Bok brothers in arms Nkosi and Dyantyi resume hostilities on opposite sides this weekend
Bok brothers in arms Nkosi and Dyantyi resume hostilities on opposite sides this weekend.
In the past three weeks‚ S'busiso Nkosi and Aphiwe Dyantyi were national team brothers in arms with their solid performances against England.
With Super Rugby hostilities resuming this weekend‚ Nkosi (Sharks) and Dyantyi (Lions) will be on opposite sides at Kings Park Stadium on Saturday.
Nkosi knows how well he has bonded with Dyantyi over the past month but the friendship has to be put aside as the franchises chase different Super Rugby goals.
"I feel nothing and this is business. I get on the field and this is my franchise against yours," said Nkosi.
"We'll have to put friendship aside and we'll have a good laugh after the game. It's game on‚ especially if you're passionate about your franchise and you want the best for them.
"You put the friendship for later on." The Lions have achieved an excellent degree of success against all South African Super Rugby teams but with their wonky form this season‚ that can't be taken for granted.
However‚ the Lions have risen to every South African challenge this season but the Sharks pose a particular threat.
Where the Lions failed against the New Zealand teams‚ the Sharks over-achieved.
This is something Nkosi is aware of but not letting them get to their heads‚ especially coupled by the fact the Sharks haven't beaten the Lions since 2015.
"Not beating the Lions isn't something that was mentioned in the camp.
"Maybe deep inside we know we owe the Lions one and we do go into the game with a lot of motivation because we've played with some of the players at Bok level.
"It's like a point to prove sort of situation‚" Nkosi said.
"The Lions against the Sharks is a big South African derby and I don't think it's one that'll simmer any-time soon.
"You expect fireworks when the Sharks meet the Lions and I think the players are up for that this week" The Sharks have to beat the Lions to keep up with the Jaguares.
Robert du Preez's side is six points behind the South American outfit and they cannot afford to lose.
With the Jaguares having the later game against the Stormers‚ the Sharks have to deliver.
Nkosi said they were happy with the fact their fate is still in their own hands.
"There's enough motivation knowing that we're not depending on any other results to influence our qualification.
"That is extra motivation if we do need any.
It's a good reason to keep it tight and ensure we win this game‚" Nkosi said.
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Yamaha R3 - LED kit / Underglow kit / Neon light install 2015+ - Duration: 11:27.
I'm going to put some LED lights onto the Yamaha r3
I already have some on there put i have two more that I have
Lets get going
I'm going to put one literally behind the frame right here
the other one will be
right up front but underneath
So you can see i have some on the sides
But I want to have one right on top to be going down in front of that
lights
alright guys you want to have this clean or the 3m tape on the LED light wont stick
Behind this
Only uh was a three inch LED like
So here's the LED good kid I've got that is on eBay pretty good. It's all free wider
Clicks on the ready I keep doing your own custom ones, but
Then app so much time we get pretty quick and simple so
3-inch
I'm here to here and somebody shining the light in
All this will be behind perfect will be getting in the way
Does not get in the way
There were these wires is on long enough to go throughout the boycott da de wardes it's not going to be this
Way
Now all you have one more connector
Once you light them
Now will be front
This ski was this kit was not so expensive as the 12 piece
Motorcycle with collars
Multiple lights multiple combination flash whatever you want. It's pretty good. I
got the kit for
Because up you driving that night so that's an extra caution
So like I said amigo
Alcohol dries really quick, so
These are the three LED strips are waterproof, so
what about
Water get into it
So now I'm really gonna tuck it nobody. There's a channel here every morning
Now
Forget the wires
From here
So that's
Pretty much how it's coming out. So now I need to bring this wire all the way down here underneath the frame
It should be good. I'll be connected just that wonder that one
Connected everything the lights are on you can see
Perfect. I was looking for this right now
It's shining out to the shock back of the engine the middle of the frame back of the tires
Perfect the bottom of the engine front
You get the front of the motorcycle
Perfect top cutting right on top of the tire here
Glowing in here
stop that in make sure I
Think it's perfect. That was gonna pull one back here my bad in this frame, but
There's a chain it's gonna get dirty and also it's any other size perfect
For a 12 pack for that much money I paid for
not a
Not bad, not bad
Overall it's looking pretty good
There's my set
Blue look at that
I'll go through
There you got dimmable
There you go
Thank you for watching sorry it's a bit cold
Put in some hazard lights
some framework
so
Remote everything
I'm gonna tuck everything back in don't stuff I have left to be
This part of the furring aside and
I'm pretty much done. So what thank you guys for watching
subscribe comment
Will let me know which other video you want to see
so
catch you later guys
You
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Alex Agnew stopt met zingen en focust zich weer op comedy - Duration: 6:29.
