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with me because I have a fantastic guest with me today her name is Cindy Jake
adduct she is a mom she's awesome she's a coach she's a mommy-and-me mentor she
is the creator of doll girl Academy her mission in life is to help the daughters
and the moms have a better relationship she believes that content on daughter's
make powerful women she's not - brand-new app which is called doll girl
and it's all focused towards how moms and daughters can have a better more
blissful and reaching relationship and her strong belief is that success starts
with healthy relationships I believe the same and this includes obviously your
health your your relationships with other people and your relationship with
money so with that I'll be welcome our guest today Cindy Jacob thanks for being
there Cindy Anthony very excited to have you on Cindy this is a it's pretty
incredible you have achieved a law and you're really focusing on the daughters
and the moms because I know there are lots of children's coaches out there but
I have not met anybody who's specifically concentrating on the
relationship with moms and daughters so can you take us back in time tell us a
little bit about how you got started on this journey because I know your mom
and why did you specifically decide to focus on the relationship between the
mom and the daughters okay for sure so I have actually been working with students
since 2005 and I know when I was growing up I actually had a difficult
relationship with my own mother the only things that I wouldn't tell her
and I think that actually is still continuing with the children and the
students that I work with they tell me a lot of different information and I often
wonder are they telling their moms and sometimes I even ask them you know
having told their mom whether your mom think and usually they're like oh my mom
to understand me and it's very heartbreaking because as I do have a
daughter myself she's seven years old and as I said I had some relationship my
mom so I'm trying to not continue that family pattern on so I try to give my
daughter the space to be open and honest and to let her understand that her
feelings do matter to me so I thought maybe I should talk other moms
understand that their daughters are essentially suffering in silence
cuz there's some things I think you want to tell their moms but they don't feel
comfortable or they feel that they'll judge or that their moms are just not
paying attention so I decided that I wanted others to help bridge that gap
awesome and this is really interesting because a lot of the guests are pretty
much I think every single guest I've had on they always talk about the fact that
they're the particular area or field or domain that they're currently working in
stemmed from the fact that they were trying to solve some sort of problem in
their own life they were trying to relieve some sort of pain that they were
experiencing and by going through that journey they then discovered some way or
some some system some medium through which they experienced relief from that
pain and as a result they then decided to help others because they thought hey
I want anybody else to suffer because
guess what this work for me surely I can help others how you know with their pay
so it seems to be the fact that there's a pattern with with all the people who
are actually trying to help others so that's fantastic
yeah yeah sure so Cindy tell me tell us a little bit about your your background
I know you've you're an author so you've written some books and then you decided
to create this amazing app which helps facilitate the the conversation between
the mothers and the daughters it helps to bridge that relationship so tell us a
little bit about how this all work yes for sure so my daughter when I was
pregnant with my daughter I was having trouble finding children's books that
she would be able to relate to that we're having children of color having
fun so initially I decided that I was going to create one book in her first
birthday as memory where to keep so I started off with one book series is
called the brownie kids series initially it was called brown girl series because
I have one main character her name is Zola and she appears in ultimate books
so the first one was a family vacation book showing the family of color going
on vacation doing different things and then the second book was daughter day
because a lot of the men in my community to get a bad rap so I wanted to show
children that you know there are dance that they look like their dads that are
out there doing different things with their children so I was a bad daughter
day at the zoo and then while I was promoting my first two books I had a lot
of parents ask me what am I gonna do for the boys so I decided to create a
friendship that included two two boy characters and I actually included my
daughter and as one of the characters as well she actually was like a co-creator
on that book because she was able to tell me what she wanted to look like how
she and some of the things that she wanted to wear and some of that activity
she wanted to do so that was a really great bonding process for her and I to
like come together and that I do plan to add more to the
series right now there's three books and I have to add it means like four or five
more books and during my journey with working with younger children that's
where the book series came in and then I started to transition and work with the
older children and as I worked with the older children as I was saying before
they opened up to me and they tell me different things and look like the kids
