dwight was the top salesman of the year at our company."

"I'm just really impressed with your performance."

"Look, we need our top salesman running point on this,

and Dwight, that is you."

You might assume being good at sales would require a personable temperament,

but notably, Dwight's not very concerned with being liked --

"Too many people on this earth.

We need a new plague."

whereas someone like Pam is one of the nicest people in the office,

and also the worst salesperson.

"Tell me I'm good at sales."

"You're... you're good... you're good at sales."

So in a lot of jobs, it might even make sense

to follow Dwight's example a bit and lay off the people-pleasing --

to instead let your results speak for themselves,

and make yourself indispensable.

"How would I describe myself?

Three words: hard-working, alpha male, jackhammer...

merciless... insatiable..."

Of course, you don't want to emulate some of Dwight's more unprofessional behaviors

which get in the way of his rising up the ranks.

He brings weapons to work and even fires a gun in the office.

[SCREAMS]

"Andy!"

"Ah!

Ah!

God!"

"Are you..."

"It's so loud!"

And he's got a disturbing desire to rule over others

in a somewhat authoritarian fashion.

"Blood alone moves the wheels of history!"

But after Dwight suffers a lot of disappointments,

"Always the Padawan, never the Jedi.

eventually his perseverance pays off,

and he finally gets his dream job of manager --

"I've just waited for this moment my entire life."

once he's emotionally developed enough to understand how to lead people

with grace and respect,

instead of just seeing them as underlings.

So, like Dwight, we ought to stick it out and keep our compass pointed

in the direction of our ultimate ambition.

Even if getting there may take us longer than we'd like.

"Under the right manager, that's not a bad team."

A big reason Dwight's so unusual is

that he has a totally different cultural upbringing

then most people.

"Welcome to Schrute Farm!"

He grew up on a farm in the Pennsylvania Dutch community,

and was raised according to Amish religious values.

Dwight thinks only children should visit the dentist.

"Adults are supposed to go to the dentist too."

"Are they now?

Huh-huh.

How some people spend their money."

His courtship of a potential bride involves negotiating on farm equipment.

"The thing is, we were hanging out with her father the other night,

looking at a farm catalogue,

next thing I know he wants to lease a tractor with me."

"Ugh."

He speaks some German, but

"My German is pre-industrial and mostly religious."

And it's implied that his grandparents fought on the German side in WWII.

"World War II veteran.

Killed 20 men, then spend the rest of the war

in an Allied prison camp."

From what we can tell, Dwight's culture values self-sufficiency.

"In the Schrute family, the youngest child always raises the others.

I've been raising children since I was a baby."

Frugality.

"I was shunned from the age of four until my sixth birthday

for not saving the excess oil from a can of tuna."

Practical life skills.

"Check for an organ donor card.

If he has one, we only have minutes to harvest."

An Big families.

"Congratulations on your one cousin.

I have seventy, each one better than the last!"

They distrust modern technology.

"Why do you have a diary?"

"To keep secrets from my computer."

"You know what..."

And have a whole set of hierarchies the average viewer wouldn't really understand.

"I wouldn't let her manage a celery farm.

Those who can't farm, farm celery."

Even if we're not ready to pack up to move to a beet farm,

we can admire the fortitude and integrity of Dwight's lifestyle.

He's embracing his cultural heritage and preserving it in a way

that's incredibly rare today.

"Oh!

Judgment is nigh, for the Belsnickel ist I."

"Yes, he's finally nigh."

He does this while being pretty well-integrated into mainstream society,

which seems like no easy task.

And while Dwight likes making money and succeeding at his job,

his mindset is pretty far from the hyper-capitalist outlook

that a lot of modern people unthinkingly absorb.

"It always amuses me when corporate thinks it can make some big change

with a twenty-minute meeting in some fancy high-rise."

He values what the market doesn't --

and he shows us a meaningful alternative to consumerist life --

a sustainable, of the earth, existence.

"I wish I could menstruate.

If I could menstruate, I wouldn't have to deal with idiotic calendars anymore.

I'd just be able to count down from my previous cycle.