"Quit while you're ahead." Diablo Blvd., de metalgroep rond stand-upcomedian Alex Agnew (45), houdt ermee op
De band kwam gisteren zelf plots met het nieuws naar buiten en kondigde tegelijk een afscheidsconcert aan in de AB
"We zitten nu op ons hoogtepunt", zegt Agnew. "Maar een mooi einde is even belangrijk als een mooi begin
" Geen ziel op de weide van Graspop die vorig weekend durfde te denken dat hij naar één van de laatste shows van Diablo Blvd
stond te kijken. Maar het zal bij vier passages in Dessel blijven: Alex Agnew en de zijnen houden het voor bekeken
Nog enkele festivals en een afscheidsconcert in de Ancienne Belgique op 10 december, en de stekker gaat uit de Antwerpse metalband
"Dat ligt al even vast, maar Graspop was niet het juiste moment om het te vertellen", zegt Agnew
"We voelden al een tijdje dat ons verhaal verteld is. De laatste plaat kostte bloed, zweet en tranen, en voor de opnames kenden we ook al een zware periode toen onze gitarist opstapte
Dan moet je eerlijk zijn met jezelf en je fans. Ik mag er niet aan denken dat Diablo Blvd
een flauw afkooksel van zichzelf wordt. We luisteren naar ons buikgevoel en stoppen er liever nu mee
Quit while you're ahead."Stempel gedrukt Op dertien jaar tijd werkte Diablo Blvd
een sterk palmares bijeen. Vier studioalbums, waarvan de laatste Zero Hour tot in het buitenland goede kritieken kreeg
Een platendeal bij Nuclear Blast, het wereldberoemde metallabel dat ook Slayer, Machine Head en Sepultura in huis heeft
En volgende week een stek op de affiche van het Duitse Wacken Open Air, het grootste metalfestival ter wereld
"We zitten op ons hoogtepunt, dat klopt", zegt Agnew. "Als je om 12 uur 's middags het hoofdpodium van Graspop op moet en de weide staat al vol, dan beteken je iets
Een gek gevoel, want we begonnen onze groep voor de lol. Maar de laatste jaren hebben we onze stempel kunnen drukken op de Belgische muziek, en hopelijk ook de weg geplaveid voor jongere bands
Maar op Graspop voelde ik: dit is het, en hier moet het blijven. We zijn niet meer van de jongsten, de meesten van ons zijn veertigplussers met kinderen
Dan verschuiven je prioriteiten. Fulltime op tournee, hebben we daar wel nog zin in? Als we nu stoppen, doen we dat met onze best onthaalde plaat
Dat doet pijn, ja. Maar dan voel je dat het zinvol is. Dat het nog leeft." Na festivalshows op de Lokerse Feesten, Alcatraz en Pukkelpop volgt nog één laatste optreden in de AB
"Afsluiten in de mooiste zaal van het land, wat wil je meer? Dat geeft ons een adrenalineshot voor die laatste concerten
En voilà, plots hebben we er wél weer zin in. (lacht) Neen, serieus, de AB wordt het einde
Go out with a bang. Ik sluit niet uit dat ik iets anders met muziek ga doen, maar voorlopig focus ik me weer op comedy en mijn eigen podcast
De rest van de band blijf ik zien, we gaan zeker niet in ruzie uiteen. Maar in plaats van samen in een tourbus te kruipen, zullen we nu met de kinderen in een stationwagen op reis gaan
We zijn oud aan het worden, man." (lacht)
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[L'analisi] Euro e migranti, il cappio intorno al collo dell'Italia. Ecco perché il vertice Ue puòco - Duration: 11:01.
Per l'Italia, il vertice europeo che si apre oggi a Bruxelles, è ad alto rischio. Improbabile che, nei due giorni di discussione, si arrivi a conclusioni definitive
Ma anche solo l'impostazione dei problemi secondo direttrici sgradite potrebbe poi costringere l'Italia, nei prossimi mesi, ad una dura battaglia in salita
E' un esito – questo sì – probabile: l'imperativo politico dei due giorni di summit è, infatti, come è stato detto, "salviamo la Merkel" (dalla sua opposizione interna) e i 27 leader che le saranno seduti accanto non vorranno, alla fine, tirarsi indietro
Anche se questo significasse "affondiamo l'Italia". Fra Berlino e Roma c'è infatti, in questo frangente, un viluppo inestricabile
I temi chiave del summit sono immigrazione e riforma dell'euro. Sono i temi su cui, oggi, l'Italia è più esposta
E sono, contemporaneamente, quelli su cui la Merkel gioca il suo futuro. Il problema è che la Merkel vince se l'Italia perde
E viceversa. La rissa generale sull'immigrazione Il presidente del Consiglio italiano si presenta a Bruxelles con una proposta forte e coraggiosa, che (finalmente) ribalterebbe l'impostazione della politica europea sui rifugiati
Tre i punti chiave. 1) Basta co n il trattato di Dublino che assegna gli immigrati al primo paese in cui sbarcano
Il mare di fronte alla Libia è un confine europeo. 2) Quindi gli immigrati vanno ripartiti fra i diversi paesi europei, secondo quote prefissate 3) Fine della distinzione fra chi chiede asilo e chi solo di immigrare, che allunga all'infinito i tempi burocratici e le cadenze dell'accoglienza