are suffering in signings even with the stuff that we hear on the news where
people are unfortunately taking their lives or they're just so isolated and I
wanted to be a constant voice a constant point of support so they can share their
voices and be able to talk freely and openly about how they're feeling so
there's different features on my app the down grow up where we're checking in and
today like being aware of how you're feeling and how you can take control of
that feeling and not like that you overcome you or take over your day
that's firm and there's also some activities that you can do with like
moms and daughters can be together I mean there are also activities that moms
I mean that dads and daughters because there are some daughters on my app who
either or not with their mom or there's some unfortunate circumstance so there
are activities our parent bonding activities with their children so they
can feel open enough to have those conversations with their parents and for
their parents to understand where they're coming from and how they are
feeling and just to build a stronger connection between parent and child
awesome so this is really interesting to me because I I you know I I'm a parent I
I have two young kids and I have a girl and she's she's she's I absolutely love
her and when she was actually born I was I was absolutely mortified but I was
like how am I gonna be a dad to a girl I have
Oh clue right okay I'm lost and I honestly thought that I don't know you
know people in the audience you know if they're any dad's watching this you know
can you relate you know how hard you feel when your daughter was born I mean
you know it doesn't matter boy or girl you always you know have the certain
level of anxiety just because you want to do a good job at this thing which is
like a big thing but definitely with girls I was like well you know I'm a
dude like you know be the boy yeah yeah you know we talk about cars you talk
about sports would be good for like the garlic what do you do like how how does
it work so I'm curious to know Cindy how does the relationship between a mother
and a daughter is different to the relationship that is there between the
father and the daughter well there's definitely a difference because like you
said you did because you've been like you've you've been through that stage
where you were a girl turning into a teenager turning into the woman there
are things that are very similar and that you're able to talk to your
daughter about fathers on the other hand I mean they were children and they
turned into teenage boys versus teenage girls so it's a unique perspective that
each parent does have with the child but at the end of the day the connection is
very strong for both the mom and the dad and it's very important for them on
internet to get to know their child and give their child that space that they
need to grow and just be able to talk about how they can yell and help them to
be human beings that can understand their feelings because we have a lot of
people who grow up they may grow up as adults but they have a lot of buried
feelings inside and sometimes they might lash it out or make negative decisions
so with my programs I'm able to help the students open up a little bit more and
not bury those feelings and take control of those feelings and not let the
feelings take control of them awesome and you know what I have to say like you
know now my daughter she's she's three now um I
like she's everything to me now but when she was born I was mortified
people are like if I had a son I would be able to relate more to like a mother
and son relationship because there's a lot easier for me to talk about my
experience and share my experience with other mothers and daughters I am living
right yeah yeah and I think that's that's fantastic I love the fact that
you are openly sharing your own life experiences with other people because I
think that's that's really that's really authentic that's really pure your it is
also really beautiful because people can genuinely see you know how I was like
for you and what you went through and you can talk talk to them step by step
about what the journey was like so I think that's that's fantastic as a
parent you're always learning like you should be always learning and it's never
too late even if you've made a hundred mistakes before you could always pick up
where you are right now and then change the story it doesn't have to end with
the way it started so it's like I think parents sometimes feel like oh I've
already messed her up or I've already missed two it's too late it's never too
late but you doesn't matter how old the child is they will always have that love
for their parents and if they're they see that their parents are trying
something new they will start to turn around oh you know I first of all I love
that but it's also completely true so for people in the audience if you are
parents and and this is something that you you're thinking like how does that
work well I'll give you an example right now okay I Cindy I'll share that with
you I came back from work and you know I I was in charge okay so my wife she was
she was out she was doing her stuff and I I you know got the dinner ready he sat
down with the kids and we were having dinner and obviously they were they were
kind of messing around and I ended up just raising
voice I was tired and just not listening I just raised my voice a little bit and
then they come down they can't do this quietly just silent so they started you
think they're inside of it I don't like cuz I usually like talking about them