Plus I'd be more in tune with the moon and the tides."

Dwight is a natural man.

"Lunch."

He basically looks at our society and sees a bunch of animals in the wild.

"In the wild, there is no health care."

This can lead to some awkward behavior.

"Menstrual cycle determines every choice a woman makes.

You see, during ovulation, a woman's only goal is to get pregnant,

and during menses, she is sad that she has failed.

And how does the woman console herself?

Shopping."

But Dwight also has some canny insights into human nature

because he sees us all as not so fundamentally different

from the animals.

"Her milk is coming in.

She's getting uncomfortable."

"Dwight, don't be gross."

"No, no, he's right."

"Same thing happens with my cows if I don't tend them frequently enough."

And in the fascinating episode when he gets Jim back for all those pranks

in a brutal snowball fight that totally shakes Jim's nerves,

we emerge with a wary respect for Dwight's animal instincts.

After a lot of moments that have encouraged us

to view Dwight as a bit of an idiot,

"Whenever I'm about to do something, I think, Would an idiot do that?

And if they would, I do not do that thing."

this episode makes us wonder if he does have kind of a genius residing

in there,

"In the end, the greatest snowball isn't a snowball at all.

It's fear."

There's certainly no one in The Office you'd rather have at your side in the apocalypse.

"Everyone, follow me to the shelter.

We've got enough food for 14 days.

After that, we have a difficult conversation."

His natural outlook enables him to be honest in a way that no one else will be.

"I think Dwight is the only one who's telling me the truth."

"Dwight, am I hot right now?"

"Why would I or anyone else think you're hot right now?

I can't impregnate you,

and that's the driving force between male-female attraction."

And and we're often left not quite knowing

whether what he's just said is profoundly insightful or completely nonsensical.

"Women are like wolves.

If you want a wolf, you have to trap it.

You have to snare it.

And then you have to tame it.

Keep it happy, care for it, feed it, lovingly,

the way an animal deserves to be loved."

So he makes us see it can be useful to remember our connection to the laws of

nature

instead of pretending that just because we work on computers in an office,

we're totally removed from the ways of the animal kingdom.

"I saw you talking to Erin earlier, I noticed that your pupils dilated

and your skin flushed and I'm assuming, a little bit of blood rushed into your penis."

Dwight has very traditional, rural conservative values.

He looks down on progressive urban types -- like his siblings.

"I can't stand the fact that Jeb is a pot farmer.

He could have grown anything, anything in the world."

And he's not exactly "woke."

"When two gay men have sex, how do they know whose penis will open up

to accept the other person's penis?"

You'd think that based on this,

liberal, urban viewers might dislike the character.

But that's not the case.

Stats have shown that The Office has a quite "upscale" audience --

back when it was airing, it was one of the most popular shows

among viewers making over $100,000 a year.

It was also of the most popular scripted shows among the younger, 18-34 demographic.

And Ad Age reported in 2010 that

"Folks who consider themselves superior to others

are 47% more likely to watch this show."

Now, among this group of viewers, Dwight is consistently listed

as an audience favorite --

often coming in second only to Michael.

So it seems like young, affluent, elitist people --

exactly the types Dwight can't stand --

love watching the guy.

"This is a real thing.

Belsnickel is a crotchety, fur-clad gift giver

related in the folklore of southwestern Germany."

"Okay, great.

Seriously, you guys,

now you believe in Dwight's traditions

when some Democrat looks it up on Wikipedia?"

You could read the Dwight versus Jim opposition in the story

as an interesting representation of rural conservative values,

versus urban liberal ones.

At first, Jim looks at Dwight and sees a nutty uneducated country boy

who buys into crazy conspiracy theories, loves guns,

is a bit paranoid and antisocial, and is obsessed with all things militaristic,

"I say, it's better to be hurt by someone you know, accidentally,

than by a stranger, on purpose."

even though he ironically doesn't seem to know

what he's talking about a lot of the time.

"Turns out Dwight finding drugs is more dangerous than most people using drugs."