Varate queste modifiche, il problema degli immigrati secondari, che incendia il dibattito tedesco, dove la destra vorrebbe respingerli ai paesi di primo sbarco, perderebbe rilevanza: gli immigrati secondari – cioè quelli che con la domanda di asilo ancora pendente o respinta – diventerebbero, nel momento in cui ci fosse una redistribuzione degli arrivi fra i diversi paesi, numericamente molti di meno
Roma arriva, con questa proposta ambiziosa, nelle condizioni peggiori. Ha cercato l'appoggio di chi - come austriaci e ungheresi – non ha nessuna intenzione di accettare quote di immigrati
E ha ferocemente litigato con chi, come Francia e Germania, quasi certamente, la pensa allo stesso modo, ma si vergogna a dirlo e potrebbe fare qualche concessione
Giuseppe Conte potrà dire di non aver fatto un buco nell'acqua, se otterrà che la proposta italiana venga messa agli atti, in attesa di futura discussione
I rischi, però, sono nelle decisioni che verranno prese nel frattempo. Perché c'è un progetto alternativo che farebbe assai comodo alla Merkel e non solo e che, per l'Italia, è una trappola
I rischi per l'Italia Sono soprattutto quattro. Rischio numero uno: tutti sono d'accordo nel creare centri in cui le domande di asilo vengano processate, prima che gli immigrati si mettano in viaggio verso l'Europa
Ma gli sbarchi ci saranno comunque. Dove processare le domande di chi, comunque, è sbarcato in Europa? Il posto più comodo, per gli altri paesi europei, è l'Italia
Se il progetto alternativo passasse, Roma si troverebbe a gestire, anche nell'ipotesi di un calo degli sbarchi, decine di migliaia di immigrati irregolari
Rischio numero due: parte degli immigrati verrebbe redistribuita in altri paesi, ma solo su base volontaria, secondo convenienze e logiche politiche estranee alla gravità o meno del fenomeno e alle difficoltà italiane
Rischio numero tre: il 93 per cento degli immigrati non ha diritto all'asilo, pur avendolo chiesto
Questo vuol dire che, se escono dall'Italia e provano ad entrare in Germania, diventerebbero quegli immigrati irregolari che i tedeschi, infatti, vorrebbero rimandare nel paese di primo sbarco, ovvero l'Italia
In altre parole, l'Italia finirebbe per dover tenere dentro i suoi confini, comunque, il 93 per cento di chi sbarca e, soprattutto, di chi è già sbarcato ed è in attesa di veder processata la sua richiesta di asilo
Stiamo parlando, come minimo, di decine di migliaia di persone e di famiglie. Rischio numero quattro: quel 93 per cento di immigrati irregolari, alla fine, dovrebbe essere rispedito in Africa
Come? E chi lo fa? Il cappio di Meseberg Le linee di questa revisione furbesca della politica europea sull'immigrazione erano già visibili nella Dichiarazione di Meseberg che, nelle scorse settimane, ha rilanciato la cooperazione franco-tedesca
Ma quel documento firmato da Merkel e Macron contiene altre insidie che verranno allo scoperto domani a Bruxelles
Per quanto vaghe, le indicazioni sulla riforma dell'eurozona aprono scenari non rassicuranti per un'Italia con i conti in rosso
Come spesso accade in materia di riforma dell'euro, le motivazioni sono condivisibili, le indicazioni utili, ma il loro mix e il momento in cui cadono si traducono in un fucile puntato sull'Italia
E', infatti, importante che l'eurozona si doti di un bilancio comune e di strumenti di intervento in caso di crisi di singoli paesi
Ed è inevitabile che questi interventi siano "condizionali", cioè subordinati all'accettazione, da parte del governo che chiede aiuto, di interventi concordati con l'Europa
E' una questione di misura e di buon senso ed è qui che nascono i dubbi. A gestire gli interventi e a disegnare le condizioni non sarebbe la Commissione, ma i governi e l'esperienza greca ha già dimostrato che "governi", in questi casi, vuol dire soprattutto Berlino
Del resto, la Merkel non riuscirebbe in altro modo a far accettare in patria questo aumentato impegno europeo
Ma sappiamo già come ragionano, in questi casi, a Berlino e la conferma viene dal fatto che l'unico riferimento concreto, nella Dichiarazione di Meseberg, alle "condizioni" è la "sostenibilità del debito": un parametro su cui l'Italia è, già in partenza, comunque in difetto
Cosa può succedere Questo meccanismo può trasformarsi in una spirale pericolosa. Un'Italia in difficoltà, infatti, potrebbe vedersi imporre, in nome della "sostenibilità del debito" una ricetta di austerità feroce come quella che ha messo in ginocchio la società greca
Il problema è che, in base all'infernale meccanismo delle conseguenze non volute, la crisi può essere scatenata dalla stessa riforma dell'eurozona
Uno dei punti toccati a Meseberg, infatti, riguarda la possibilità di meccanismi di ristrutturazione del debito dei singoli paesi: in altre parole, di accordi con i creditori per tagliare l'entità o allungare le scadenze del debito pubblico
