It's Avelina De Moray here &
welcome back to my channel today is a
exciting video because we will be
starting the Goth Mum
TAG, now this kind of was conceptualized
by ReeRee Phillips And I, so you will see
me (and shortly on her channel) ReeRee
doing this video , and we're hoping to
kind of spread it out to the Goth
subculture and allow all mothers to do it
and we're very curious for everyone jump
aboard and see what their views are on
being a mom in this gothic subculture as
well so let's get right into it the
first question we've written us
handwritten questions here by what if do
we force our kids to wear black either
and I think my kids are a little bit too
young I could steal who is two and a
half and London is 10 months old so no I
don't force them to wear black they they
are very colorful at the moment with
what they wear and black is hard to find
and occasionally when I go into a store
and I see some like kind of Halloween
baby like romper sort of they call
onesies I kind of go nuts and fire them
up sorry I see like a black guy Tamayo
puts it because I think it's cute their
entire water is not black contrary to
popular belief question number two is do
we force our children to listen to metal
or rock and rollers you kids are calling
it the you see I won't use the word
force that's a little a little harsh but
obviously they're going to be influenced
by what they hear around the house apart
from Type O Negative which is the only
thing that we allow in our jukebox
we like to listen to a lot of different
types of music so to answer the question
again I'm going to say no I don't but
yeah they hear a lot of cool music
because we're obviously into metal and
rock and roll but it's not force hey
I've seen Wiggles
you know that shit's contagious I get in
a big black car that's not black is it
if I wrote it it would be to Jennifer
Joseph secret when we put our son to
sleep we Johnny on life at the Acropolis
in Greece that is phenomenal he loves
that me Falls to sleep really well it's
got a lot of interesting instruments a
lot of weird time signatures so I like
to think that we're broadening his
thousands and musical tastes too not
only to speak metal and recommend
question number three is what is my
favorite alternative clothing brand for
my children um I can't really like I can
name a few but I've only bought like one
item from them and that would be from
spiral direct I think they are somewhere
in Europe possibly Germany but I bought
a little black onesie that had a baby
fat on earth drinking a little a little
bottle filled with blood and it looks
like wrong and as soon as I found out I
was pregnant I coaches out into school
oh sorry you didn't work to my inner
Scott but yes usually that's the only
thing I bought I just like to dress my
kids cool you know I buy a little
leather jackets and stuff like that yes
but it's black that's the one black item
I have but the specific alternative
clothing brands for children are very
very few we're talking four five six
times the price of things that you can
buy your local western US or whatever
your supermarket is in your country so
yeah I just prefer to survive and all
things that are available at
supermarkets okay the next question is
do we want to have any more baby backs
in our family
and I feel like we're not done so I
guess the answer is yes although I'll be
completely honest and that I did not
enjoy being pregnant at all
I think it's glamorized by a Hollywood
and there's a lot of things that I don't
enjoy about it so give me wrong I love
being the baby kick inside and
everything but there's a lot of elements
that I would just like to fast forward
to see I don't think we've done well I
think we might preserve licensing
schools but right now I am enjoying not
being pregnant
question number five is have you or have
your children at our experience
negativities due to the way that I dress
I can't say that I have people in the
new town that I'm in a very friendly
they will start up a conversation with
pretty much like a poll I haven't come
across anything like that in my new son
in my old town um I did get a few
comments so that was pretty like having
babies so it was more that the way that
I dressed
I forgot in general
not really relating at all to seeing a
mother or having children I can't say
I've ever been out with the kids and had
any negative experience I know when I
was facing two very Philip she said
there has been a career situations that
I've really bugged her and I'm sure
she'll speak about when she does her
video but so far I haven't had any next
question do you hope that your kids will
follow in your stylistic footsteps when
they come of age oh yeah I mean raka
Ralph's cool right I kind of like fusing
gothic with rock'n'roll it's like my
favorite movie Queen of the Damned is
the perfect vision of vampires and rock
and roll and that's kind of the
aesthetic that I like you know like new
gothic welcome holders a jacket set yes
I definitely heard that that is
something that they're in third but
again I weren't pushed upon them and how
I found it was very natural and organic
I would prevail it would be the same for
them as well again it's on quite a lot
I'm going to have to read it without the
paper here Sequoyah eric draven from the
crow if you haven't watched that movie
watch it immediately immediately mother
is the name of God on the lips and
hearts of all children do you think it's
important to be a positive strong role
model for your children we kind of
weren't sure we should include this
question because it's like of course the
answer is yes and that's for all mothers
not just like classic ones I think we
included it because they might be able
to speak about about that the steamer of