about the day and what happened so afterwards you know towards the end of
the dinner you know I actually apologized look I was just tired I'm
sorry I raised my voice at UK just like you know I told you guys to calm down
and just sit down in Egypt dinner and they they actually accepted that they
understood what happened but it took me you know it required me to take that
step to reach out to them and explain what what what what happened why I
raised my voice and they'd never find I mean we had a fantastic time afterwards
there you know I put them to bed and it was it was great you know yeah we had
read time stories we played games it was fantastic I'm so glad you shared that
story because some parents don't believe in apologizing to their children and if
we want our children to grow up and have dignity dignity and respect for other
people we have to treat them with respect and well you know when no one's
perfect so there are gonna be times where as parents we might get frustrated
and do things do something that we don't really need to do but if we go back and
make it right in with our children no no I was having a bad day I'm so sorry I
didn't yell at you or I didn't mean to like ignore you when you're talking to
me I just have a lot going on the children will understand and forgive you
so yeah it's so important for parents to treat the child like you would want the
child to treat anybody else so it's like that's super important I'm so glad you
share this story yeah yeah oh you're absolutely right and then you know I'll
share a little bit more what happened was this morning before I was leaving
for work they both came up to me and they wanted
to play a game at such a pokemon game by the way / hi big in Pokemon so I was
like well I really can't okay I have to do work and then get ready and then go
to work like I'm busy right now but I tell you what maybe you know if you get
a chance to play it you know management and I come back so like actually after
dinner that's what we did we did play the Pokemon game so the
I'm pointing out is the fact that you know at that time I did say to my kids
I'm busy you know go away you know I'll do it but later on I did fulfill that
promise I did say yes I promise you this earlier
so no matter what we are going to do this right now yeah that's so true
because the children really do hold on to your promises even if you think it's
something small they will hold on to it and it's like really important to say
things and do what you say and mean what you say because they will hold on to it
and as we grow they are things that will just stay with us from our childhood no
matter how old we get and it's important that for parents to understand that
little things do matter and like fulfilling the promises that you make
the kids even if it's a little it's definitely important and that you should
definitely fulfill your promises yeah yeah absolutely
um Cindy I'm actually wondering you know what what kind of things have you seen
like well I know you you've worked a lot of people you've got a charming
community online you have lots of people who are using your app which is called
doll girl by the way for people in the audience it's called doll doll and you
can download it you can just go on the Play Store or the Apple Store and you
can get it from there so city very quickly and what are some
of the things that actually act as force of friction between the the
mother-daughter relationship what have you seen by working with all these
people I think the main thing is that the child doesn't feel her hurt they
might be expressing their feelings about something and they just feel like
they're being ignored or they're being told what they are what they're saying
doesn't matter so that starts to create a division because then it's like if you
don't if you're not listening to me or you don't think what I'm saying matters
then I'm not going to tell you how I'm feeling I'm not gonna tell you what
story on I'm just gonna like ignore you and so that's when it like the bond
starts to split when the child feels like I talked to my mom and she just
doesn't pay any attention or she tells me what I'm saying stupid or they
it she just doesn't understand me so I don't even want to talk to her I don't
feel like no matter what I say it's gonna matter to her so I'd rather just
not talk to her mmm that's really interesting so do you feel that this is
very unique to the mother-daughter relationship or is that something that
that is a you know apply to any parent and toddler
it's it's it's really a parent-child relationship because children do find
comfort in their mom or their father depending on the family dynamics so it's
really a child parent relationship and sometimes not all homes have both in a
dad so whichever parent that is in the home that's the parent that they're
trying to connect with and if they feel like they are not being heard or they
just don't feel comfortable with their mom or dad then they start to shut down
and sometimes they make bad decisions and it just spirals out of control from
there mm-hmm okay but again I just I just want to clarify this you know in
case something that I am missing because as I said before the whole
mother-daughter relationship is quite good not quite quite and special and
especially something very well not alien because obviously you know I have a
girlfriend I you know my wife you know they have a relationship but but the
sense that it's something that I want to understand yes so yes do you think there
are any any to anything specific between the mother-daughter relations of causes
friction yes absolutely um daughters are always watching their