Anche questa è, in astratto, una innovazione utile per il futuro dell'eurozona. Ma delicatissima per l'Italia
Di fronte ad una potenziale taglio d'autorità del debito italiano, gli investitori potrebbero chiedere tassi più alti, mettendo in affanno il Tesoro
Se, contemporaneamente, si manifestassero altri motivi di diffidenza dei mercati (come nelle scorse settimane, al momento della formazione del governo) verso i titoli italiani, la possibilità, sia pure nel futuro, di una ristrutturazione del debito farebbe da moltiplicatore della diffidenza, portando alle stelle i tassi sui titoli e determinando una crisi, che fa intervenire l'Europa e imporre l'austerità
La tentazione di Conte Questo scenario semicatastrofico è puramente ipotetico ma dà l'idea dello stretto crinale su cui cammina il governo Conte e, con lui, il programma di governo di Lega e 5stelle
Ecco perché c'è chi non esclude che, in questi due giorni, a Bruxelles, il presidente del Consiglio sia tentato dall'idea di vendere la casa per un piatto di lenticchie
Ovvero, di cedere sull'immigrazione e sui colpi di coda futuri della riforma dell'euro, in cambio di una flessibilità immediata sui conti pubblici di quest'anno e dell'anno prossimo, che consenta di realizzare le promesse elettorali su cui il governo gialloverde fa riposare il suo futuro
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5 ASTUCES pour développer le SENTIMENT DE COMPÉTENCE de nos élèves - Duration: 20:29. For more infomation >> 5 ASTUCES pour développer le SENTIMENT DE COMPÉTENCE de nos élèves - Duration: 20:29. -------------------------------------------
Se sentir compétent à l'école : LA CARTE DU SUPER-HÉROS ! - Duration: 9:41.
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Warface: Несправедливая система начисления очков - Duration: 11:40.
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Fluency for stuttering - Stuttering treatment goals - Duration: 17:58.
Hey, if you stutter or stammer and if you want to speak fluently this video is
for you. Stay tuned.
From the medical perspective fluency is a quality, a criterion of a healthy, normal
speaking but at the same time you've probably already heard that fluency is a
wrong goal when you're trying to get free from stuttering because fluency does
not represent your speaking, it's just a quality of your speaking. The
speaking can be very different resulting with fluency. Fluency if you wish is just
a shade of your speaking, it's not the meat and bones, it's not the substance of
your speaking. So each time we're thinking, we are having a goal of fluency,
we're thinking about fluency, we're trying to be fluent we kind of chase
that shade, we're chasing pretty much nothing. We forget about the real stuff,
the real speaking what your speaking is consisting of, what it's made of, what
it represents, what is inside your speaking. Imagine you want to ask, you
want to say "Where do you live mr. Dawson?" So the way you want to say is a normal way
"where you live mr. Dawson?" So imagine you said fluently "where you live" and then
you're facing "m" mr. and you know you struggle with "m"
So "where do you live" So you said fluently "where do you live" but you created
the ground, the foundation for your struggle with "m." You might say "where
do you live mr." "where do you live mr." creating struggle for "d" Dawson. You might go
fluently with the whole phrase "where do you live mr. Dawson?" and you might feel like
a victory wow I've done it! I said it fluently! What in fact happened is just
your stuttering was not revealed so if we have a goal of stuttering treatment
or of your improvement efforts maybe self-help improvement efforts, if we have
fluency as that goal you will be trying to say that phrase fluently in some way
and you might practice that ten times, a hundred times, a thousand times and you
might say it fluently but you don't change your speaking pattern this way,
your speaking pattern stays the same. And it is impaired so your stuttering
will be revealed, will come up at some point because when you start "where" "where
do you live" when you start your phrase your goal is
to go through fluently until you have an issue, until you block, until you get
stuck, until you feel difficulty. Instead of trying to get through fluently we
want to feel the inner structure of our speaking right from the first sound
"Where do you live mr. Dawson?" It can be one go, one air flow "where do you live
mr. Dawson?" It can be two air flows like "where do you
live mr. Dawson" The point is you want to launch your speaking piece creating that
airflow and you want to go to the stresses in your speaking piece.
