Okay, hey everybody!
Uh, today, I'm here with Alayna Fondleher, is that -- ?
Alayna: Fondlehim.
Riley: Fondlehim.
Alayna: Fender, Fender!
Are you sure?
I'm sure.
Okay, I had some questions, because this person, I believe the word is cisgender?
You are cisgender?
Female.
Simply female.
But you were assigned female at birth --
-- I was born female.
-- still female?
Obviously.
Oh, okay.
When did you find out you were female?
I don't understand the question.
Like when did you have the realization?
You know?
That moment, where you just know?
I've just always been female.
I don't understand, how have you always been female?
Like there was never a moment where you were like, "Maybe there's some male in there."
Not like, post, but like male the sex.
*Laughter* I'm female!
I wore dresses as a little girl.
Do all females wear dresses?
Is that like only a female thing?
You know -- I feel -- I'm not quite sure where you're going with this, Riley.
I'm just asking the questions!
I'm just trying to get to the bottom of it.
Or the top.
You're just really interested in me and my story.
Yeah, I think it's fascinating.
I've like never met one of you in real life.
A woman?
A 10?
No, like a cisgender woman.
Like, it's like an internet thing, you know.
It's like tumblr made it up.
It's not like a real thing.
If I'm honest, I've never heard of this cisgender business you keep referring to.
Do you know what transgender is?
Transgender is like when you're a person and you take the bus, or the subway, and you are
a gender on those things.
Transgender.
Have you ever taken public transportation? In your life?
Yes, yes.
And, you have a gender --
-- I mean, not since I got famous.
No?
But you have a gender.
You're a woman, you're a girl.
Correct.
So would you say that you're transgender?
Not anymore, I'm famous.
So only poor people are transgender?
I mean, that follows the logic, yes.
Okay so, transgender is when someone feels different than the gender they were assigned at birth.
So someone like says you're male at birth, and then you feel like a woman.
So they just -- they saw your genitals and just got it wrong.
They just made some assumptions, they weren't right, and you realized it later.
So kind of like being gay.
Yeah, but gay is like a sexual orientation.
Whereas transgender is like a gender.
So gay, straight, that's like who you're attracted to.
Gender -- transgender, cisgender -- it's like how you feel --
-- who you're attracted to.
So my gender is female, and my sexual orientation is female.
I believe you've called yourself straight before.
Are you straight?
I am straight.
Right, so that's your sexual orientation.
Then your gender is cisgender.
Cause you were assigned female at birth and now you feel female.
So we've established like the basics of like what you are.
But now I'm curious, like --
-- which is famous.
As a famous Cisgender, um, have you had any like genital surgeries?
That's kind of a rude thing to ask someone on an interview and stuff --
-- I mean it's like, it's just, like, how am I supposed to know?
Like, I can't just look at you and --
-- I just told you!
I just told you!
Yeah, but what does that say about your genitals?
Like, I need the specifics of it.
Okay, alright, we can't talk about genital surgery, but what about like medication, like hormones.
Like are you taking anything -- ?
-- What kind of interview is this?
I'm just curious!
I'm just trying to learn about you, the wild Cisgender.
Look a duck! Can you see the duck?
Aw, duckie!
Aw, look at the duck!
Riley: Wanna come over here? Alayna: Wanna come over here?
Riley: Omg he's gonna eat us.
Alayna: What? What do you want? You think I have food? We don't have any food for you.
You have a boyfriend, yes?
Yes.
Yeah?
Yeah.
Is he okay with it?
Like is that a thing that he's comfortable with?
Is he ever embarrassed about it at all?
No, he's attracted to women.
Like, even cis women? Are you sure?
I mean, I think so.
We've been together for years.
Yeah? And he like knew the whole time?
I think we just met and he found me attractive and I found him attractive.
That's so cute, I just -- I love when people like that are able to come together and find
someone, for them.
I'm happy for you.
You do YouTube things, right?
Yup, yes, I do.
What's your YouTube name?
MissFenderr.