Meanwhile, Dwight looks at Jim and sees someone who's complacent,

lazy and lacking direction,

and who expects things to be handed to him

even though he hasn't applied himself with anything like the motivation Dwight has.

"I've always subscribed to the idea that if you really want to impress your boss,

you go in there and you do mediocre work, half-heartedly."

Together though, Jim and Dwight make an awesome pair --

and maybe the improvements that both see in their lives

come from them actually becoming more like each other.

Dwight grows more sensitive and emotionally sophisticated

thanks to his friendship with Jim and Pam.

"I have let Pam win.

[LAUGHS] I was not motivated by compassion."

As a result, eventually he's able to acknowledge what he really wants out of his life

and get a happy ending with his true love, Angela.

"I'm a dad!"

"You're a dad!"

[LAUGHS]

Jim finds happiness only when he taps into a Dwight-like drive

to put himself out there, risk failure, and go after what he wants --

first with Pam, and then in pursuing a career he cares about.

So these unexpected best friends illustrate that you don't have to be the same

to love each other --

we become better through relationships

with those who bring different perspectives and strengths

into our lives.

And we don't have to agree on everything to value each other.

In the end, he acknowledges that many of the most important people in

his life

are from the office, people who don't just represent his comfort zone.

"Your friends not turning out to be as great as you thought?

Not even Gabor?"

"I guess I just have higher standards for my work colleagues than for my friends."

So he shows our lives get richer when we grow to make room for people

who aren't just like us.

"Best prank ever."

Dwight prides himself on being unsentimental.

"Nostalgia is truly one of the great human weaknesses,

second only to the neck."

Even diabolical.

"Diabolical plan?

I wouldn't even know how to begin a dia..."

"I found a copy of it in the copier tray."

But deep down he's fiercely loving and loyal --

especially to his idol, Michael, and his love, Angela.

In fact, Dwight is so loyal he gets taken advantage of

by the people he loves.

"Dwight, you ignorant slut."

Michael is dismissive and unappreciative of Dwight's service.

"You're interrupting me.

I'm trying to get your back."

"Idiot.

Idiot.

Idiot.

Idiot."

"Are you calling me an idiot?"

"Idiot."

"Don't you ever talk to me that way."

Meanwhile, Dwight is devoted to Angela even though she stays engaged to Andy

while she's sleeping with Dwight.

"How can she be sleeping with you this whole time

and only sleep with me twice?"

"She's sleeping with you?"

So there's a lot that's sweetly naive and emotionally immature about Mr. Schrute

when the show begins.

"Michael!"

"Oh that's funny.

Michael!"

He has to learn to put up some boundaries and demand more respect.

"Dwight tells me you've been pestering him for company info."

"Mm-do...

Dwight would not-" "He did."

In the end, he's achieved more equality in his relationships.

And he's also opened up and become able to express emotion

in a more adult way through friendships and a strong support network.

"Oscar Martinez, my accountant, is now godfather to my son.

My top salesman, Jim Halpert, was best man at my wedding.

And office administrator, Pamela Beesly Halpert, is my best friend."

Dwight shows us the beauty of being weird.

And while he may not have everything that you or I may dream of --

Dwight is generally very happy with the life he's built for himself

so that tells us he's doing something right.

"I signed up for Second Life about a year ago.

Back then, my life was so great that I literally wanted a second one.

Absolutely everything was the same, except I could fly."

Ultimately saying We Should All Be Dwight means

we should all dare to have tunnel vision,

to pick a goal and go after it,

embrace weird, crazy hobbies that other people think are insane,

be passionately loving and loyal to the people we care about,

grow and mature over time, and always be ourselves,

no matter what the world has to say about it.

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The Dark Reality Of NFL Cheerleading | Shady | Refinery29 - Duration: 11:48.

Anyone can learn a move, right?

Like when you're walking you can lift up that knee and point that toe.

You know make it sassy—Yes!

Like sassy!

Sassy!

Lexy's got sass, Lexy's all sass.

This is Kristan Ann Ware.

Sassy, I'm whipping it, sassy!

She knew joining the Miami Dolphins meant having the perfect hair, body, and smile.