You create a feeling that I'm in total control of my speaking piece, of my
phrase and overall gradually over my speaking. So you're not
chasing fluency in this case. You're chasing the right structure which I call
the training speech. And the problem of the training speech is of course it
doesn't sound, like it doesn't look like regular normal speaking and many
people say to that, "I don't like that because that's not me. I want to be
normal like that girl and like that guy." The truth is I'm telling it again you're
not that guy or that girl. We have stuttering which means our
automated speaking pattern is impaired and it's a certain state we've built we
have right now we can try to introduce different tricks and techniques but
eventually we don't change our speaking pattern this way. So the training speech
that I showed you, well, you might not like the training
speech, the other person you're talking to might not quite like it because
you're taking your time, you're being yourself, you're not fussing around,
you're not trying to satisfy anybody but your body and mind, your physical memory,
your emotional memory they like the training speech. And they need the training
speech if you want to build that confidence in your speaking you wanna
like this training speech. And some people say, "this is not me" Yes, this is
not you. But that "me" is your stuttering speaking pattern, that's what you have.
That "me" is a very vague concept. I mean what is "me?" Is there any room
for a personal change at all? It's really hard to imagine how our responses to
different situations and environments how much they are automated but yet
there is some room for change. The thing is, taking that phrase that we played
with, when you say "where do you live" you see, you already know that you struggle with "m"
you struggle will "d" So you know that you will get stuck either at "m" or at "d."
You actually anticipate it so you want to go kind of fluently before that "where
do you live" but you have that certainty that you will get stuck at
some point. Now imagine with the training speech what you're having is
a certainty that you won't get stuck. "Where do you live mr. Dawson?" or "where do you live
mr. Dawson?" in one go or in two goes. So if you're using your training speech
pretty consistently you gradually build a different feeling behind the
very act of speaking. And if you remove that anxiety, that stuttering fear that
anticipation of stuttering... Well, we cannot change our genes
you know, our physical structure but we can change how we feel about speaking
dramatically. So coming back to the goal of the stuttering treatment. If fluency
is not the goal what should be the goal or goals of the stuttering treatment then?
My take on that is that we need to focus on two things. The first one well
let's call it acceptance. When we try to be fluent we try to hide
our stuttering, we try to hide our self right now because right now we stutter, we do!
As long as you hide it, as long as you suppress it, as long as you try to be
normal you will never be able to get to the training speech in the first place
because training speech means that you say that "I do stutter and I'm trying to
improve." Each time we're trying to be normal like that guy like that girl we
abandon, we give up our open approach, our ability to use the training speech.
You can't use the training speech if you're trying to hide it right. So the
initial point is the acceptance. And there are different roads, I mean, there
could be acceptance as "I stutter so what?" "I don't want to change, I don't want to
do anything about it. That's normal that's fine, that's okay." And yes it's
okay but there is another way which I'm preaching about is that "I stutter, it's
okay but I'm trying to improve, I'm trying to change my speaking pattern and
how I feel about my speaking." So acceptance in terms of like total
acceptance and acceptance in terms of what I'm trying to say they're
starting, stemming from the same root. They go different ways but the
initial idea is pretty much the same. And it comes to your
self-esteem - how do you feel about yourself? Using your training speech you
start to build your self-esteem because you're saying it on your terms the way
you really feel, you really mean. So you can think about real
expression, real connection with the person giving yourself time to really
ask it the way you want. "Where do you live mr. Dawson?" "Where do
you live mr. Dawson?" or "Where do you live mr. Dawson?" So there are hundreds of ways how
to say but the one thing we want to feel is the confidence you're in control.
Once you have that confidence you can be really present and you can really mean
something, you can really connect on a different level. You're not chasing
fluency in this case. Because right now what we have is desire to go through it
fluently "where do you live mr. Dawson?" We want to get through it somehow,
we don't think much about how we really want to say it. What is the feeling, what
is the true meaning that we want to put there, what's the intonation, what's the
emotion that want to put there. So once we go with the training speech we have
that ability to put substance in our speaking. So instead of trying to be
normal - that's my big suggestion - you try to be you, you try to be yourself, you
try to really be present the way you are. And that's what you can do when you have
a certain room that we create with our training speech. Without that room the
only goal that we're having is to get through fluently, normally, somehow. So I'm
preaching about two goals one is your self-esteem and acceptance. Acceptance
that it's fine that I stutter, it's fine that I'm trying
to improve my speech. It's fine that I'm being just me here try to feel, trying to
connect, trying to be present rather than trying to speak fluently, to get through it.
Rather than trying to satisfy somebody's expectations about me, trying to satisfy
my fear because most expectations they're coming from here not from other
people. So the first goal is acceptance and self-esteem, building your
self-esteem. And the second goal is building the
confidence with your training speech restoring the inner structure of your
speaking injecting relaxation, power, expression and overall confidence that I
am in control of my speaking. Launching the speaking piece and going with that
confidence through the speaking piece you're saying. Launching the next one and
the next one feeling that your speaking is not a chaos consisting of hard words
and sounds and you like, you know, you are trying to escape those. It's a
structured way of saying what you feel and what you think. And if you don't have
something to say you're just think, you just take your time. And it's just a way
to connect with the other person. Once we have that room, once we stop worrying and
fearing and trying to get that fluency, once we stop worrying about that,
once we have that room of confidence, once we have that box where we can feel
that confidence then we can really connect with the other person then we
can really feel something, then we can really mean and think much more freely
and actually improve the communication because our ability to receive the
information, to receive other people's feelings and thoughts is reduced by our
worrying and constant thinking about that fluency stuff - how will I get through it,
how will I say it. So it really doesn't let us be present and truly receive and
understand what the other person means. And of course and does it doesn't let us
connect to give feedback in the way that we do want to do.