Did you choose that because it rhymes with cisgender?
I wanna get back to the boyfriend cause this really interests me.
How do you guys have sex?
Why are you acting so, like, shocked?
Like, that's just -- I'm just curious how, like, the genitals --
-- I just wonder like what kind of interview this is.
I thought this was just gonna be like an interview about me and my life, and like me --
Yeah, your life.
Your life is, like, sex with your boyfriend.
That's like, it's a part that happens and like I don't know how it happens, and I'm
just genuinely curious.
I just don't think that's any of your business -- why does that matter?
How do you and your partner have sex?
I just feel like it's your job to educate me.
Like, everyone knows how I have sex, like I'm trans, like that's normal.
But like nobody knows how you -- like it's a huge mystery.
Like nobody has access to Google in 2017.
Which bathroom do you use?
Like, there's the men's and the women's, like --
-- well, I use the women's.
You don't get, like, weird looks or anything?
I just, I feel like you're probably more of a man, and you just, you think you're still
a woman, but like you're probably not.
Like you're probably just doing it for fun, for like the attention and stuff, so like
you could just use the guy's bathroom, like it's fine.
I mean, I use the men's bathroom if the women's bathroom line-up is too long.
Oh, so do you use the men's bathroom sometimes?
If there's like a single stall and there's no one else in there and there's a line-up
for the women's one, like why not just use the men's?
It does kinda sound like you're faking the whole cis thing then, if like you would use
the men's bathroom.
Like, maybe you are trans.
What do bathrooms have anything to do with it?
Cause, like women use the women's bathroom and men use the men's bathroom.
So if you've ever used the men's bathroom, like, you're probably trans -- probably a
trans man.
Have you been to a therapist about your gender?
No!
Nooo!
Well then how do you really know?
I just do.
I just know.
You can't just diagnose yourself with cisgenderism.
This has been great.
What've we learned today?
Um, I've learned that there's a lot more to being female than I thought there was.
Thank you so much for joining me.
I feel like we learned a lot.
I got a lot of good information out of you -- even though you wouldn't answer some of
my questions.
But it's fine, it's fine.
It was good.
Thank you for being here.
Thank you.
You're welcome, I guess.
I have a lot to think about.
Apparently I have a therapist to see.
But yeah, so anyways, guys, this is Alayna --
-- Oh yeah, hi! --
-- she's actually not a terrible person.
No, and not famous either.
And I do use public transit all the time!
Omg!
Caught!
Fake!
Exposed!
Thank you so much for being on my channel and going through this whole ridiculous kind
of back and forth.
No problem!
If you're watching this and you made it through the whole thing and you were pissed at one
of us, I promise that was all fake sarcastic stuff --
-- at one of us!
You know, somebody, in particular.
Yup.
But yeah, it was all fake sarcastic stuff --
-- all fun and games --
-- I just wanna make that clear, completely.
And yeah, head over to Alayna's channel, she's wonderful.
Aw thank you!
We're in Palm Springs right now at a little conference thing, and it's been super fun!
Yeah!
Weeooo!
Yeah, thank you guys so much for watching!
I love you all!
And I'll see you next time!
Byeee!
I mean, there's been some mail in there if you know what I mean.
Where have you put mail?
In my female vagina.
You need a first time for everything.
That's a horrible thing to say.
Yeah!
I thought we were friends.
You take public transit!
Ah, you got me there.
Cisgenderness, I don't know what's the appropriate term you people like now.
I like felt mean saying it --
-- no no, that's -- I Don't Bi It is like yeah.
Can we look at your genitals to know what gender you are?
*Laughter* Another wild cisgender passing through!
My channel's just about like me and my life --
-- Your cis life.
Like all your cissing around.
There's so much of the representation everywhere.
They did that one show.
Cisparent.
Like, what?
I don't even know what to -- I'm really getting a taste of my own medicine here.
I'm like okay, I can see.
Riley: Whoa.
Alayna: Whoa.
Riley: No.
Alayna: Whoa.
Both: Whoa.
This is awful.
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