moms whether however they're talking like their body images if their mom is
like oh fat or I ate too much this I ate too much that like they're listening to
the little things that we might think is not a big deal
so um the moms are role models for their daughters and they are watching
everything that you do and they are going to transform and pick up on a lot
of the things that you've done and they're either going to copy you or then
try to do something completely different and
if you want them to kind of mold into something if you want them to move can
be a positive force you want to practice positive um positive self-talk talk to
them about being positive try to try to be positive with them and keeping the
atmosphere mighty and open because that that that relationship is a strong
relationship they are learning how to become a woman by watching their mom and
listening to what their mama remark their moms are saying whether negative
or positive and that does make a really big impact on these days mmm
that is so powerful and for the parents in the audience especially if you are a
mom and you're watching this I I ask you this are you leading by example
absolutely are you being a board model to your child and if your mom are you
being a role model to your daughter and it's not just do as I say they're gonna
do as you're doing yes very true so yeah there you have it guys how important is
it to be a role model to your children I think that's the question we need to be
asking ourselves how important is it for me to be a role model how important is
it for me to show up every single day as the best version as the highest version
of myself for my children and are we doing that if not what does that say
about us
those are the hard questions we need to ask ourselves thank you for sharing that
with us Cindy um how can we overcome some of those issues definitely like we
were saying before college I think we know that you can either hurt your
child's feelings we did something out of either anger or frustration definitely
apologizing because that helps them to understand that you're not perfect but
you are taking their feelings into consideration definitely apologizing and
being thankful for when they do things because I do have a lot of my students
they're like you know I wash the dishes and I think this my thing that nothing
we ever do is good enough and like my mom never says thank you she always
expects me to say thank you so like you're saying leading by example it's
like we want our kids to do certain things but they are looking for us to
show our gratification show that what what they're doing matters so whether it
be cleaning that house or taking out the trash or doing things around the house
or even having a dialog letting them know what's going on in school if they
had like a bad day at school listen to what your child is saying and empathize
with them and not just brush them off like oh you'll get over it you know it's
not that serious because what you might not think is that not that serious to
them it's like everything in the world so try to just take that extra time to
help your your daughter understand what she says matters e that is so deep and
for you know people in the audience I think this is really important the fact
that you know our children we love our children they matter to us they
obviously matter to us right okay we care for them we love them etc but
the real question is do they feel locked do they feel like they're matter because
we can say we can say that yeah you matter to me I love you but then it
needs to be reflected through our actions so I think that's so important
you're so right like when they do do something good are we celebrating it are
we my lighting is that as an achievement
are we hobbies yeah I'll be congratulating them because they feel
like if they do something not so that you're the first one to say oh what are
you doing coming down on them but when they're striving to do things to make
them happy it's like oh that's what you're supposed to be doing and it's
just like well what does that mean like I was trying so hard to like do do right
and like you're not even showing any kind of appreciation or you just don't
care yeah yeah and and what I would suggest
is actually having having a thing like like a secret thing between you and and
the child so far for me with my kids it's a high five so whenever they do
something cool say Oh daddy I did this I was like high five
who's awesome I ever yes you are so that's our thing
okay things like leather fist bump or a high-five or whatever like yeah hog you
can do your thing and as gonna say hugs or so it worried
me sometimes I'm close to the schools and the younger children they just can't
wait for me to hug and then I'm just like in the back of my mind like you
know are they getting the hugs because the way they they're just so happy and
they just can't wait to hug me and I love I love hugging I love that many
kids I love hugging my daughter so hugging is like one of the things
that some of the kids like really just need that hug even it's even if they're
doing something that you have to reprimand them about you can reprimand
them to show them that you still love that like not like great like not make
it seem like okay you might not like the action but don't make it seem like you
don't like that it's like really important to even after your
reprimanding them to show them you know you did something that I didn't like but
I still love you give me a hug give me a kiss I love you saying I love you is a
big deal as well and I think like a lot of us a lot of our kids need to hear I