So, chasing fluency, trying to get through you're speaking fluently with your
current speaking pattern, trying to implement some tricks and techniques to
your current speaking pattern I believe all that is the wrong goal.
It reinforces your belief that there is nothing you can do with your stuttering.
What we want to focus on is building a new speaking pattern, the real inside of
your speaking. Not the shade of your speaking. It will come, it will be there
but first we need to think about the inner structure - what our speaking really
consists of. And in that training speech we want to feel the confidence through
injecting relaxation, injecting power, expression to our speaking launching the
phrase and feeling how we go with the phrase in a confident way. And you
can't you can't even approach the training speech without first accepting
that's you stutter and that's okay. And that's you have the right, you have the
ability to improve, to change your speaking pattern and that's okay too.
Once we try to hide it, once we try to be normal, once we try
to be like that guy we shift instantly in a moment to our current speaking pattern
which is stuttering speaking pattern. Don't try to be fluent, don't try to be normal.
Try to be you.
Thank you so much for watching.
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How To Be Successful at Career Seminars & Job Fair 4 Tips You Need To Know - Duration: 7:31.
Hello and welcome to this episode of "Carmen's Coaching Corner".
My name is Carmen Payne and I am the owner and creator of SOAR!
Transformational Life Coaching and today's video I'm actually filming it
from my car because I just have some information and coaching that I want to
share with you right this minute. I've just attended a career, a career event
where a bunch of companies get together and they're telling everybody what
positions they have available in their company
and participants to attend that career fair obviously job seekers looking for
employment, and they need to be prepared for on-the-spot interviewing, and the
reason I went is because what you may not know about my coaching is part of
the coaching that I focus on is interview and career coaching. So I love
to get people ready for interviews. I like to give them the skills and
the confidence to show up and really shine during an interviewing process. So
the reason I was there today was really to understand what it's like to be a
participant at these career seminars and actually give on-the-spot coaching to any
body who approached me. They didn't know they were going to get it, but that's
basically how it turned out. So here are a couple of things that I I experienced
today when I was coaching people. So one thing I overheard somebody else saying
which i think is excellent excellent advice was to leave your hand free for
hand shaking because every every booth that you go to, you're gonna want the
first thing they're gonna want to do is shake your hand. Right?
Besides know your name, and and what you do. The other coaching that I gave today
on the spot was around one gentleman was there looking for work he'd decided to
leave his current, his previous employer because he didn't like all the changes
that were happening and he just didn't like where the company was going
ethically and and I said to him, "okay so tell me more about that" and as he was
speaking I could really see his body language, there was a lot of negativity
coming through in his body language. Now you may not know this so if you've left
a job under a cloud of negativity either of your own decision because you just
didn't ethically where the company was going
or the changes that were happening, you really need to just make sure that
doesn't show up in your body language when you're being interviewed because it
does come through whether you realize it or not. Either you do a eye roll, or your body
posture changes, or you just feel kind of uncomfortable talking about it, so the
the coaching that gave to him on the spot was I said "watch your
body language and when they asked you why did you leave your current, your
previous position just be future focus just say I left it because I was looking
for future opportunities that are out there and I decided that where I was,
where I was just didn't have those opportunities for me so I'm looking to
looking for future opportunities that really fit my needs and where I want to
go with my career. Don't focus on all because I didn't like
what they were doing at that company. I didn't like the changes that they were
implementing it just didn't sit with me, and my values, and my ethics don't go
down that path. Stick with the future focus of where you
want to be, right." So just and and really watch your body
language, stay upbeat, stay upright, put a smile on your face and just stick to the facts.
Right? Remove any negative emotion in that potential response when they ask
you that question. The other piece of coaching that I gave today was you know
I asked people, "what was the most, what question do they struggle with the most
when they are when they're in an interview ." And one of them was around
their strengths, and weaknesses, so when your being asked the question
"okay tell me about your weaknesses" in your mind reframe that to areas of
growth right. Potential areas of growth or development areas so when you're
answering the question make sure they're not weaknesses, or areas of growth that
are key strengths that they're looking for in that job. May sound obvious but
don't get tripped up on that right. So and when you're answering the question
also focus on what you're doing to actually improve those areas right. So if
you have a weakness that you're impatient, or you beat yourself up, or
something like that then focus on okay you know when I when I'm not able to fix
a problem I tend to really beat myself up about it
don't answer it like that. Answer it in the way that, let me just think ,you
know "one of my areas that I'm improving upon is beating myself up less when
there's a problem that I am faced with that I don't have an immediate answer to
and this is what I'm doing to actually work on that." So make sure that you've
you end the answer with what are you doing to improve on your areas of
development on areas that are weak for you. And if there are if you go into
these career fairs and there are there is nobody around that you're thinking I
want to work for, or the positions they have just really are resonating with me
one of one of the coaching I gave today to a gentleman there was just go
practice. Right? Even if the position isn't something that you're looking for.
take that time to practice your interviewing skills. Right? So go up to
the booths, find out what the positions are about, practice your interviewing
techniques, and that way you you don't feel like you've wasted your time being at
a career event that doesn't have any positions that you're really looking for,
and you'll be surprised how much practice that will give you. Right? How
you show up, watch your body posture, make sure you've got a smile on your
face, make sure you're presentable, just use that as an opportunity for practice.