But she wasn't prepared for what else she'd have to face.

They say you're only special in the uniform, your opinion doesn't matter, your

voice doesn't matter, you're here to perform and that's it.

They intimidate you into silence—but, I mean, you want to be a cheerleader.

It's the best job in the world.

Cheerleading.

An iconic American pastime.

Some love it, others think it's an image-obsessed second-rate sport.

It's a topic far removed from my day-to-day as Refinery29's senior beauty editor.

But growing up as a soccer player, they were always of the periphery.

What I looked like on the field never mattered, but I'm here today to learn how in cheerleading,

it could mean the difference of whether or not you make the team.

So there's a big difference in this, it's pretty.

Sideline Prep is a pro-cheer consulting company and Genienne Samuels is its leader.

Teaching the tricks of the trade from her 11-year run as a professional cheerleader.

What's most important: definitely nutrition and fitness, and then just don't sleep on

the importance of your appearance.

But when did appearance become so important to pro cheer?

Cheerleading in the early 1900s was a male-only activity at elite Ivy League schools.

During World War II, women took over when the men left to fight,

stepping it up with gymnastics and acrobatics.

It was in the 1970s that Dallas Cowboy owner, Tex Schramm, saw a lucrative opportunity to

boost ticket sales by making cheerleading all about sex appeal.

Skin tight outfits, suggestive dance moves and a beauty queen look became a must.

Today, professional cheer is as much about image as it is about dance.

For these women it's all part of the game, just as important as putting in long hours

at the gym and mastering moves.

We work so hard for years just for one audition.

It's about the experience, it's about the sisterhood.

I love the glam.

I love the feeling of putting on my makeup and getting my hair done and going to dance

and seeing myself in the mirror.

I just love it.

From their moves to their makeup, every last detail is considered.

Whatever it takes to land a coveted spot on a team of their dreams.

Women want to become professional cheerleaders to basically extend their life of a passion

that they already have.

Professional level is the next step for them.

Yay!

That was so good!

But recent headlines are shining new light on to this dream, revealing just how vulnerable

it is to exploitation.

A new lawsuit against the Raiders.

Two Raiderettes say that they were humiliated and groped.

They're not even paid for quite a bit of the work that they do.

An entire reform on how professional cheerleaders are treated is long overdue.

She and her lawyer are calling on the NFL to do more to protect cheerleaders.

Kristan Ann Ware is currently filing a claim

against the NFL and her former Miami Dolphin's cheer team for discrimination based on her gender

and religious beliefs.

She says that once her team discovered her vow to wait for marriage, coaches started

singling her out and attacking her.

It all came to a head in her third season interview.

Usually in the interviews they talk about your dance technique, you know, how you are

in choreography, what they expect of you, and things like that, and nothing

of my job was talked about during that interview.

And I went in and sat down and the first thing that the director mentioned was, "let's talk

about your vow to wait for marriage."

I was, I don't know, I remember the feeling— of sitting there kind of like, my palms started

to sweat, your knee caps start to shake, your heart's pounding because something in me

told me, this isn't right.

What happened after your interview?

They asked me to change into a bikini

to see if I was calendar ready.

Which was usual. It was never a problem before, but just the fact that I felt like

I was attacked for something so personal and so valuable to me, and to then have to change

into a bikini and stand in front of them—I mean, it took a piece of me.

I remember looking in the mirror and just saying,

"Kristan, you can leave, you can walk out right now."

And I didn't.

Kristan Ann was used to being critiqued on her appearance, it was part of the job.

For her, what crossed the line was feeling disrespected and degraded, and she's not alone.

This kind of treatment is pervasive across the country.

Bailey Davis, a former New Orleans sensation says she was kicked off the team for an Instagram

photo deemed too sexy.

Members of the 2013 Washington Redskins cheer team reported being forced to post pose topless

at a photoshoot while male sponsors watched.

And former Houston Texans cheerleader, Gabriella Davis, alleges that she and her teammates were

called "crack whores" and "jelly bellies."