love you you're doing great you're awesome unique you're you're gonna do
great things and all those positive positive feedback is like really key
yeah you know I I think that is absolutely critical because when you're
representing them will say you did and you made me do this and you made me
angry and you broke this or whatever and there's a lot of use and the pointing
the finger at cetera but what you're actually doing is you're you're taking
you kind of taking the focus away from the situation and now the focus is on
the child right and yes exactly when the focus on the child then yeah exactly
they will feel broken down right but yes in the moment in the heat of the moment
sometimes yeah you do get angry I mean we're all human nobody's perfect
that's fine but then afterwards you're you're absolutely right it's explaining
to them look it was just the situation and sometimes in the situations we both
have we both we both get heated up right things we say things but guess what I
still love you at the end of the day that does not mean I don't love you or I
don't care for you it's just the fact that it was just the situation and in
that situation we we had a back-and-forth but now the situation is
over we resolve the situation I still love you everything is fine and it might
happen again in the future where something like this happens and that's
okay but that does not mean I don't love you and I think that's me yeah so the
way it was not not strained and it's not on the line so the child understand it
was just a situation sorry absolutely
they tend to need that before before then she felt like she knew that I love
her but now it's like she's always and sometimes I mean it can get frustrating
but I have to like take a step back and understand I know mommy and daddy are
not together but that's not it's not your fault
we both love you so much and there's nothing that we wouldn't do for you it's
just you know mommy and daddy are in two different places but it's important for
them to know that both mommy and daddy still love you you might have done but
there's nothing that you could do that with result in us yeah yeah III think
you're you're so right and you know nowadays there there is indeed
a growing number of households where you have a single parent and it I think for
especially for single parents you can just imagine even with two parents like
it's a lot to deal with right but with a single parent indeed you know that that
is truly a very heroic feat that they that they're accomplishing I'm actually
wondering Cindy that maybe you can give us some advice what advice do you have
for single parents who have young children and they they're going to
everything obviously that they have their own lives they have worked they
have to look after the house pay the bills you know do all the other stuff
and still you know they're trying to be good parents what advice you have for
them so what I would definitely suggest is that to try to make individual time
for each of your children especially if you have more than one because sometimes
there's that one child that moves reflected or feels like you don't care
or that they're just you know a body especially if they're like the oldest
and they're watching your younger children they feel like babysitter and
they're not really that comfortable with it but it's like something that's forced
on them and they don't feel appreciated so I would definitely say you know
having that quality time with each of your children reassuring them that you
love them and thanking them for all that they do because although they are your
oldest and you know they can help it's still like a challenge for them because
it's like you know these are not you know not their children it's like
they're just forcing the role oh I'm the oldest so I have to like watch these
kids and I don't want to do that but you know they they're trying to help and be
helpful so I think it's very important to reward your older children who are
helping with the younger children and not to just make it seem like that's
their responsibility because technically it's really not their responsibility
they shouldn't be having to take on that that type of responsibility but you know
seeing that the circumstances what it is it's it's easier to just show the child
that you appreciate what they're doing and that you know they mean so much to
you and take the time to spend time with the older children because sometimes
teenagers get lost in the shuffle and it's like when they're when you're when
they're born and when they get to be in kindergarten to stuff like that parents
are so like protective overprotective with their kids and then when they get
some teenager sometimes it's like you fend for yourself but they need that
love and attention just as much as when they were younger so I would say to try
to pay attention to things that they said be like talk to them about stuff
that they like stuff that they're doing try to like you know even create just
like there's challenges in your house doing things with them to create
memories so that when they look back on the things that they've done in their
childhood there are those positive memories is just knowing that you care
like that's like super important just knowing that their parents here yeah
yeah you're absolutely right and I think for children that reassurance that they
get from their parents cannot be rivaled other people can turn around in this
area as your teachers or you know their friends or whoever it is they could turn
around say oh yeah you know you're great you're awesome this episode ah but I
think the reassurance to get from the parents is its unrivaled yeah it's