Now if you are interested in those positions and have in your head that
this is a two-way conversation, that this is a game that you're playing so that
you reduce your nerves when you're showing up especially if their positions
that you're really really interested in seeking out and being and being employed
for. So in your head just have a positive attitude about this is a game, I'm
playing, I'm going to see how much fun I'm going to have here today. It's a
two-way conversation, you're assessing them as much as they're assessing you. So
just have fun with it and that really helps to reduce your nerves.
I really hope that you found these tips useful and they can be transferred to
any kind of interviewing situation, face to face, over the phone, and things like
that, but again you know I really hope you find these these tips useful for you
and if there is any other coaching that you would like me to do these videos on
please send them in. What, you know, what areas of would you like to be coached
around if you had the opportunity. Let me let me know, and maybe I'll do a video
around that. So as always in love and light to your transformation and growth
Carmen. To get started please call, or email me, or schedule an appointment on
my website
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[L'analisi] Euro e migranti, il cappio intorno al collo dell'Italia. Ecco perché il vertice Ue puòco - Duration: 11:01.Per l'Italia, il vertice europeo che si apre oggi a Bruxelles, è ad alto rischio. Improbabile che, nei due giorni di discussione, si arrivi a conclusioni definitive
Ma anche solo l'impostazione dei problemi secondo direttrici sgradite potrebbe poi costringere l'Italia, nei prossimi mesi, ad una dura battaglia in salita
E' un esito – questo sì – probabile: l'imperativo politico dei due giorni di summit è, infatti, come è stato detto, "salviamo la Merkel" (dalla sua opposizione interna) e i 27 leader che le saranno seduti accanto non vorranno, alla fine, tirarsi indietro
Anche se questo significasse "affondiamo l'Italia". Fra Berlino e Roma c'è infatti, in questo frangente, un viluppo inestricabile
I temi chiave del summit sono immigrazione e riforma dell'euro. Sono i temi su cui, oggi, l'Italia è più esposta
E sono, contemporaneamente, quelli su cui la Merkel gioca il suo futuro. Il problema è che la Merkel vince se l'Italia perde
E viceversa. La rissa generale sull'immigrazione Il presidente del Consiglio italiano si presenta a Bruxelles con una proposta forte e coraggiosa, che (finalmente) ribalterebbe l'impostazione della politica europea sui rifugiati
Tre i punti chiave. 1) Basta co n il trattato di Dublino che assegna gli immigrati al primo paese in cui sbarcano
Il mare di fronte alla Libia è un confine europeo. 2) Quindi gli immigrati vanno ripartiti fra i diversi paesi europei, secondo quote prefissate 3) Fine della distinzione fra chi chiede asilo e chi solo di immigrare, che allunga all'infinito i tempi burocratici e le cadenze dell'accoglienza
Varate queste modifiche, il problema degli immigrati secondari, che incendia il dibattito tedesco, dove la destra vorrebbe respingerli ai paesi di primo sbarco, perderebbe rilevanza: gli immigrati secondari – cioè quelli che con la domanda di asilo ancora pendente o respinta – diventerebbero, nel momento in cui ci fosse una redistribuzione degli arrivi fra i diversi paesi, numericamente molti di meno
Roma arriva, con questa proposta ambiziosa, nelle condizioni peggiori. Ha cercato l'appoggio di chi - come austriaci e ungheresi – non ha nessuna intenzione di accettare quote di immigrati
E ha ferocemente litigato con chi, come Francia e Germania, quasi certamente, la pensa allo stesso modo, ma si vergogna a dirlo e potrebbe fare qualche concessione
Giuseppe Conte potrà dire di non aver fatto un buco nell'acqua, se otterrà che la proposta italiana venga messa agli atti, in attesa di futura discussione
I rischi, però, sono nelle decisioni che verranno prese nel frattempo. Perché c'è un progetto alternativo che farebbe assai comodo alla Merkel e non solo e che, per l'Italia, è una trappola
I rischi per l'Italia Sono soprattutto quattro. Rischio numero uno: tutti sono d'accordo nel creare centri in cui le domande di asilo vengano processate, prima che gli immigrati si mettano in viaggio verso l'Europa
Ma gli sbarchi ci saranno comunque. Dove processare le domande di chi, comunque, è sbarcato in Europa? Il posto più comodo, per gli altri paesi europei, è l'Italia
Se il progetto alternativo passasse, Roma si troverebbe a gestire, anche nell'ipotesi di un calo degli sbarchi, decine di migliaia di immigrati irregolari
