hi everyone this is the untwisted voice of teri qi and welcome to my video blog
I was recently dating the last couple of weeks a month and I dated this person
and she put me in the friend zone I was in the friend zone I I hadn't kind of
hots for her and I wanted maybe the date or more but I was placed in the friend
zone and that's what's triggered this video is how do you know you are in the
friend zone and I'm going to give a few techniques at the end of the video to
tell you how to get out of the friend zone and this video is good for all ages
and both sexes male and female so stay tuned and let's get to it I want
to start off the video by giving you a brief definition what I mean about being
in the friend zone and there's nothing wrong with being in the friend zone if
you want to be there and there's nothing wrong with you or the other person or if
you're putting in the friend zone basically the friend zone is like this
they may think you're funny maybe think you're intelligent but there's no
chemistry there's no physical attraction to you so you're just like a friend so
there's no chemistry there's no attraction they don't want to be
intimate with you it's nor their fault or your fault it's just nature it's just
the way it is but some people get placed in the friend zone and they're going
over the difference they think the other person may be the other person is just
being nice maybe they want something from them maybe they just want to be
friends who knows no one really knows you have to ask them right I don't know
but the thing is is this video will help you recognize it and get out of the
friendzone you know the friendzone it's like being
in the desert you know you're walking in a desert for 40 days or 40 nights
looking for water and you want to close out first you can stay there forever and
not really realize it get that thirst quenched you know like you really that's
true or it's like going in a race and you're practicing you're practicing you
try everything to strengthen your body and get better but you always win the
consolation prize you never get the first
yet there's a finish line never that's what it's like being in the friend zone
you could be there forever what are the signs that you're in the friend zone she
gives you a nickname I'm Terry G some of my friends call me ter bear I can't
stand it why kind of laughs I kind of cute right
but tell you a ter bear right because my name is Terry right so they call me
Terry bear so nevertheless that's a nickname so if a guy you're dating or
you want to date or a woman is calling you a nickname there may be a good
chance that you are sliding into the friend zone there may be a good chance
another thing that you may recognize as sliding into the friend zone is when
you're walking down the street with him or her and they always introduce you as
a friend oh this is Terry G he's my friend we're just out today having a
good time you know that you might not say anything and you might not react to
that when they say that but you feel it I want to be more than a friend I want
to be your lover I want to get intimate with you I want to share my life with
you that's what it's probably going on inside because that's what happened to
me when they introduced me as their friend what do you mean I'm your friend
I'm here dating you but I didn't say anything I just felt it I felt like a
little pinch you know I didn't like it very much
another thing that's really that you may not even recognize but it's happening
right in front of your eyes is that every time you go out to a movie you go
out for dinner you go out to an occasion you never along with the person you're
never alone there's always a third wheel or somebody else around so you never get
the opportunity to maybe have a give a kiss talk intimately with this person
get to know this person on a deeper level you're never really given the
opportunity you're always kind of just about there but you never really get to
the finish line you never really get your needs met
you definitely are in the friend zone definitely another thing is is that the
kiss this person that I dated gave me the mama kiss or the baby kiss you know
those kisses you give like a little two-year-old or
your mom would kiss you on the cheek they give you those kind of kisses all I
carry your soul yourself finding Terry you're so funny
Terry G you know they measure just pull my cheek and kiss me on the other side
and well you know those little baby kisses or mama kisses that's what I call
them that's definitely a sign that you are in the friend zone you know as
somebody wants you there intimate for you they want to be with either sexier
to track it to you that body charge that energy that comes off the man those slap
it kiss on you male or female that you'll remember for the rest of your
life they'll embrace you like you'll know that they're involved with you but
they're giving you the baby kiss or they're giving you the mama kiss or the
grandma kiss get out of there don't waste your time it's like being in
purgatory you'll stay there for a number of years always hoping always hoping
that they may change their mind about you
but let me tell you some it's not their fault it's not your fault it's just
nature it really is how do you get out of it be assertive be assertive if you
date somebody a couple of times and you like them they can physically attract it
to them and you think you're falling into this the friendzone or you just
want to make your attentions clear to them make your attentions clear get it
on the table I like you I want to date you I want to
get to know you better be assertive lay it out on the table that's a clear way
of getting out of the friend zone whether they're going to reciprocate
that they want to date you they want to get intimate with you because that's
what they're saying right or they're gonna tell you oh you know Terry gee
you're just a friend of mine huh no no I don't want to date you we could just be
friends I hate that we can just be friends I shouldn't say I hate it but
well you're when you want somebody intimately you want to be your
girlfriend or boyfriend they say things like that it kind of pitches you right
it kind of stings right gives you that sting another thing is you can flirt
with them and you can do this a more subtle way you can be flirty with them
everybody knows how to flirt you can flirt with the woman you can flirt with
the man and see if they reciprocate back and if it wraps it up it gets a little
more intimate if it gets a little closer that's two ways you can get out of the
friendzone but also pay attention to what I'm telling you pay attention to
what I'm saying don't waste your time look for the clues I know you're
emotionally involved with this person and they really don't know it I know
that and I know you want more than they want but just because they don't want it
with you it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you move on with
your life find somebody who wants to embrace you and thinks you're number one
because you know why you are number one you are number one
and I have a tooth missing as everybody would know I got to do a couple videos
like this I've had some major dental surgery so I'm gonna move on forward
with my videos you're gonna see me change over the next couple of months so
I just want to bring that to your attention and while you probably know
it's kind of obvious right so look at thanks for watching my video blog and
remember look after yourself because it shows have a great day and
see you later Thanks
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