I agree that she is my mother
She has only given birth to me..
She has the right on me
But scolding me for just talking about birth control
Isn't my body mine?
Do I have no right on my own body?
I am not a baby machine.
I cannot keep bearing children like instant like a machine.
I have my own life, and I should have my own choice.
What does this mean?
But, what can she too do? She too is tied.
What can I expect from anyone when my own mother cannot understand me.
I guess, no one understood even her pain ever.
Then, how could she even support me when our society is itself in this way...
Getting to 18 years is like a government age.
They start keep worrying about the marriage of a girl before she is born itself.
We want a grandson. We want a grand daughter.
We want this. We want that.
The Groom's family wants dowry.
Husband wants beauty in woman.
Tired of hearing who wants what all from me.
But did anyone ever ask me of what would I want?
When I can care about myself first, only then can i care about others. Right?
Birth control is bad for my body...
Okay!!!
But, I think that is a myth.
Even after having good educated people in our society, these kinds of myths are still revolving around??
My own mom believes it.
This is just so absurd.
This is so pity.
May it be that I am not hopeless, but this kind of mentality of the society is definitely hopeless.
How can there be development when I do not have a choice of my own?
That means - I have no EQUALITY...
Just get graduated from a normal college.
Become a perfect house wife material.
Marriage at 25 years.
After that, having baby in one year.
And more babies.
And more and more babies.
Am I a baby machine?
How would you too know?
You are not a GIRL right.
Everything is in this way for me. Just because I am a GIRL.
A girl should do this. A girl should do that. A girl cannot do certain things.....etc
My Foot!
Well, what kind of a difference would it make to anyone either?
I am just a Girl.
One day I just have to leave everyone and go to someone's house getting married.
By the way, my mom always used to tell me: DONT TALK TO STRANGERS, THEY ARE VERY BAD....
They can be dangerous.
And then one day, I am married to one.
And I have to sleep with them.
WOah!
How amazing is our society!!!
CULTURE. TRADITION.
How they make our situations adverse and worse...
As if, there is no logic in anything at all. Everything is just culture.
Culture should be there. I accept it.
It should be followed. I accept it.
But what wrong is there is wrong..
Taking the name of Culture and hiding these kinds of major issues for women is not right.
Atleast not for me...
I will never force my daughter....
to do anything that she is not comfortable with.
Even if, it is her husband.
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