I have not spoken to a cheerleader, not one, where they didn't tell me that they were

told all the time that they are not special, that they are just a girl in a uniform

and there's a million girls that would take their place.

Sara Blackwell is a lawyer representing Kristan Ann, along with several other former pro-cheerleaders

who are taking on the NFL.

It sounds to me like they just want to completely control them.

They have a lot of control over these women and the way they get it is by belittling them

and making them feel worthless.

You are told that you are only here to be seen and never heard.

Your opinion doesn't matter, your voice doesn't matter, you're completely replaceable.

Why would they say things like that?

I think it's the ownership and the control they want to have over you.

Not only when you're in the uniform and you're at your job, but when you're away from it.

Sara gave me access to some of the cheerleaders' handbooks and rules.

I saw guidelines for everything.

Love life, social media, and appearance.

The rules for dealing with players reveal a clear double standard, cheerleaders

are told to avoid players at all costs.

But the players are free to do what they want.

This is extreme gender discrimination, and players can go anywhere they want, they can

text the cheerleaders, they can call the cheerleaders, they can follow the cheerleaders on social

media, but if the cheerleaders even accept their request they can be immediately terminated.

They say it's for the girls' protection, which is sad, because we're not in the 1950s here.

Perhaps the best indicator of how much they're valued is how much they're paid.

I used to be a Cincinnati Bengal, but I was paid more being a dancing cupcake than an

NFL cheerleader.

It didn't take long for Alexa Brenneman, now Wesendorf, a two-season cheerleader for

the Cincinnati Bengals, to realize she was being taken advantage of.

You're expected to pay for your nails, you're expected to pay for your hair, you're going to

have to have a gym membership, stay in shape.

But we were paid around $100 per game.

I added up our practices, our trainings, our appearances, our events and then divided those

hours and it's less than $3.00 an hour.

Alexa filed a lawsuit against the Cincinnati Bengals and in 2015 the team finally agreed

to back pay and to raise salaries to meet minimum wage.

As these lawsuits come about, women are starting to be paid minimum wage and things are starting

to change.

Alexa's case shows that it's possible to take on the NFL and win.

Still, there's a long way to go.

Today, what cheerleaders are paid is less than the players and in many cases less than

the mascots, less than the concession stand workers.

I was curious to know what GeNienne Samuels, as a professional cheer veteran,

thought of everything I'd learned.

A lot of cheerleaders that we've spoken to have said one of the things that kept them

quiet was this idea of, you're easily replaceable, I can have a girl in here by tomorrow.

The concept of feeling as though you are easily replaceable is valid, I think for pro cheer.

It's also valid as a reporter, as an anchor, but I think that it's less of a fear

and just part of reality.

And I would hope that women don't allow that reality to hinder them speaking up and

voicing concerns or problems that they may encounter.

Cheerleading has been my life.

As a child it was my outlet.

We're in it because we love it, because we're dancers, and we love the sisterhood.

There are so many younger girls that look up to me, I just want to set the

tone for them and show them that this is an attainable dream for them.

While some have used the lawsuits as part of a bigger argument to end pro cheerleading,

the women leading the charge see an opportunity for something else.

A chance to be included in the conversation.

I'm just speaking out to make a positive difference for the NFL, not to bash the NFL.

What it's gonna take is a team of women that are going to stand up together

and say, we're not going to tolerate this any longer.

What do you hope happens with the NFL?

They need to say, "I hear you," to the cheerleaders and "we're gonna take effective and real

steps to make this a very professional and lawful environment."

And if their voices are heard it could transform the sport into something that's truly worth cheering for.

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What's The Deal With Crying At Work? | Strong Opinions Loosely Held | RIOT - Duration: 6:04.

Alright, I gotta tell you something really embarrassing.

I got caught crying in the bathroom at work again.

It's like every year, I watch these commencement speeches and I feel so inspired and so fulfilled.

I would tell my 21 year old self that personal happiness lies in knowing that life is not

a checklist of acquisition or achievement.

Be a do-er.

Not a dreamer.

Failure is just life trying to move us in another direction.