critical it's definitely critical and they want to hear it even as they get
older they still want to hear that you love them that they're doing a good job
that they are everything to you they want to hear that and it helps them to
build their self-esteem and helps them to make positive decisions because if
they feel loved and cared they're going to be motivated to want to do better but
if they are feeling like I don't matter to her anyway so who cares whatever I do
I do that's that sometimes where the negative
attitude comes and then they start to spiral and do things that they wouldn't
normally do sometimes trying to get that attention like I matter but you don't
make me feel like I'm important to you so I'm going to do things that's going
to cause you to like have to stop and pay attention mmm yeah yeah
and and you know what Cindy I've actually written it down and I think you
you're absolutely I mean this is something that I've been thinking about
everyone I've been wanting to do but then you know you life happens but
definitely that individual time I've written that down and that's something
that I'm actually going to implement going forward because I think that that
is super critical I spend a lot of the time with the kids but it's not
necessarily individual time where I you know we're engaged in their activity
together on a one-to-one basis we're usually doing something all together so
I think that's that's critical and that's something I'm gonna implement
moving forward and for people in the audience I think that's also you know
fantastic advice that Cindy's given us but Cindy I'm gonna put myself in the
shoes of the moms in the audience okay all right I know it's hard yeah cuz I
don't look like one and I'm not one but I'm gonna put myself in their shoes and
I'm gonna I'm gonna ask you this if I'm a mom in the audience and I have a
strained relationship with my daughter right now there is some sort of friction
how can I start you turn things around what are some of the first few steps I
need to be taking and how can I start that process of bridging the gap and
turning it around well the first thing we want to do is be kind to your child
because sometimes the strain relationship comes from negative
feedback or just not being positive or just not being uplifted so I would say
the first thing you want to do is be kind to your child and ask them some
questions because sometimes they feel like if they talk to you you're either
not going to like let them be themselves and be true to themselves or you might
not give them the answers like straight you know straight forward so be kind ask
them the questions even if it's something that they might say that might
hurt your feelings or you might not be too happy about
let them be able to put that out there because if they're able to be honest
with you then that that's a way to start to build on
build a foundation but if they feel like oh if I say this to my mule if I say
Miss today they don't hear then they're gonna shut down and so definitely be
kind asking questions and just you make time to make what matters to them matter
to you whether it be if they're into video games without it's like a no games
with them at least once a week if they're into even like snapchat or like
Instagram if they're into that stuff try to find a way to make it inch like show
them that you're interested in what they're interested in ask them questions
ask them hey is there anything I can do like can we like do a silly picture or
can we do something that will include both of us like even if it's like
planning a day like on a Saturday make it a day you might plan it say on
October 15 we're gonna take the morning and we're gonna do whatever it is that
you want to do so let's nap it out and see what it is that you want to do and
we're going to do that so just making them feel that they are important and
that they that you want to hear what they have to say
is like so critical because it breaks my heart to hear some of the students and
just like I can't talk to my mom like she doesn't care
and I know deep down it's like I know the moms do care but they probably just
not showing it it's like they they do care and then trying their best but
they're just missing the mark somewhere and if they you know sometimes you just
have to like put in that extra effort to like pay attention and like just be a
little aware and even writing could my daughter she's very shiny and so I have
to write in a journal every day about her day and and then we'll talk about it
because sometimes I'll Google ask her how was your day or when you do today
she's like flying flying and I'm getting to a point where I'm like okay it has to
be more than just fine so one of the techniques I started to use was writing
it down writing how you're feeling down sometimes the kids have a hard time
saying how they in front of your face but if you have
them write it down and then you know and ask for permission and say I know you
wrote this down can I read it don't just take that you know just take it from
them and say well I'm gonna read it now then if you're shutting them down again
so you wanted to be open with them you know is okay if I be there and then
usually that's good yeah especially younger kids they're like excited so
they're like yeah and then you beat it and then you have a discussion and
mm-hmm yeah yeah excellent advice and I just share also that one of the great
ways that you can you can actually spend time with your kids and enter their
world is just asking them you know show me so for example with kids like there
might be two video games or you know I like you said Instagram or whatever then