Rischio numero due: parte degli immigrati verrebbe redistribuita in altri paesi, ma solo su base volontaria, secondo convenienze e logiche politiche estranee alla gravità o meno del fenomeno e alle difficoltà italiane
Rischio numero tre: il 93 per cento degli immigrati non ha diritto all'asilo, pur avendolo chiesto
Questo vuol dire che, se escono dall'Italia e provano ad entrare in Germania, diventerebbero quegli immigrati irregolari che i tedeschi, infatti, vorrebbero rimandare nel paese di primo sbarco, ovvero l'Italia
In altre parole, l'Italia finirebbe per dover tenere dentro i suoi confini, comunque, il 93 per cento di chi sbarca e, soprattutto, di chi è già sbarcato ed è in attesa di veder processata la sua richiesta di asilo
Stiamo parlando, come minimo, di decine di migliaia di persone e di famiglie. Rischio numero quattro: quel 93 per cento di immigrati irregolari, alla fine, dovrebbe essere rispedito in Africa
Come? E chi lo fa? Il cappio di Meseberg Le linee di questa revisione furbesca della politica europea sull'immigrazione erano già visibili nella Dichiarazione di Meseberg che, nelle scorse settimane, ha rilanciato la cooperazione franco-tedesca
Ma quel documento firmato da Merkel e Macron contiene altre insidie che verranno allo scoperto domani a Bruxelles
Per quanto vaghe, le indicazioni sulla riforma dell'eurozona aprono scenari non rassicuranti per un'Italia con i conti in rosso
Come spesso accade in materia di riforma dell'euro, le motivazioni sono condivisibili, le indicazioni utili, ma il loro mix e il momento in cui cadono si traducono in un fucile puntato sull'Italia
E', infatti, importante che l'eurozona si doti di un bilancio comune e di strumenti di intervento in caso di crisi di singoli paesi
Ed è inevitabile che questi interventi siano "condizionali", cioè subordinati all'accettazione, da parte del governo che chiede aiuto, di interventi concordati con l'Europa
E' una questione di misura e di buon senso ed è qui che nascono i dubbi. A gestire gli interventi e a disegnare le condizioni non sarebbe la Commissione, ma i governi e l'esperienza greca ha già dimostrato che "governi", in questi casi, vuol dire soprattutto Berlino
Del resto, la Merkel non riuscirebbe in altro modo a far accettare in patria questo aumentato impegno europeo
Ma sappiamo già come ragionano, in questi casi, a Berlino e la conferma viene dal fatto che l'unico riferimento concreto, nella Dichiarazione di Meseberg, alle "condizioni" è la "sostenibilità del debito": un parametro su cui l'Italia è, già in partenza, comunque in difetto
Cosa può succedere Questo meccanismo può trasformarsi in una spirale pericolosa. Un'Italia in difficoltà, infatti, potrebbe vedersi imporre, in nome della "sostenibilità del debito" una ricetta di austerità feroce come quella che ha messo in ginocchio la società greca
Il problema è che, in base all'infernale meccanismo delle conseguenze non volute, la crisi può essere scatenata dalla stessa riforma dell'eurozona
Uno dei punti toccati a Meseberg, infatti, riguarda la possibilità di meccanismi di ristrutturazione del debito dei singoli paesi: in altre parole, di accordi con i creditori per tagliare l'entità o allungare le scadenze del debito pubblico
Anche questa è, in astratto, una innovazione utile per il futuro dell'eurozona. Ma delicatissima per l'Italia
Di fronte ad una potenziale taglio d'autorità del debito italiano, gli investitori potrebbero chiedere tassi più alti, mettendo in affanno il Tesoro
Se, contemporaneamente, si manifestassero altri motivi di diffidenza dei mercati (come nelle scorse settimane, al momento della formazione del governo) verso i titoli italiani, la possibilità, sia pure nel futuro, di una ristrutturazione del debito farebbe da moltiplicatore della diffidenza, portando alle stelle i tassi sui titoli e determinando una crisi, che fa intervenire l'Europa e imporre l'austerità
La tentazione di Conte Questo scenario semicatastrofico è puramente ipotetico ma dà l'idea dello stretto crinale su cui cammina il governo Conte e, con lui, il programma di governo di Lega e 5stelle
Ecco perché c'è chi non esclude che, in questi due giorni, a Bruxelles, il presidente del Consiglio sia tentato dall'idea di vendere la casa per un piatto di lenticchie
Ovvero, di cedere sull'immigrazione e sui colpi di coda futuri della riforma dell'euro, in cambio di una flessibilità immediata sui conti pubblici di quest'anno e dell'anno prossimo, che consenta di realizzare le promesse elettorali su cui il governo gialloverde fa riposare il suo futuro
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