But, then reality sets in and I'm in the third stall of the bathroom balling my eyes

out and praying nobody hears me.

And that assumes I can even make it to the bathroom in time.

Look, I would take advice from J.K., Oprah, and Shonda any day of the week, but why did

nobody teach us how to mentally prepare for work?

Where was the class on office politics and why didn't I take it?

In order to get some perspective, I talked to a White House Communications Director,

Jennifer Palmieri.

I was the White House Communications Director for President Obama

I am very easily moved to tears, it's very possible that I may cry in this very interview.

Just when something is important to me, I'm gonna tear up.

It's happened in the oval office, it's happened at times in a meeting with Barack

Obama.

So it really frustrates me when I hear people say that to tear up at work is not professional.

Tearing up, I have a full blown mental breakdown every day at work

I don't know any women who it doesn't happen to.

You'll hear things, "Well you know, it's just not professional."

I know what that word means.

That word means, it's not what men do.

If you're moved to tears but then say, "I care so much about this, it's actually moving

me to tears."

We spent centuries – hundreds, and hundreds, and hundreds of years making politics and

the workplace a good place for men.

Yes, the modern workplace was literally designed for men.

I think that we have to bring our whole selves to the office.

So I feel like if we're bringing all of our emotions and our passions, and not muting

them, that's better.

This idea that we should be our full selves at work literally flies in the face of everything

I know to be true.

Work is supposed to be the place where you go to suppress your true self just to get

through the day.

But, Claire Shipman actually talks a lot about this and she says that the qualities that

women bring to the table at work, like passion, are actually really good and they shouldn't

be suppressed.

Generally speaking, women tend to be better at negotiating, more conciliatory, we're

less hierarchical.

Study after study shows the more women you have at the top of a company the more money

you make because we're bringing a different sort of management skill.

It's not a Mad Men style confidence.

We really can't risk giving up what makes us unique.

It's not easy because we haven't learned it at an early age.

Because from an early age, girls are just better at sitting still, being quiet, coloring within

the lines, getting everything right.

And they start to internalize that as a reason why they're valuable.

So we create this perfectionism by middle school and high school.

And if you are a perfectionist, what do you not want to do?

Fail.

Or take risks.

They are just excelling beyond belief academically, but they're not learning the skills they

need in the real world.

Cause the rules change.

It's all about promoting yourself, taking chances, speaking up.

Okay, nobody tells us that.

It's not easy because we haven't learned it at an early age.

That's why entering the working world feels such a bait and switch.

So what would you say are the things that we have to teach young women today about being

successful?

I think young women really need to learn to take risks, they need to learn to get comfortable

with failure and get through it, and also that perfectionism is a pitfall.

They really have to jettison perfectionism because nobody is perfect and it will keep

you from building confidence.

Talking to Claire and Jennifer gave me a whole new perspective.

I actually had a game plan.

And then I found an intern crying in the bathroom stall.

I had to pass these insights onto the next generation of working women.

Okay ladies, you are about to enter the workforce.

Under your chairs is a working women starter pack and in it you will find a wine glass

big enough to hold a full bottle of wine because you are not gonna want to get out of bed for

refills after the day you've had.

The second thing is a block of cheese, because cheese isn't just for guests anymore.

It's your dinner.

And the third thing is a monthly planner.

You don't need a weekly anymore, because you have no plans.

Alright, now for some real talk.

Repeat after me.

It's okay to cry at work.

It's okay to cry at work.

Take risks.

Take risks.

It's okay to fail.

Perfection is our pitfall.

Say it again.

It's okay to cry at work.

You got this!

I'm crying because I'm so passionate about this project.

Perfection is our pitfall!

Perfection is our pitfall!

Yes!

Get it girls!

I am so proud of you ladies!

It's okay to cry at work, you have to take risks, it's okay to fail,

Perfection is a pitfall.

You got that last one, you got it.

Okay, perfection is a pitfall.

You got it.

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How to replace spark plug on RENAULT CLIO 2 BB, CB Hatchback [TUTORIAL AUTODOC] - Duration: 2:30.

Open the hood.

Disconnect the high voltage wires from the spark plugs.