depression and drug use and alcoholism
being attached to this look apparently
which isn't the case so I'd like to
break those molds those pigments right
away by saying I do not I hardly drink I
don't like the taste of alcohol I will
occasionally have some absence so what I
when I do what I go hard or go home
I can't drink bourbon I just supplies
the smell of the air I didn't drink
coffee I've seriously never tried any
hardcore drugs I've never even tried
weed I tried smoking when I was 14 and
completely hated it I've had it for a
week so to try to fit in with these
girls of school but
so I'm about as left the field of that
stereotype as you can get maybe that's
why my complexion is so nice because I
am a drug-free alcohol-free individual
but yeah it's incredibly important to be
a strong female role model for kids
especially with the technology era that
we're in right now is like texting and
like texting from my childhood it's
sexting that is something that worries
me when my kids again come of age and
how do we control that and when is it
the right time for them to get mobile
devices there's a lot of things that
worry me but I think just trying to have
a close relationship with your child and
showing them love and affection daily
and telling them that they have strong
independent creative creatures is a step
in the right direction and just be
involved in their life you know never
ever make them feel like what you're
doing is more important than what they
need you know if they come up to your
mother no mind me I always drop what I'm
doing and I turn my attention to steal
for London they're everything again next
question is what do children think is
that the way that you dress well I can't
really say for London because there's
any ten months old and I think he's a
little bit too young to afford some
opinions I'm not just yet but still I
guess at the same time it's kind of hard
to know what he thinks because like this
is normal this is how mommy looks but it
is really cute when I get all done up so
when I'm like barefaced putting my
makeup on he's just suddenly taking an
interest to make up a sick you and
you're going right in like then you come
up and like try to take my matte
lipstick off and like put his fingers on
my lips and I try to put it on his lips
and and just yesterday while really was
here he went over to my makeup covered
which he called the laundry my makeup
says and opens the sock drawer started
to get out the lipsticks and this is
embarrassing for his 26 but he put some
red lipstick I just thought that was
adorable and he wanted black eyes like
mommy so again to them it's normal but
like
I've seen some people were really
inappropriate clothing where the grooves
and butts are hanging out and you know a
little bit of black has never killed
anyone right okay the next question is
have your children ever felt well do you
ever feel like you embarrass your kids
again mine might be a little too young
to kind of answer this so this would be
more appropriate if you have older
children so this would be fun for weary
because I know Misha is six years old
and is communicating better and things
like that but still love this I love him
so much so I think he knows that like
mummy and daddy drill a little
differences some other mummy and daddys
but he doesn't think it's a weird and
like even that's true he sees through
that you know it's about how we interact
with each other it's not about what's on
the outside and I already think that
two-year-olds so the very nice
personality traits I have to see what's
inside and the last question number ten
is as a cough mother in the subculture
community can you offer any advice to
other mothers out there that's true to
one I could kind of go in a bit of a
rant that I don't want to just love your
kids be yourself
let them know that it is okay to be
yourself and that everyone needs to find
their own path in life you know if
that's applying a little bit more black
makeup then than other people and if
it's listening to Marilyn Manson that's
fine just love your children teach them
that it's okay to be independent to
teach them that it's okay to be
themselves and really support their
creativity see if they show a flair for
years ago whatever the interest I'll
just take an interest in their interest
and support them and I think you'll
never tell your child that you love them
enough to tell them everything yes it is
more it will in their 30 I'm never doing
at the scale I'm go to be like a big man
let me hug you okay so this is so much
fun it's really quite strange to think
that RiRi and I are starting a tag video
from scratch so I know that to start is
we need to tag three people I didn't do
my homework because I can't come up with
three other women that I'm or have
children
friends with our in the golf subculture
that's terrible I need to make your
friend so obviously number one that a
tag is RiRi Phillips you'll see this
figure on her channel very soon
the second one I would like to tag is a
very interesting character absorb that
breath I love you girl and I hope you
either see my video or various video and
that you do this tag we will put the
questions below I seriously cannot think
of a player so please comment below if
you know some of the girls ones that you
think might be interested in doing this
video if you are one yourself if you're
going to start up a YouTube channel or
you have a channel please do it please
tag us in it or send it to us I'm RiRi
and I would love to watch it we'll post
the questions below so you can easily
start the tag video yourself I think
it'll make a very cool tag video would
be lots of fun if it went viral so yeah
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