it's just well that looks cool so can you show me how this works and then
trust me they'll sit down and they spend hours and hours and hours and by the end
of it you'll know everything there is to know about sonic boom and Pokemon
because like I know I off my heart is great so yeah if you just ask them like
show me they're happy they're happy to actually share everything with you is
fantastic and the the second thing is also you you
talked about planning planning together and I think that's great because that
shows you're you're part of a team right you're on the same level and their
opinions matter and I think it's it's amazing to do that you know plan the day
out like what are we gonna do first what we're gonna do next this weekend's
coming so Saturday what are we gonna do ceremony okay yeah it's showing that
you're interested in what they're interested in and you're putting their
feelings and needs first and you're helping them to feel like oh you
actually do want to hang out with me because you're not just telling me what
we're gonna do we're going we're actually coming up with something that
we're going to do together and I get to tell you what I want to do and you're
like receptive to it and we're like going to be able to do some things
together that we both enjoyed yeah absolutely
Cindy tell us a little bit about your online
community does a little bit about dongle Academy and your fantastic app which is
also called dalgo yes absolutely so I do have a Facebook group for moms on my
doll girl app it's free to download right now and I am I have created a
pledge for the girls like I said a check in they have a different check into
Monday Monday through Friday and then I'm going to get to choose how they want
to check in I'm working on different activities for mom and daughter bonding
we're currently in October which is Breast Cancer Awareness Month so I did
send out a challenge for moms and daughters to attend one of the best
cancer walks together and you know take pictures and you know to help give back
to the community it's for a really great cause I'm also creating for so my
daughter Academy is a 10 unit course where I talk about different ways to
help build self-esteem understand the power of self-love and to build their
leadership skills and to also help them to navigate through life and conflict
resolution learning different ways because like a lot of times girls are
competing against each other and in my program I teach working together is a
lot more productive and powerful than trying to compete with one another so
that those are some of the things that I just might like programs and so from my
Delco app there's a lot of it is geared towards the daughters but it also
connects the moms to my facebook group where there's two connecting these
discussions and once are able to check in as well and be somewhat active so I'm
like super excited I had just launched last month we're in the beta beta
testing phase so I'm looking for all the feedback because I want to create
everyone the best they can be and I would reach
between now and the end of next year I'm gonna meet Japanese thousand girls
nationwide and create a really United community with girls and help them to
understand that you know the power lies in movie and not in competing I think
that's a beautiful message and Cindy I think this this really needs to be at a
global level and I'm sure that in the long term that's what you're planning
because I hope you are because yeah I think it really can benefit a lot of
people all over the world and so yes thank you for sharing that um this has
been an absolutely amazing conversation you know what I love to stay on for the
next X amount of hours and dive deep and discuss other things but time obviously
restricts us so can cookie tell us how people can reach out to you where can
they find you and how can they find out more about your app and your community
and dog-hole academy sure so if you go to my website it's doggerel Swan and
calm so let's say my email is down girl squad at gmail.com any but also find me
on instagram at dog girl squad so everything valve girl squad and then
once you go to my website you don't be able to find different communities and
even gain access to that as well beautiful so guys there you have it our
conversation with Cindy Jacob at what an awesome conversation was that okay like
Cindy was so open she shared large of her stories and her experiences and I
shared quite a lot of my own I mean this is just so open so relaxed we felt
comfortable sharing that stuff with you so I hope you find value with it I think
there are some real golden nuggets in this conversation
if you're a parent and especially if you are a mom with a
water then this is absolutely the conversation for you so tell us in the
comments below what what were the golden nuggets or you for me like I said
individual time that's a big one I'm going to be acting on that moving
forward what could you be employing going forward with your kids with your
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and Cindy is just to pay it forward just pass it on to other people who need to
hear this who might be parents who might be potential parents and how awesome
would that be that you share it with them and it helps them find that one
thing that changes the relationship between them and their child Cindy
thanks for being here this was an awesome conversation lest you go to
sometime yes I'm sure thank you so much I agree
if you see time here awesome guys stay awesome hustle hard and I will catch you
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