Use a drive socket No.16. Remove the spark plugs with a spark plug wrench and place them on a work surface in the order of installing in the engine.

Apply a thin layer of special grease on the thread surface of new spark plugs.

Use a drive socket No.16. Screw new spark plugs and tighten them.

Connect the high voltage wires to the spark plugs.

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Do you know? | Cartoon Video For Kids | Nursery Rhymes For Babies - Duration: 1:03:25.

Do you know your clothes?

And how to put them all on?

Can you wear your clothes without a mess?

Let me show you how

It's really simple now

These are all the steps you need to dress

1

Put on your shirt and

2

Pull on your pants and

3

Pull on your socks that's cool

4

Put on your jacket

5

Put on your shoes and look

You're ready for your school

Do you know your clothes?

And how to put them all on?

Can you wear your clothes without a mess?

Let me show you how

It's really simple now

These are all the steps you need to dress

1

Put on your blouse and

2

Pull on your skirt and

3

Pull on your socks that's cool

4

Put on your jacket

5

Put on your shoes and look

You're ready for your school

Do you know your clothes?

And how to put them all on?

Can you wear your clothes without a mess?

Let me show you how

It's really simple now

These are all the steps you need to dress

1

Put on your shirt and

2

Pull on your pants and

3

Pull on your socks that's cool

4

Put on your jacket

5

Put on your shoes and look

You're ready for your school

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REMEDIUM ( freediving in Iceland Þingvellir National Park) - Duration: 9:42.

"It's not because things are difficult that we dare not venture. It's because we dare not venture that they are difficult." ― Lucius Annaeus Seneca

Everyone has a moment in their life in which they realize that something needs to be changed

Time to turn the page

You realize that you have to sort out some problems that bothers you

Have you ever feel that your day is running too fast ?

Like an action movie

And you are an actor in this movie

But you can,t change the script

Too fast , too much, not enough time...

Too hectic, too much stress , loosing control

I just said, stop...

I get off this train

Couple years ago my doctor gave me a diagnosis

He told me that i got asthma

and i have to take medicines for the rest of my life.

It wasn`t good news for me

I,m a proffesional singer so lungs and bronchi are very important in my work

With my band,we,ve been playing three - four gigs per week

often then i had dysapnea

and breathing problems

My doctor prescribed medications for me

and said i have to be on medication for the rest of my life...

but i don,t like drugs

so after one year i stopped taking pills

However....

as usual, life brought me a solution

My salvation was apnea

I was freediving since i was little kid

Apnea, freediving

That was something !

Have you remember Big Blue movie ?

I was really want to be in the same world as the guys from this movie

Remedy

On the beginning it was only fun buy then i realized that training apnea can bring me relief

controlling my body, mind and fears can bring back my natural balance

and give me peace of mind

Sometimes you just have to trust the nature

and follow your inner instinct

Sea and ocean

i feel that i,m belong to this world

despite the threat over me

A while back i,ve heard about amazing place in Iceland

which is situated in Thingvellir National Park

Silfra river is submerged rift between two tectonic plates

which divide Iceland in half

Water in this river is cristal clear and it flows from a glacier located nearby

Water temperature is two degrees celsius

depth is around 60 meters

I decided to go there and try to dive

I wanted to find out

if i managed to cure asthma, would I manage to face this challenge?

People forgot that we are shaped by our thoughts

we are what they are

If your mind is clear, we become happier

and our body is healthy

I feel i,m part of this world

world of nature

this better world....

this pure and amazing world of wild nature

finally

i became healthy

Whoaaa, i nailed it !

Life is beautiful , Mother....s !

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RENAULT CLIO 2 BB, CB Hatchback gyújtógyertya csere [ÚTMUTATÓ AUTODOC] - Duration: 2:30.

Open the hood.

Disconnect the high voltage wires from the spark plugs.

Use a drive socket No.16. Remove the spark plugs with a spark plug wrench and place them on a work surface in the order of installing in the engine.

Apply a thin layer of special grease on the thread surface of new spark plugs.

Use a drive socket No.16. Screw new spark plugs and tighten them.

Connect the high voltage wires to the spark plugs.

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Où est mon dieu | Where is my god | Feat. Samit Kapoor | Atharva - Aryaman (Official music video) - Duration: 4:36.

Où est mon dieu, Où est mon dieu, where is my god

tell me lord

Où est mon dieu, Où est mon dieu, where is my god

Oh tell me lord

I've lost hope

I've lost me

I've lost all, I lived for

Now I see, an empty road

I'll take the path

never taken before

And as I stand here now

I know

that things will never be the same

just let me stay here

rest alone

I'm sick and tired

of your games

Of your games

Où est mon dieu, Où est mon dieu, where is my god

Tell me lord

Où est mon dieu, Où est mon dieu, where is my god

tell me lord

I know now

I'm all alone

I've got no place

To call my home

Trying my best, To not fall down

yet you push on me

you make me frown

And as you walked away I thought

away I thought wow

I wondered if I've been forgot

Forgot

your traces have been wiped away

but the scars they seem to remain

seem to remain

Walk me to the end, don't leave me just then

Guide me through the darkness, bring me back again

you don't have to turn that water into wine

to prove to me that you're divine

Où est mon dieu, Où est mon dieu, where is my god

Tell me lord

Où est mon dieu, Où est mon dieu, where is my god

tell me?

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বলিউডের সুপারহিট ২০ নায়িকাদের মেকআপ ছাড়া কুখ্যাত চেহারা |Bollywood Actress Without Makeup Looks - Duration: 3:02.

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Lucie Vondráčková exkluzivně: Naše předmanželská smlouva je neplatná! - Duration: 3:49.

 Jenom několik hodin poté, co Tomáš Plekanec na svém facebookovém profilu informoval, že se s matkou svých dvou synů Lucií Vondráčkovou rozhodli pro konec sedmiletého manželství, podepsala zpěvačka v Kanadě rozvodové papíry

 Jak Expresu přiznala, k tomuto kroku ji prý donutil Plekanec, který měl na ni naléhat s vydáním oficiálního vyjádření

Když jsme se Lucky zeptali, jak je možné, že se tak rychle dostala do Montrealu, kde rozvodové papíry podepisovala, sdělila nám, že matka dokáže všechno, aby ochránila své děti

 To ale stále nevysvětlovalo, proč se rozhodla rozvádět v Kanadě, když se s Plekancem brali v České republice

 „Podle právníků se máme rozvádět tam, kde mají naše děti trvalé bydliště. A ty mají kanadské občanství," sdělila nám Vondráčková

 Také jsme se jí zeptali, zda pravým důvodem nebyl fakt, že jejich předmanželská smlouva je v Kanadě neplatná, zatímco v Česku by se museli řídit podle ní

  „To je věc právníků. Ta smlouva je velice jednostranná. Teď vše záleží na nich," odpověděla Lucie a záhy vysvětlila, co myslela tou jednostrannou smlouvou

„Její znění je podle právníků prý protiprávní i v České republice." Znamená to snad, že by smlouva byla neplatná? Vondráčková odvětila, že vše je v rukou jejích právních zástupců

 To může být i vysvětlením, proč Vondráčková takovým kvapem spěchala do Kanady, kde proběhne boj o stovky milionů

Plekanec jí měl údajně nabídnout třicetimilionové odstupné, ale pokud by se ukázalo, že je předmanželská smlouva neplatná, dvojnásobná maminka by měla nárok na polovinu z 380 milionů korun, které hokejista po dobu jejich manželství vydělal, zatímco ona se doma starala o výchovu dvou synů

 A jelikož v rozvodovém řízení mají kanadské občanství nejspíš jenom jejich synové, soud bude přihlížet hlavně na práva svých občanů

To hraje do karet právě slavné zpěvačce. Pomůže jí i fakt, že se hokejista přiznal ke vztahu s tenistkou Lucií Šafářovou

 Jsme sami zvědavi, jak tento spor dopadne. Nyní to bude záležet hlavně na schopnostech rozvodových právníků

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